how can you glow up: your 11h - friendships, networking, and goals
here's the next hypothesis of how you can glow up using your venus persona. take a close look at your 11h!
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11h leo (5°, 17°, 29°), 11h sun, and/or sun aspecting 11h ruler
aligning with a supportive community
join circles that recognize your talent - like fellow creatives, performers, entrepreneurs, visionaries, etc.
avoid clout chasers and flatterers/yes-men: you need honest people, not yes-men.
don't be afraid to create your own community if one doesn’t exist: start a content chat, host a discord, run workshops, etc.
stay where you feel seen - not just included. you thrive where you’re celebrated/loved, not just "tolerated."
nurturing friendships that inspire you
curate your circle like it's an art; magnetism, good vibes, and bold individuals only.
stay close to the people who cheer when you win and keep you in check when you are wrong.
mix fun with loyalty; you need ride-or-dies who’ll dance all night and still defend you when you aren't around.
less acting cool/indifferent; let your warmth, enthusiasm, and loyal side shine.
getting involved in causes you care about
use your platform and presence; speak, perform, and/or create content for causes that matter most to you.
support youth empowerment, equal access to the arts, and leadership development. leo/sun placements here shine brightest when they are uplifting others.
know with confidence that your influence is part of much needed change.
expanding your social network
attend events: fashion shows, gallery openings, live performances, etc.
don’t just network but perform; your presence is magnetic.
be the glue; introduce people, host, throw unforgettable parties, etc.
use social media as your stage; curate a presence that captures your vision and voice.
setting future-oriented goals aligned with your dreams
manifest recognition: awards, features, leadership roles, etc.
align your goals with your inner child’s biggest dreams - if it feels like you're having too much fun, then you’re on the right path.
if the future feels dull, it’s not your real path.
become someone who inspires others to shine just by being themselves.
11h libra (7°, 19°), 11h venus, and/or venus aspecting 11h ruler
aligning with a supportive community
think creative collectives, nonprofits, political strategy teams, artist networks, etc.
be around peacemakers and visionaries - not messy drama magnets.
collaborate instead of compete; you shine brightest in partnerships, not popularity contests.
you thrive in harmony, not hustle/influencer culture.
nurturing friendships that inspire you
allow yourself to be around people who make you feel emotionally nourished.
create rituals/routines around your connections - think brunches, mutual check-ins, etc.
reciprocity is your glow-up non-negotiable in this house.
getting involved in causes you care about
use your voice for diplomacy, not noise.
stand up for what’s fair even when it's uncomfortable.
support causes that bring people together - activism, healing, peace building, etc.
expanding your social network
network at art shows, intimate events, and/or thoughtfully curated gatherings.
lead with connection, not clout - gentle power play gets you farther than any status flexing.
show up at scenes that match your frequency - stuff that is elevated, intentional, and inclusive.
setting future-oriented goals aligned with your dreams
allow yourself to dream of a life where partnerships help you rise and they do not drain you.
ask yourself "how are you shaping culture?" or "how do you want to shape culture?"
11h scorpio (8°, 20°), 11h pluto, and/or pluto aspecting 11h ruler
aligning with a supportive community
don't stay in places where you feel forced to fit in. embody your presence, not polite silence.
observe unspoken power dynamics and learn how to navigate/influence them (without manipulation).
choose quality over quantity; your "group" is 2-3 people who'd help you burn it all to the ground and then help you to rebuild it better.
nurturing friendships that inspire you
go deep, or go home for us scorpio girlies - don't waste your energy on casual friends who ghost you when things get a bit too real.
be a mirror, not a sponge; offer truth/honesty, not just sympathy/empathy.
invest in the friends who confront their shit. you'll only grow when next to you are people who also want to grow.
getting involved in causes you care about
support causes with an edge, not bs fluff; prison reform, death doulas, sexual trauma recovery, environmental collapse aids, etc.
lead from behind if needed: mentor, fund, strategize, etc.
start something powerful and private: anonymous storytelling projects, secret support networks, research, etc.
turn your pain into purpose. someone needs your voice when they themselves can't speak.
expanding your social network
dress to impress, speak bluntly, and don't overexplain.
ask questions everyone else is afraid to.
setting future-oriented goals aligned with your dreams
if your dreams don't scare you, they aren't big enough.
restructure your goals to include leadership, ownership, and/or long-term influence.
never aim to be liked - aim to make waves!
aligning with a supportive community
find people you can think out loud with! try out writers' rooms, discussion groups, book clubs, discord, etc.
speak of which... join online communities that value shared learning and fast thinking - discords, reddit forums, group chats, etc.
explore your immediate environment; your neighbors, classmates, or even the local starbucks' regulars could just be your next friend(s).
nurturing friendships that inspire you
talk often. talk deeply. be playful. you build trust best through steady conversation.
laugh, debate, explore... just keep the dynamic fresh with spontaneous get-togethers and unpopular opinion sharing.
stay close to people who stimulate your mind, not just fill your emotional needs.
small consistent communication = long-term loyalty.
getting involved in causes you care about
advocate for education, journalism, storytelling, etc.
try speaking at local events, write an article, or even start a podcast.
be an advocate for media literacy, local policy, education access, etc.
expanding your social network
attend panels, networking mixers, and workshops - then follow up with some people you meet via dm or email.
use your voice online - newsletter, blog, voice notes, videos, etc.
host a casual meetup that mixes learning with vibes like a book club!
setting future-oriented goals aligned with your dreams
allow yourself to dream of teaching, speaking, writing, or building a social media platforms.
set goals around being understood, not just heard.
consider documenting your journey in real time. your growth can often inspire others when it’s shared and relatable.
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