its infuriating watching people talk around transmisogyny on this website like its some sort of abstract issue, and not an indicator of attitude. heres one experience i had: a transmasc coworker became obviously uncomfortable when i mentioned transmisogyny and started handwringing about female socialisation. less than a week later he sexually harassed me on the job.
like do you get it? he thought he couldnt harm me because hes not like other men and implicitly understands what women want, and im not like other women and i am therefore not liable to be harmed.that i do not want this doesnt enter his head.
but it cashes out exactly the same doesnt it? he uses power to put me in my place. he sees me as a sex object, he feels safe to indicate this to me. he, by whispering an unsolicited comment to me about my body in a quiet moment, perpetrates just one more utterly unremarkable instance of a man seeing a woman as beneath him. because in neglecting transmisogyny he has become just like the men he presumes his difference from. and if you dont get with it, youll do just the same :)














