For my girls who struggle with insecurity or feel like nothing is working when it comes to manifesting ur SP/ex.
I HIGHLY recommend mixing your SP affirmations with self-concept affirmations. And just a reminder: you don't need to work on your self-concept in order to manifest! You can manifest regardless of how you feel about yourself. But working on your self-concept can help A LOT, especially if you're an insecure person like I used to be—someone who doesn't fully believe in themselves and is constantly stuck in the "what if?" thoughts.
"What if it doesn't work?"
"What if he never comes back to me?"
"What if he forgets about me?"
"What if he doesn't text me?"
"What if he's with someone else right now?" 💀
Or maybe you put your SP on a pedestal and become obsessed with getting results.
When you use SP affirmations alongside self-concept affirmations, over time those negative thoughts and insecurities (or even the obsession) start getting quieter. And before you even realize it, your SP isn't on that huge pedestal you put them on anymore.
And when you put YOURSELF at the top, everything changes.
STOP putting your SP on a pedestal, girls. The biggest prize here is YOU, not them. YOU are the Goddess, and your SP is simply someone who wants to be with u. A Goddess doesn't worship the servant, right? The servant worship the Goddess. Don't switch the roles. 😭
At first, taking them off the pedestal might feel difficult, but I swear it gets easier with time (at least that's what happened to me). So, here are some self-concept affirmations you can use alongside the SP affirmations you already use:
- I am irresistible.
- I am unforgettable.
- I am absolutely gorgeous.
- I am perfect exactly as I am.
- I am the prize.
- I am magnetic.
- I am pure attraction.
- I am at the top.
- I am beautiful.
- I am a Goddess.
- I radiate confidence and power.
- I captivate effortlessly.
- I am unforgettable.
- I am worthy of love and attention.
- I am irreplaceable.
- I am always chosen.
- I am a priority.
- I am never an afterthought.
- I belong at the top.
- I am the main character.
- I am in control of my own life.
- I am loved and appreciated wherever I go.
- I don't chase anyone.
- I am pursued, not chasing.
- I don't beg for attention.
- I know my worth.
- I am the moment.
- I am iconic.
- I cannot be replaced.
- My confidence is powerful.
- I am worthy of healthy, mutual love.
- I am secure within myself.
You don't have to use all of them, okay? Just pick the ones you like the most and have fun with them. 🤭 I just wanted to share some of the self-concept affirmations I personally use!
Anyway... I hope this helps you girls! Because doing this helped me SO much.
I finally managed to take my SP off the pedestal I'd put them on. I was getting obsessed with seeing results and constantly wanting something to happen RIGHT NOW. Whenever there was no movement in the 3D, or reality showed me something different from what I wanted, I'd get frustrated and start spiraling. 💀
But now that's changed hehe
