When a black person states that something you did was racist, chill the fuck out. Its annoying dealing with you panicking trying to dissociate yourself from racism. If you're not black, black people already assume youve said nigga or its variant at least once in your life. If they're interacting with you and bringing something up, its because they want you to stop doing that so they can still interact with you(if ur already friends)
You WILL be racist. You WILL do racist things. You have ALREADY done both. Learn and move on. There's no ideological purity you can hold on to, i promise. Proving you can take the criticism without making it a big deal and practice what you preach is better than any clean slate.
Be the kind of person black people don't have to gamble on. Shut up and lock in
This last part is very important. You are human. You exist in the context of the systems you were raised in. You will screw up!
You arenât irredeemable for one error. Even many errors. The thing that is irredeemable is insisting you didnât do anything wrong.
Show that you care, you listen â that you donât invalidate others even if you disagree.
This is also a post about any situation where thereâs a power or privilege imbalance.






















