the memory hurts but does me no harm

tmi actually stands for tumblring my information

no one knows if watching a new tv show is possible

your mom is a baked potato your dad's dumb ass is asparagus and you are a god damn green bean

like the completely unironic disgust for bottoms and bottoming in this fandom is so bizarre like does it not strike people as obviously homophobic to write think pieces about how making xyz ch a bottom is emasculating and feminizing them ?! and then people just eat that shit up!!!!

like people will earnestly frame Being A Bottom as like a ch flaw or trauma response for someone to cure themselves of lol. they LOVE to do this w/ armand bc they clearly think that bottoming and especially being an exclusive bottom is like embarrassing and degrading, esp for survivors of sexual abuse, so to heal and recover from his trauma he should become a dom top and in fact depicting him as a sub bottom is like slandering and woobifying him. like you’d think this framing of bottoming as being socially and psychologically regressive and sexually passive in comparison to topping or indeed feminizing and emasculating would obviously be offensive on its face but i guess not

you see this a LOT in how ppl talk about DM where its seen as a given that daniel will like heal armand sexually (?!) and that obv armand would become a top with daniel and in fact him bottoming for daniel would be degrading and regressive. like being a bottom is about enjoying taking it up the ass this fandom sucks so fucking bad

like the completely unironic disgust for bottoms and bottoming in this fandom is so bizarre like does it not strike people as obviously homophobic to write think pieces about how making xyz ch a bottom is emasculating and feminizing them ?! and then people just eat that shit up!!!!

like people will earnestly frame Being A Bottom as like a ch flaw or trauma response for someone to cure themselves of lol. they LOVE to do this w/ armand bc they clearly think that bottoming and especially being an exclusive bottom is like embarrassing and degrading, esp for survivors of sexual abuse, so to heal and recover from his trauma he should become a dom top and in fact depicting him as a sub bottom is like slandering and woobifying him. like you’d think this framing of bottoming as being socially and psychologically regressive and sexually passive in comparison to topping or indeed feminizing and emasculating would obviously be offensive on its face but i guess not

people in this fandom are so deeply unable to be normal about gay men it’s really remarkable

call louis or lestat woman coded one more time