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no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

there it is! "a feminist was too much of a bitch to me so that's why i'm bot a feminist" give a big round of applause folks we got there

i literally just said i agree with the movement but dislike the community but reading is hard ig :/

what you said was "i hesitate to fully commit to feminism because some feminists are assholes" but reading your own words is hard ig :/

i hesitate to fully commit to the transfeminism community because ive seen extremely widespread opinions on both plural people and mixed people that are fucking apalling.

i just don't know how else to explain to you that someone who is a girl in a body that was afab is cis, definitionally. whether she's a headmate or not, it doesn't matter. "transgender woman" isn't a gender, it's a relationship to womanhood that is based in a lived experience, one that someone afab does not have. do you argue about letting white people talk about being "racialized" because they're plural too? do you hesitate to commit to antiracism because some people are just too mean about white people's headmates? i can't stress enough again that i am a plural transfem. but the headmates i have who are men are, shock horror, not trans men. because our body was not afab, and regardless if whether you're a fictive or a factive or an introject or what, you only have the lived experience of the body you live in. that's how being alive works. this doesn't have to be so hard.

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

there it is! "a feminist was too much of a bitch to me so that's why i'm bot a feminist" give a big round of applause folks we got there

i literally just said i agree with the movement but dislike the community but reading is hard ig :/

what you said was "i hesitate to fully commit to feminism because some feminists are assholes" but reading your own words is hard ig :/

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

there it is! "a feminist was too much of a bitch to me so that's why i'm bot a feminist" give a big round of applause folks we got there

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

why are u 'campaigning' against a trans woman. like why. she's just one fucking person. i think you just hate her and want her dead.

i had to unfollow someone for this today so (apparently) hot take but if you were afab you cant speak as a transfem and transfems are entirely right to shout down your attempts to. this includes cis people calling themselves "honeybee transfems", bigender people calling themselves "transfemmasc", every intersex person afab regardless of what hormones you produce, and "transfem" headmates whose hosts/bodies were afab. you people gnaw at the bars of the cage you put us in in desperate attempts to speak over us and discredit our arguments when we start to discuss the cage within earshot and im fucking sick of it. words fucking mean things and you cant just vibes your way into the societal forces that make us transfem. choke on it

"X did nothing wrong" actually no, X did a lot of things wrong. X fucked up. But I also know that people like X live their lives under a microscope, and that accusations against them tend to get magnified by bias both conscious and unconscious alike, and frankly it scares the crap out of me that you have not only chosen not to question what you've heard, but that you are seeking such drastically disproportionate vengeance on a total stranger. that's not normal.

this post has generated a staggering number of comments/replies/asks all saying some version of "Nice try laundering your argument, but we all know you're talking about [specific person], and i hate you for defending them." and literally none of them have correctly identified who i was thinking about when I wrote this, but all of them have named a trans woman as said specific person.

Multiple people will come out and very clearly explain why trying to rehabilitate the idea of "transmascvoicesproject" is a bad idea and there's still people coming out of the woodwork insisting that "no, we're actually good!" while agreeing with the original in his notes and tagging their posts with "transandrophobia"