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Perisex trans people you have to actually listen to intersex people and not just occasionally remember we exist when it's time to use us as a talking point. This means you need to accept that our relationships with things like agab and sig will be fundamentally different from perisex people's. This means you need to accept that we will not fit neatly into any model in which you separate people or make assumptions on lived experiences or needs based on agab.
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Something that I have noticed is I know almost nobody my age that goes to a food pantry. I know people who regularly run out of money for food and in general have to eat an unsuitable diet because that’s what they can afford and they still don’t go to a food bank, im not sure if it’s because they’re embarrassed or maybe if you didn’t grow up going you don’t know much about it but if you’re financially struggling I really recommend it. And look into other options for food assistance too like community fridges and gardens and other programs that can assist you, where I live Salvation Army pays for an allotted amount of grocery delivery for low income people every month, in the summer farmers take excess produce to the library to be taken by anyone who needs it, etc. There are a LOT of resources for free food that you can look into especially if you are literally not eating because of your financial situation
Btw if you have dietary restrictions you can often let them know and in many cases they’ll prioritize certain items for you
Global map of community fridges
Urban Harvest - global foraging maps
Food Not Bombs Global Chapter Locations (mostly vegan!)
USA - Find your local food bank
USA - Meals on Wheels free or reduced cost food delivery (age usually 60+, check your specific area's eligibility
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Good thing to have on hand in the midst of food stamps issues
Hi, sorry if this is something I could look up somewhere else but I'm not sure where to look - I've seen a few girls talk about the Baeddel cult and that it fostered sexual abuse, but what actually happened? I've never seen details and it seems like a good idea to know about details since we've got another cult situation on our hands now (isff & friends) and knowing details is good for recognizing patterns of behavior.
If you don't want to answer that's fine, I hope you're having a nice day ❤️
The baeddel community, the actual original one not the vague insinuations people throw around at trans women with feminist politics, formed out of early transfeminist politics on tumblr.
For context, it’s important to note that many of us not only were interested in feminist theory but specifically second wave radical feminist theory, both to critique and to do “trans” readings of them. At the time “queering” as a verb was a popular academic discourse in which you would “queer” a text, film, etc to reveal what is missing from something, what if we read this text through not merely a queer critique but as if it was already affirming of queer difference, identity and experiences? What if we read it as an always already queer text?
So in a sense we were taking this academic literature framework and doing our own transfeminist spin. Dworkin and MacKinnon were popular authors to do this to. We started reading radical feminist texts and lesbian second wave feminist theory as if it was always already transfeminist, already affirming, actually from a certain perspective a pro transfeminist text.
This was very unique and frankly avant garde for even the academy let alone laymen on a blogging site. It attracted a lot of young trans women with burgeoning socialist and anarchist beliefs. We read Whipping Girl and felt dissatisfied with its ultimately liberal politics on gender - political revolution and self-abolition became popular ideas.
There was a large feminist community on tumblr for trans women, partially due to the number of graduate students who would share their reading material for a mass audience. This both became the basis for the later abuses as well as the basis for the challenging of those abuses.
Some transfeminists discovered that “bad” has roots in an olde English word for “hermaphrodite” and “effeminate man.” Despite this word (baeddel) clearly referencing people with visible intersex variations, a trans reading was done of it through bad internet entomology and it became proof of transmisogyny being at least a few hundred year old oppression. People even call it a “slur,” despite there being no evidence of it being used for violence which is usually how we define slurs.
This became a rallying call for a subsection of this transfeminist community who began adopting the term. The baeddel community had its own celebrity theorists - b8l (who was accused of race faking by a Black trans woman who met her in person) and unobject. They amassed a large amount of social influence so that when two baeddel members accused each other of rape - those two got the whole community to isolate the victim. Even their own admissions to what the situation was had a lot of holes - for instance, they claimed the victim (Elle) was actually the rapist for “rescinding consent” and even the rapist (Eve) didn’t deny that the victim was restrained while she the rapist held a knife.
But such is it with cult dynamics, even I went along at first. I still feel a great amount of shame about that. I became unpopular with that crowd because I was willing to call them on it. Eventually the transfeminist community pushed them out - too many people knew and saw through the bullshit.
But a lot of people held on - for reasons that seem familiar. This community had for years spread narratives that the only other people you can trust and will love you is this small clique and hush shhhh don’t call out rape amongst your sisters, we are so vulnerable. Everyone else is a transmisogynist monster, you can trust us we won’t let you get hurt. You shouldn’t make criticisms. It was just kink!
Seeing that come back but in a new social context is certainly disturbing. Seeing the problem become much bigger than it was the previous time, also disturbing. There seems to be less pushback than there was before. I think the fact that the Baeddels were very intentionally aesthetically offputting (not in physical appearances to be clear, but in communication style, politics and a general edgelord alternative vibe to their blogs) made it harder for them to gain traction. It also required more work - you at least had to engage with what other people were reading if not reading and producing readings yourself. There’s less barrier for entry which I think has made this new group far more palatable while also being more extreme in what they’re demanding of their followers.
The cutesy innocent aesthetic is in and I guess that’s easier for people to swallow than a bunch of gutter punks hurting each other. At least the Baeddels weren’t trying to get the community to accept rape and pedophilia as a general practice. Their issue was rape culture when it did come up but they weren’t the types to demand no call outs of any kind to any one, just when it affected their friends. Which is far more typical than what we’re seeing now which is just open acceptance of pedophilia and a zero tolerance policy towards criticisms for rape.
Witnessing this shit happen is why i am still resistant to like “new” “reclamations” of the word “baeddel” because for me it just reminds me of toxic bullshit from 10+ years ago.
I will never be comfortable with it either. I don’t want a new generation of young women to realize the hard way that trust has to be built on deeper foundations than shared identity and not everyone who gasses up sisterhood is actually someone who has your best interests in mind. It’s more than identity and it’s more than rhetoric.
Do they actually respect your boundaries? Are they trying to fuck you the first moment you’re alone when you’ve never had a sexual conversation with them previously? Are they trying to exert some kind of financial influence on you? Does their rhetoric ultimately lead you to isolating yourself socially from others, does it instill a sense of distrust towards the world? Are you told they are the only people who will love you? Is it impossible to provide constructive criticisms or enforce your own boundaries without it being seen as an attack on their personhood?
This is a red flag no matter who it comes from. It is universally true. If you feel like there are exceptions, that it is something that can be exploited by people you thought could trust. This is my advice for everyone in any community anywhere - walk away from anyone who acts like this. These aren’t trustworthy behaviors and I’m not pulling these examples from thin air.
After my experiences in the early 2010s not just with Baeddels but also monetizeyourcat I’m not just not gonna sit quietly while people engage in dangerous behavior and rhetoric or try to spin the Baeddels as actually correct underdogs we should emulate. God no, that was so much stress and anxiety and broken trust. I don’t want any young women to go through that like we either did directly or witnessed around us.
Old heads will remember when monetizeyourcat showed up unannounced to my apartment where I was having a small Hanukkah celebration with some friends. Someone I invited invited her. I did not know they were dating. I had to have a friend ask her to leave which caused all sorts of grumbling from her partners who I was unaware were associated. This shit isn’t a joke, *anyone* can be dangerous and people claiming not to be are usually the most dangerous.
y’know it’s interesting how the idea of “transfem solidarity” is so easy to invoke to defend arbitrary, petty, bullshit things, including shit that would be completely indefensible in any other context. it’s so malleable and fluid, the way people talk about it. Most people don’t really read theory it’s usually just vibes. I’ve seen it deployed as a component of DARVO against victims of abuse way too many times. Been duped by rhetoric and sophistry myself. This is not a unique factor of the transfem demographic. Historically, many cults or “high-control environments” whatever you want to call it were formed by shared identity, shared marginalization. I mean look at People’s Temple or Black Hammer. Or more specifically to trans people, the Zizians.
That’s the danger and power of rhetoric. But not rhetoric by itself. All of this exists in socioeconomic context.
This reads like the middle of a 3 page paper and I have no idea what's going on. Where are the other pages????
there aren’t any other pages.
do you have a more specific question?
Not really, can you explain...fucking everything? Not in my life have I witnessed transfem solidarity being used to excuse abuse. I mean don't write it out yourself, but at least a lead to go learn about this from?
Oh I see. Yeah I can see how that would be confusing. Well, in the interest of sensitivity towards survivors of abuse since I don’t know exactly who’s gonna see this post I’ll mention two such incidents that were a long time ago (literally, like over 10 years ago at this point) and were widely talked about.
Content warnings: Rape, abuse, discrimination, transphobia, specifically transphobia against trans men.
One such example of the rapist and abuser tactic of being a prolific blogger and kind of a keyboard activist who wrote a lot of posts about how trans women are integral for trans women and you can only trust trans women was (sigh) monetizeyourcat AKA MYC. There are still some old posts up on my blog about her. Literally from back in the day people who knew her:
1, 2.
One other was “b8l” who was one of the original “baeddel bloggers.” Here’s a short retrospective post explaining who the baeddel bloggers were. Here’s a longer one, more detailed and in-depth on their ideology and has more sources. If it seems odd that i’m bringing up things that happened in 2014-2015, reading through that last post kind of makes it more clear that even movements that people can claim are “over and done with” have connective tissue to today.
All of the perpetrators I just mentioned fucking Posted Through It in the most egregious ways. Nobody willingly took accountability, people had to fucking proactively kick them out of their social circles and it took significant time and effort.
But there is one thing from the original post that I do think it’s necessary to expound on: The socioeconomic context of this. Because beliefs don’t happen in a vacuum, and neither does sexual abuse and rape. These things don’t simply happen because of “evil individuals,” even though I think it’s OK to describe rapists as “evil” because of what they did.
Transfeminine people, especially youth, are particularly vulnerable to abuse. Why is this? Because they are often abused or ostracized by their own families, and in places like the USA where there is practically zero social safety net, accepting an offer to join a sketchy housing situation by an older person in the same demographic as you is more likely. This kind of thing does not only happen to transfeminine people of course. But afaik it’s statistically slightly more common.
The other thing that makes us vulnerable to abuse is because we are feminized subjects in society. By “feminized subjects” i guess you could say “Treated in a woman-like way.”
Unfortunately, if you’re a woman, you will not only be treated as a woman by men, but also other women.
So, it’s a double-struggle, involving both transmisogyny and capitalism, at bare minimum. I don’t really know what this kind of struggle would look like for an ultra-wealthy trans person, so I’m mostly speaking about the working class here.
My reaction to this fact is not, of course, to say that people who merely don’t experience transmisogyny are a class of enemies. I know and have known trans men who are ardent feminists. Where, I say, is the ruthless criticism of parents who abuse and abandon their own children? Of religious leaders, politicians, and business owners who spread hate? And, lastly, if someone’s “found family” is an abusive found family, why can’t we criticize that?
In the current economic order, “found family” has basically the same inherent problems with its power dynamics as one’s “original family.” If you don’t make a significant portion of the household income, if you don’t own the house, if your name is not on the lease of that apartment, you may actually be an extremely vulnerable subject within your own household.
This is due to the current mode of economic production in society. And who maintains that mode of production?
The real and primary enemy, the particular class that is the biggest obstacle for transfeminine people, all trans people, all LGBT+ people, and the entire working class, is the fucking bourgeoisie. The capital-owning class.
But back to domestic abuse.
It’s not a sign of a socially coherent community if your town (or your state, province, county, parish, etc) has an intermittent exodus of LGBT+ youth out of it. That indicates there is something deeply wrong with your entire society.
I don’t look at places that were recipients of queer exoduses and managed a half-baked truce like, for example, San Francisco, New York City, Portland, and (sigh) Seattle as success stories. Rather, they became the sites of new forms of immiseration, even as they (and other cities, and some entire states) were held up as some kind of safe haven. Speaking generally, working class LGBT+ people in the modern era have historically had a slightly better time in cities as opposed to small towns, but a safe haven where you can’t afford the rent and have to live out of your car isn’t very “safe” in practice.
Note that one of the things that people (correctly) note as an indicator of some degree of safety is the presence of local laws against discrimination and the presence of the designation of “hate crimes.” But these have some inherent problems with them, such as the fact that if you are dependent on your abuser for income or housing, you kind of can’t accuse them without your life being turned upside down.
So, with all this in mind, one of the important things to consider about anyone’s political views is “Who benefits from believing this?”
If you are reading a set of beliefs that set trans women or transfeminine people as, like, God’s Perfect Special Victim Princesses who have zero capacity to do harm to anyone, that is a set of beliefs that will make it hard to distinguish between victim and perpetrator in cases of abuse between transfems. It can also be used as a smokescreen by white trans women to obscure their (our) own white privilege. I’ve seen that happen before as well, many times.
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some hyper famous artists like Van Gogh transcend overratedness and become underrated because they're so normalized. Like I'll look at a van Gogh and I'm like wait this really is amazing you guys don't get it
Shakespeare is like this
Every time I see a Van Gogh that’s not one of his better known pieces it absolutely blows me away
Have you seen this shit my liege? smh unreal
Some is better than none. Some is better than none. Some is better than none. Walking for three minutes, is better than nothing. Drinking a glass of water and eating a snack, is better than nothing. Wiping down the counter, is better than nothing. Small things are not nothing. Small things are not nothing. Small things are not nothing. You don’t have to achieve grand things if all you’re capable of right now is the smaller things. They are still achievements. Don’t do nothing just because you don’t think you’re capable of doing bigger things, just do something you’re capable of today. 
Many of y’all don’t know what tone policing is and that’s embarrassing.
Tone policing is when someone ignores your argument because you were emotional about it. It is not tone policing to ask someone to reflect on / update their words while sympathizing with your point, because the words you said are materially harmful in some way.
For example: It is materially harmful to paint people as being transandrophobic because they aren’t transmasc, that’s similar to how the TRFs and radfems and incels happened. The people asking or suggesting that you try naming the group by action (transandrophobes) are NOT “tone policing” you, they are pulling you back from a hateful pipeline that if you aren’t careful, you will entrench yourself in, just like those other groups. You will remove anyone’s ability to show allyship to you, so helping pivot the anger is an act of community.
Be willing to accept being checked by your community, or you may not have one.
[Edited from a post reply I wrote.]
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What I mean when I do not control the hyperfixation.
What I mean when I do not control the hyperfixation.