Bringing this post back because I wanna talk about it more.
Read an article in the local paper submitted anonymously by a woman who got a DUI two years ago.
My first instinct was to hate her. Because I hate drinking and driving. Viscerally. Anyone who knows me knows how intense I can be about impaired driving of all kinds (drunk, high, tired). Itâs not worth it. It gets people killed. I lost a good friend to a drunk driver. Donât ever. Iâve gotten in fights with people! I have stolen keys!
âDonât everâ was, in fact, the point of her writing it. But not because of the danger posed to others. Because of how much a single DUI had ruined her life for two straight years. This also didnât garner much sympathy from me, because obviously the REAL reason not to drink and drive is because you could kill someone. What do I care if someone irresponsible is inconvenienced?
Anyway, this woman was pulled over after leaving a bar where she had two beers to drive a few blocks to her friendâs place. This didnât really make me more sympathetic because Iâm a hardass when it comes to drinking and driving, but she wasnât pulled over for any kind of impaired driving. She was driving perfectly. It was clearly the kind of stop that happens late at night when the cops are just fishing. The cop made up something about her stickers being placed wrong or a faulty light, before making her take the normal physical impairment tests (as someone with dyspraxia these scare the shit out of me, but thatâs neither here nor there) which she passed just fine. In fact, her driving was perfect, her reactions were perfect. But then came the breathalyzer. And her blood alcohol was just too high.
And the rest of article was her detailing her attempts since to try to get her license back.
The for profit companies she had to take classes from, the for profit companies who make you pay to install the breathalyzer in your car, how if you are able to plead poverty to get aid for that installation you also have to commit to going once a month to a for profit company that will calibrate your discounted breathalyzer and how if you donât go your car will get remotely bricked and how the pandemic interrupted the hours of these places without notice meaning her car needed to be towed when she missed an appointment after the place was closed when she expected it to be open, how this added to her sentence, how she lost her insurance.
As I read this, I thought, sure, about how much I hate drunk driving. About my knee-jerk, visceral lack of sympathy. And I asked myself:
Does any of this actually make me feel safer?
And it doesnât. It doesnât make me feel any safer at all. This woman was writing this article to say âDonât drink and drive. Not even once. Itâs not worth it.â But what I got from it was, these punitive measures arenât preventing people from drinking and driving. Theyâre just⌠giving cops and for-profits fun new ways to mistreat and exploit normal people. People we, people I personally, can feel disinclined to protect because of judgments we have about them.
Meanwhile, people are still going to drink and drive.
And I thought about what would work. What would make me feel safer. And you know what would make me feel safer? If people who hadnât planned ahead could still get a ride home. Iâd much rather someone call the police (or a service thatâs one of the many we institute to replace them) and go âI drove here but I donât think Iâm safe to drive homeâ and have the reply be âsomeone will be right thereâ. Then a pair of public servants show up, one to drive you home and one to drive your car home, and you get home safe.
I would love for traffic safety to be, like, the actual goal of how we manage traffic laws.
But more than that, punitive attempts to control people, blatant disproven behaviorism, doesnât work. If your political philosophy is about finding the âbadâ or âundeservingâ and ensuring they struggle, I canât identify with it. Itâs hard to come up with a type of âcommon crimeâ that I have more disdain for than drinking and driving, but disapproving of the way this woman has been treated is not the same as justifying her actions. I donât care! I donât care if she learns her lesson! I donât care if I like her! Everything youâre doing to her for a single breathalyzer failure is not keeping the roads safer!
The moment she failed the breathalyzer, you shouldâve just given her a ride. Thatâs all I need.
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