never forget that you, yes You tme person reading this, are not immune to the transmisogyny you have been taught your whole life.
you, yes You can call yourself a transfeminist all you want, but are you actually listening to the transfems in your life? are You giving them the grace you give your fellow tmes? are You assuming the worst of them,quick to jump to the defense of anyone else? are You behaving like an authority on their issues, or do you acknowledge your place in discussions of transmisogyny? are You actually a good ally, or are you just patting yourself on the back for reblogging the right posts while jumping at your transfem friends' throats at the slightest provocation like everyone else?
you wanna be a good ally you gotta earn it. you want a transfem's trust you gotta earn it. are you, yes You tme person reading this, doing enough? are you doing right by them? think about it. you are not immune.
