A saint of a person very recently told me my confidence is higher and it shows in person. I have to say, that made me pretty happy but I can't say I've noticed it myself. Normally when I seem confident online I'm just faking it and it quickly turns into cockiness. I have been feeling better, though, about myself and in general. Here's my advice to you based on what I'm doing so far: - Take care of yourself physically (collagen water, multivitamins, exercise, movement, a skin care regimen, hire a health coach, eat more protein, etc. Wherever you know you can improve.) - Get some new clothes. Maybe a nice suit. Express yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Don't be afraid to get a female's perspective. - Get real cologne. Don't rely on Axe body spray and the cheapest aftershave you can find. Play around with some scents to find what suits you. - You must also take care of yourself mentally and spiritually: pray, visualize the life you want, go to church, practice gratitude, rest, read self improvement books as well as some good fiction, allow a little time for video games, etc.) - Make yourself go do something new and fun on the weekend or whenever you have free time (or make some free time by getting up early.) Invite others but don't expect them to come and don't make that a condition of whether you have fun or not. Enjoy the day no matter what. Don't let the news, mayor, or anyone tell you you can't go out and have fun. There's options. - When someone pops in your mind, do something nice for them. You could buy them dinner, send them a quick message letting them know how much you care about them, etc. - Treat yo self. - Be present with company. Focus on them and their needs and thoughts, not your own. Don't be distracted by your phone or all the things on your To Do List. - When all else fails, eat your favorite food and wash it down with a cold beer then make tipsy TikTok videos. I've got a lot of work to do on myself still, but if you put some of these things into practice I promise your life will begin to improve. You'll be happier and people will notice. Oh, and btw... when you're happier, people want to be around you more. 😉 https://www.instagram.com/p/CTfv7xss00U/?utm_medium=tumblr