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honestly I think I lost a lot of faith in humanity when hogwarts legacy happened. thousands of people heard "jkr is transphobic" and didn't think that was enough reason to not buy a mediocre videogame and it became a runaway success. it was such a basic show of decency and it was too much. return the shopping cart ass dilemma. I'm a misanthrope now
That was really disturbing, and also extremely confusing to me. I genuinly started to question if many people just don't know anything about the world and the context in which the media they consume is made.
"Rowlings transphobia is extremely well known" I always thought, because HOW THE FUCK COULD YOU MISS IT?? And yet I have met multiple people that mentioned playing the game. And they didn't even admit to transphobia, or tried to vaguely gesture towards some misunderstood death of the author concept, or defended JKR, they just mentioned the game like it was the most normal thing to do.
other trans people having an absolute melt on twitter about a trans guy sharing info about vaginal atrophy because “real trans men don’t use that” are betraying their belief that the vagina’s only function is sexual. that all health related to the vulva and vagina are inherently for the purpose of piv sex. these people are nothing more than shriveled little misogynists.
vaginal atrophy, even if that part of the body is never used in a sexual manner, can cause physical cramping akin to menstrual pain, dryness, itching, burning, watery discharge, as well as frequent uti’s and urinary incontinence.
if you ever think you have to live this way you don’t, it’s as easy to fix as getting an estrogen suppository from your doctor, which stays localized and does not effect the body’s hormone levels whatsoever.
sexual health education and information sharing is far more important than your fucking dysphoria.
whether you use that part of your body for sex or not is fucking irrelevant. that part of our bodies is a lot more than just something for someone else to fuck, if you think otherwise i have to ask, can you feel the misogynistic brain worms wriggling around in there? do they itch? i feel like they must itch.
The vagina is a muscle. There are a bunch of other muscles around it that expect it to be a particular strength and shape. If it atrophies they can get out of balance, which is what causes the cramping. Please get treatment for atrophy if you can!
genuinely makes me angry when someone even insinuates that Loid could beat Yor in a fight. that woman is kicking his ass. if they meet each other in a back alley he will be running for his life.

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this picture of a chip pan oil fire from the wikimedia cookbook is so strikingly sublime
filthy, filthy read
1. Does Ebert make a moral judgment on the fannish obsessions he describes here?
Yes. Obviously. He characterizes these fans as self-absorbed, socially deficient, intellectually incurious, emotionally dependent on formula, and “excruciatingly boring.” That is not neutral description. It is a negative judgment about their character and the way they live.
2. Does Ebert imply that a depth of knowledge about a fannish subject is inherently bad on its own?
Not quite. His stated objection is to people using expertise as a display of devotion, a source of status, or a substitute for broader interests and spontaneous social interaction.
I would argue that the rest of the review makes his position a little more clear, though.
3. Does Ebert state that this pattern of behavior is a quality of all fans?
No. He says “a lot of fans,” “extreme fandom,” and “such people.” He is identifying a type of fan, not making a literal universal claim.
4. Did the reader see a mildly critical opinion containing the word ‘fandom’ and immediately succumb to an emotional reaction rather than fully read and engage with the passage?
Calling people socially inept, intellectually empty, self-absorbed, and excruciatingly boring is not “mildly critical.” It is openly contemptuous.
A person can understand the passage perfectly well and still object to it. Disagreement is not evidence of failed reading comprehension, no matter how many condescending bullet points one wraps around the accusation.
5. Did the reader see the words ‘socially inept’ and immediately assume this refers solely to autistic people? Why or why not?
“Socially inept” does not mean “autistic,” and Ebert does not explicitly mention autism.
But the behaviors he associates with social deficiency overlap heavily with stereotypes about autistic people: intense specialist interests, encyclopedic knowledge, reliance on predictable conversational scripts, and difficulty improvising socially.
The word “solely” is doing dishonest work here. The relevant question is not whether the description refers exclusively to autistic people. It is whether Ebert treats traits commonly associated with autistic people as evidence that someone is socially or intellectually defective.
6. Is the job of a cultural critic to ‘let people enjoy things?’
No. Critics are allowed to criticize fandom, fan culture, consumer identity, nostalgia, and the social uses people make of art.
Readers are equally allowed to criticize the critic’s assumptions, generalizations, and contempt. “A critic’s job is not to let people enjoy things” does not mean every hostile remark made by a critic is therefore insightful.
There is also a rather important contextual omission here. Ebert did not write this as a general essay about fandom in the age of twitter, harassment campaigns, shipping discourse, or whatever present-day fandom behavior the quotation is now being aimed at.
He wrote it in his February 4, 2009 review of Fanboys, a road comedy set in 1998. So this is a late-2000s review discussing a particular stereotype of 1990s fandom. The film follows a group of friends who plan to break into Skywalker Ranch so that their terminally ill friend can see The Phantom Menace before he dies. Ebert’s argument is that the movie identifies too closely with its heroes and should have mocked them more. The rest of the review makes his position much less ambiguous. He calls their fandom “an idiotic lifestyle,” describes them as “tragically hurtling into a cultural dead end,” dismisses their knowledge as having “no purpose other than being mastered,” and ends with a joke about their mothers cleaning up after them.
¡Hola, gente! Para quienes anden por Buenos Aires, este sábado de 14 a 19, la Mocha Celis hace un festival que va a tener emprendimientos, gastronomia, feria del libro y shows. Para quienes no lo conozca, la Mocha Celis es un bachillerato para travestis, trans y no binaries, así que todos los puntos de la Mocha Fest van a estar dedicados a este sector de la comunidad y sus estudiantes y en honor a una de sus egresadas, Jenny Anahir Ruiz, que lamentablemente falleció.
La Mocha protege, educa y acompaña uno de los grupos más vulnerables ante los ataques de este gobierno de mierda. He visto como se involucraban a defender con la parte legal, con el cuerpo y con el cariño a victimas de los desalojos ilegales en CABA. Son un equipo muy comprometido que busca activamente lograr estos momentos de comunidad. Así que si están cerca o necesitan un plan para el sábado, les propongo unirse a esta celebración para darle un poco de esperanza a estos días tan oscuros, ¡por favor, difundan!
Happy pride month to the bisexuals

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The (European) sun is a deadly laser, stay safe everyone
☝️🤓 it’s because the further you move toward the earth’s poles, the lower the angle of the sun is at the hottest parts of the day, meaning the radiation hits your whole body, causing it to feel 10-20 degrees warmer than the thermometer reading will tell you. People from tropical climes, aka close to the equator, are used to the sun’s radiation hitting a much smaller target- their head and shoulders.
Also the further you move toward the poles the more pronounced the difference between the length of day and night is. Worst part of a far-north (or south) heatwave is it doesn’t get dark long enough for meaningful cooling.
It’s not the heat. It very literally is the sun.
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Whatever, here is my decadent hamster fan art with no AI used
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