Stuff and Junk

I have never seen so many suits and khakis IN MY LIFE. People who accidentally wore jeans went home and changed.

The community took it as a rebuke. We drew in closer to eachother, and felt unwelcome everywhere we thought we had friends before.

And I had people later tell me “You know I support you, just… I didn’t want anyone to think I was.” First off, I DON’T know you support me. Not if you refuse to, for one day, change nothing about your life to show it. Second off… why is that such a terrifying thought to you?

I remember before rainbows were a “gay thing”. They were everywhere. Church walls next to arks. School walls next to sunshine faces. People have VOLUNTARILY abandoned every other use. I have HEARD PEOPLE SAY they just couldn’t use rainbows anymore because people would think of “gay stuff.”

So I know this is a joke, and a stolen one at that, but you’ve done this to yourselves. If someone is so terrified of being perceived as queer that they will INSTANTLY abandon something they like if it has queer germs on it now or something, then they don’t deserve refracted light.

customer walks up

me: sue?

customer opens the box, frowns, and sticks her finger in the pizza: i didn’t order pepperoni

me, with a voice devoid of any emotion: ……. sue?

customer: oh! no i’m (name)!

the actual sue, materializing at my elbow: is that a pizza for sue?

me: would you like some free breadsticks to eat while we remake you pizza? another customer touched it

‘another customer’ sheepishly mumbles sorry

male customer standing right in front of me turns to look

me: jennifer? iced vanilla latte?

customer says nothing, takes the drink, shoves straw in, takes a long sip

customer: i wanted this hot. i ordered a small hot decaf skinny vanilla latte.

me: are you jennifer?

Kyoshi, however, never doubted herself.  Even without being arrogant, she always saw that what she did had to be done.  She took what were the only options.  You see this even in the advice she gives to subsequent Avatars: Be decisive.  Be final.  Commit.

Because of that, she was one of the few (Maybe only) Avatars who was able to completely encompass the powers available to them.  No part of her subconsciously didn’t want to use them.  There was no hesitancy buried so deep that she even didn’t realize it,   Unlike Aang, or Roku, or Koruk, or Korra, or Yangchen, or even Wan, she was able to give herself over totally to whatever she was doing and hold nothing back.

Airbenders change their approach to solve problems. If one approach isn’t working, they do another one. Aang constantly does this, in the show, he doesn’t want to kill Ozai, so he just goes out of his way to find another option to killing him.

Show an airbender a mountain, and they’ll use their air bending let them go around it.

Waterbenders change themselves to solve problems. If their approach isn’t working, they change themselves to best solve it. Korra was exceptional at bending earth, fire, and water, because she was good at changing herself to use different elements. Her only trouble was air, but by the end of the first season or so, she had changed herself to use it properly and used that change to help her take down the equalists.

Show a waterbender a mountain, and they’ll use their water bending to help them create the best path up the mountain, and then use it to best go down the mountain once their reach the summit.

Firebenders change their emotions to to solve problems. If their approach isn’t working, they get passionate enough to change it. That’s Roku’s strength. He never had a problem with the power to stop Sozin, he just had to work up the passion to do so.

Show a firebender a mountain and they’ll rage, and rage, and rage, until they get passionate enough to burn their way over the mountain.

And then there’s earthbenders.

Earthbenders don’t change anything to solve problems. If people tell them their approach won’t work, Earthbenders take a stance, plant their feet, and do it anyway.

Because it takes a certain type of people to slam their hands into rocks daily. And that requires a will and conviction strong enough, that when they are shown the biggest, baddest mountain on earth, they don’t go around it, they don’t flow over it, they don’t burn up it. All they do, is take a stance, plant their feet, and whisper…

“Move.”

And should the earthbender prove strong enough, and their will powerful enough, the mountain whispers back.

“Okay.”

Kyoshi wasn’t strong because she was an avatar.

Kyoshi was strong because she was an earthbender, through and through, with the sheer frigging balls to tell the world to move.

Young bull elephant politely stepping over a walkway at a nature preserve 

I think they got the message 

How to summon your cat. 

Photographing in the forest 

This praying mantis standing its ground