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I’m not sure if I’m allowed to talk about this topic because I’m wasian but!!!

There are a lot of shifters arguing about ‘race changing’. And here is just what I think about it. I’m also not shaming anyone and not trying to argue with people! I’m also not ‘picking’ a side in this post btw!

Also tw!! This post contains some very sensitive topics that are important to be talked about in general.

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It is very true that there are infinite realities and that means the reality of which you are another race already exists. But you are choosing to shift there and I think that’s what some shifters have a problem with. Let’s talk about people shifting to be asian for example. I personally have experienced a lot of racism because of my asian features. People pulling on their eyes, talking gibberish trying to sound Chinese to me, rumours because of my background and looks. My friends used to be scared of my dad because of his skin color and he was forced to hide in his own house when they came over. That’s why I understand why asian shifters would find it uncomfortable if someone who is white in this reality would want to experience being asian. Especially because racism has come from white people for a long time. Of course it is true that they already are asian in that reality. And racism doesn’t have to exist in every reality. But it exists in this one. And you were aware of this reality when you wanted to shift to a reality where you’re another race.

But race changing in another reality does not necessarily mean you are racist. And I think some shifters mix ‘race changing’ in this reality up with already being that race in another reality. There is no ‘original reality’ and that means that this reality isn’t your ‘default’ reality either. Endless realities means infinite possibilities. We are limitless and that means we aren’t just one body. We are everything and nothing all at once.

But that does not mean you have to be okay with it. Because the truth is you are the master of your own reality. You choose what’s moral and what isn’t.

For example: I detest people who shift to a murder dr. Why? Because it means they wish to be aware of that reality. That is my truth. Does it mean it has to be everyone’s truth? Not necessarily. Endless realities means infinite possibilities. That also means there is a place where that’s totally normal and okay. Don’t get me wrong. I hope the worst for you if you want to be running around just killing people for fun. I hope I still make sense here. This is not moral in my reality. This is disgusting in my reality. Does it have to be the same for everyone? No. But it’s my truth. (I’m absolutely not comparing race changing to murder here. This is just what I find the most disgusting)

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If you are making people uncomfortable with being another race in your desired reality, do not interact with them. You do not get to push your truth onto them. Do not make mindless posts why it is okay to ‘race change’ if you are privileged. Just block people to avoid conflict with the both of you.

Do you have to not post your drs at all? Of course not. Make fun intros, do what you want to do with your blog.

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What I think people should do: stand in each other’s shoes.

Why does this individual want to become aware of a reality where they’re another race?

1. This does not necessarily have to mean they’re romanticising or f3t1shis1ng the race. Perhaps they just love the culture and want to live it. Perhaps they feel such love for the people without romanticising it. I believe are such things as connections. Maybe a person feels so connected to that reality already.

Why is this individual uncomfortable with me being their race in my desired reality?

1. Because you have not been aware of the racism towards their race yet. Let’s pick asians as an example here again (since I am and I don’t want to speak for others because I feel like it’d be disrespectful) They have been hated, especially by white people for a long time. They have experienced racism from said people. Then Korea blows up on tiktok. It becomes a trend. Being asian is trendy now. People want to be asian now. All the past racism is forgotten and now even ‘jokes’ are okay. ‘Ni hao fine shyt’ and cursing in Korean as a white person is trendy now. My friend once told me “you are so lucky to be born in Asia”. She didn’t even mention my country. “Actually my country is very corrupt and I have seen people t0rtured before my eyes, women forced to marry their violators and children r0tt1ng” I said. (Yes, this is supposed to make you uncomfortable) And then they don’t want to talk about it anymore. It is just disrespectful. That’s why wanting to be aware of it can be seen as disrespectful for some people. Because so much disrespect is going on in this reality. ‘Wanting’ to be a race without acknowledging things like that is disrespectful. You cannot only see the good in this reality. Because there is a lot of bad.

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Personally, I understand both sides. I do not mind if a person shifts to be asian or from my country. Do I find it a bit strange that they would maybe want to experience racism and ignoring the corruption? Yes. But that’s my truth. This is because I have experienced said racism and corruption my whole life in this reality. Again, my truth. But in general I do not mind it. I don’t really care and love to read cute intros! This is my truth. It doesn’t have to be everyone’s truth. That being said, I don’t ‘race change’ myself. Why? Because I do understand why it can be uncomfortable. And I would feel uncomfortable myself too with shifting to a desired reality where I am another race. Do those realities exist? Of course they do. Do I choose to be aware of them? No.

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The summary is fuck everyone and only you know your truth

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I hope everyone understood what I’m trying to say here😭 honestly lots of yapping. I just wanted to talk about this because I see it so much. And I find it important that people understand the whole thing. My own experiences do not mean it’s everyone’s experiences but it is the current reality for a lot of people. Also important people know about that and talk about it more. Also lmk if I made any mistakes!

for my shifters who are wanting out of here ASAP, i want you guys to focus your energy and attention on how relieving it’ll feel to be in your dr instead of focusing so heavily on wanting to escape.

it’s a slight difference but you may be surprised by the result.