So sunday or Monday I'm gonna post some pictures of my three canes (one was a gift, two I got at a local thrift store) that I customized to all hell but I feel the need to say something:
I have been wanting a cane for years now because I struggle with a few different disabilities that all make each other worse, and I always thought a cane would make walking and existence in general much easier. I got one. I was right. But I had a lot of thoughts like "I don't feel like I'm disabled enough to warrant this" or "ill look like im faking for attention" or "once my disability is visible I will have a harder time finding work and experience more difficulties socially" or "I've technically survived without a cane for a while so maybe I don't need it."
EVEN THOUGH I used to use a wheelchair (still need one imo) to get around. and ever since I was forced to sell it when i was homeless, I've missed it every day since. It was a part of me, it helped me immensely. Despite all that, I still hesitated to get myself a cane because of internalized anxiety and ableist things I've been told over and over.
If youre able to, please get one anyway.
Yes, you're disabled enough.
No, you're not taking from someone else who might need it more or taking up too much space.
If you think something will make your life easier and will help you, like a mobility aid, get one if you can. That's what they're there for. Don't let anyone tell you you don't really need it or that you can live without it.
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