Pop astrology made the mistake of assigning the Moon, Mars and Venus as the main characters when discussing relationships, when that is not the case...

When I do synastry readings for my clients, I notice that the main challenge in relationships isn't about lack of attraction or love, but rather about lack of commitment. Which is no surprise, because commitment is the main pillar of a relationship, marriage, or connection. Deciding every day that you choose this person, and invest your time and energy on building something sustainable with them, isn't the works of the Moon, Venus or Mars, but Saturn's.

A weak Saturn will lead to wobbly connections that will crack under the slightest inconvenience. A weak Saturn means your relationships won't be able to sustain in the long term, turning your connections into mere fleeting moments. You can't get commitment not because you aren't sexy, beautiful or rich, you can't get commitment because your Saturn is weak.

Moon/Mars/Ascendant (Synastry)❤️

Hi! I'm doing well, thank you for asking....how are you? and this is a very passionate and exciting mix. With the Moon on the Ascendant, there is an instant feeling of home. You naturally understand each other's moods and feel deeply comfortable together right away and Mars into the mix brings strong physical chemistry and a lot of lively energy. Because this is all happening in Sagittarius, the connection will be adventurous, bold..... and very honest if not bold and brutal. You will want to explore the world together and laugh a lot. Just be careful with being too blunt during arguments as that fire can definitely burn hot! A reminder that the 15% discount will end tomorrow....

Spicy Synastry reading 🔥

I've been reading you for quite some time, let me say I love your content 👌🏻.

I had a question about some synastry aspects, and honestly I would be the happiest if this is interesting enough for you to answer to, lmao.

Basically, I have this guy, we have our suns in our 7th and mercury too, like, double whammy. And our moons on the 10th and 7th. And Venus double whammy in the 8th. From what I see, we have a couple of cute conjunctions (Like my Venus to his sun) and quite a couple of trines and squares. He's a Virgo stellium and I'm a Cancer stellium, that would explain why so many double whammies as his 7th is cancer and mine is Virgo

I'm kinda new to this whole ordeal, and I've been reading mixed opinions about the aspects, some say it's toxic, some say it's sweet. I really don't know what to think. Been going a bit nuts trying to learn on my own, lol

Of course I don't let this influence my relationship, I really do cherish him. But I would like to know your opinion on combinations like this(? Is it good, is it bad. Like, the whole combo.

Please don't feel pressured to answer! 🙂‍↕️ I really like and understand your content, so, if you do, thank you so much!

Synastry Aspects (7th house, 8th house, 10th house)

Thank you so much for the love my lady I really appreciate you being here🌻🥰 I'm always down to look at some juicy synastry and reading your ask made me smile so big.....my mouth hurts.

The fact that you guys are Cancer and Virgo stelliums and literally fall right into each other's 7th houses? gagged. That alone is giving major soulmate energy. You are literally embodying exactly what the other person is naturally wired to look for in a long term partner. Having a double whammy with your Suns and Mercuries in the 7th house just seals the deal. It means you guys click effortlessly....the communication flows, the mutual respect is loud and you naturally prioritize each other.

Now, let's spill the tea on why you are seeing those mixed toxic or sweet reviews online. The culprit is that double whammy Venus in the 8th house and let me tell you, this is the heavy hitter. Is it intense? Absolutely. Is it a little obsessive and all consuming? ohhhhh yeeeaaaahhh. The 8th house is Pluto's domain so it is all about soul merging, raw intimacy and deep transformation. Having both of your Venuses here means the physical and emotional attraction is magnetic and crazy deep. People online love to throw around the word toxic for 8th house synastry because it can trigger possessiveness but honestly? When you mix that 8th house depth with the soft nurturing vibes of your Cancer and Virgo placements, it usually just translates to hardcore, ride or die loyalty.

Throw in that Venus conjunct Sun, which is literally one of the sweetest, most affectionate, heart eyes aspects you can possibly ask for and you have a gorgeous balance. The trines keep the energy smooth and those squares you mentioned are honestly just the friction needed to keep things spicy so you don't get bored.....you know?

Overall opinion? it's not toxic but is just incredibly deep. You have the sweet, cute partnership stuff with the 7th house, backed up by the raw, unshakable bond of the 8th house. It is a beautiful synastry chart, so don't let the internet scare you. Enjoy your man!

Sun square sun, moon conjunct Sun (Synastry)

While it's true that squaring Suns can feel like you're both constantly stepping on each other's toes or just having totally different vibes on how to be 🙄 that moon-sun conjunction is literally carrying the entire relationship on its back

His Moon sitting right on your Sun is top-tier synastry tea. Even when your egos are clashing because of those squares, his soul (mama moon) feels incredibly safe and at home with your essence (the sun). It creates this deep instinctual bond that makes the friction worth it.

Now, being real with you if his sun is squaring your other personal planets too, there's definitely going to be some heat. He probably challenges you in ways that feel a bit frustrating or like he is poking at your ego but that mmoon-sun conjunction acts like the glue. It's the reason you don't just walk away when things get annoying. You guys have a built in understanding of each other's needs that a lot of couples with "perfect" Sun aspects actually lack.

So don't let the squares scare you off! Just know that you'll have to put in more work on the communication side to make sure those ego rubs don't turn into full blown drama. You have got the emotional foundation to handle it so just lean into that moon-sun connection when things feel rocky 🌻 and if you're interested I'm running a special birthday offer ending on the 4th of May, every reading you book comes with a free Persona Chart of your choice.