road head got me spasming, legs busting through the floor of the car like fred flintstone. ran outta gas and were still making it home. yabba dabba doo!

could you lie

biting off more than i can chew. but. well. i guess i like to bite

No longer allowed to help my dad in the garden because i picked up the shovel and he saw “a gleeful and cruel darkness in my eyes”

things used to be $5

sometimes mental illness does make you act like a piece of shit. when my ocd was undiagnosed a couple years back I was absolutely insufferable because I could not control my confession/reassurance and rumination compulsions at all and I fucking hated myself so everything had to be morally pure or I would spiral and I made myself believe and said some things that made my personality not the best. sometimes healing means knowing that you are not perfect. sometimes mental health issues make people act awful and that does not give you the right to demonize and dehumanize them or the disorder. yes even that disorder. and sometimes you have to forgive yourself for the bad things you believed. you are not perfect and that is a good thing.

“be gay do crime! but sex is yucky and crime is wrong!” ass website

#'this is present in the text' is often a good first step #but those second and third ones (naming it; describing its function) are vital (via @elucubrare)

You need to kill the lawyer in your brain that keeps insisting that your blorbo has to be an Ethical Dom Top™. You need to stop your knee jerk desire to pathologize and explain away a character's sexual desire to dominate as a symptom of their mental illness or abusive childhood. You need to stop thinking of a desire to dominate as inherently less intimate than other sex acts. You need to stop framing dominance as something to be fixed or that will eventually change with the right partner. You need to stop twisting a Dom's role in the bedroom into one that is secretly subservient because they're 'actually' beholden to their sub's desires - "My Dom doesn't WANT to dominate, he just wants to fulfill his sub's desire to BE dominated. When you look at it that way, they're actually the submissive one!!" - STOP!!! STOP DOING THAT!!!!