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however there are many many false things that are being said about me. ive never sexually assaulted anyone, im not ableist, and i do not fucking harass people. i leave them alone, something that other involved seem to not know how to do. unlike them, i am choosing not to list any names.

My ex and i both made a lot of mistakes. we are children. i do not make fun of his physical or mental disability, and i continue to worry about him because we were friends for a long time even before we started dating.

my ex friends and i had a mutal agreement that if we were ever uncomfortable, the behavior that had caused it would stop immediately. i was never told that they were uncomfortable, and i cannot tell when people are uncomfortable due to my inability to pick up on both tone and body language. this was not helped by Friend 1 having problems with communicating WITH said body language and tone, so if he was uncomfortable, it should have been vocalized.

onto my own harassment, constantly messaging me when you are asked not to, messaging my friends, even messaging my PARENTS is harassment. just because i do not respond (i am uncomfortable around them so i DOD NOT RESPOND. THAT DOES NOT MEAN I DID NOT LISTEN TO THEIR CONCERNS.)

i did not force my ex into sexual situations, this is something that i am heavily and notably against. any time that we struggled with concent and communication it was due to inexperience and lack of proper teaching.

saying that i find my brothers hot is the most disgusting thing that ive ever read. seeing that made me feel genuinely ill. that is not something that you should ever spread about someone.

the kid, claiming those gross things about me, is exaggerating and lying about what happened, something that has gone on throughout this entire situation.

i never manipulated my ex (at the very least i never tried to), abd all of the screenshots shown have been from at the very a year pr close to that prior. they say that i have not learned a thing, however i have clearly learned more than they have because unlike them i am working to improve upon the very behavior that these people say i do without thinking.

the situation with the polyamory was something that i was entirely in the wrong for however it is a situation heavily made increasingly worse due to different aspects of my mental health along with how i was being actively manipulated by a close family member.

this family member has abused me my entire life, something that my ex called into question when messaging my parents. i was being actively abused throughout almost our entire relationship. this made it increasingly harder for me to be able to regulate my emotions and behaviors, especially directed towards the people that i was close to.

to my ex: you say you got nothing in return and yet i constantly worried for you, i spoke to you every day and let you talk to me about whatever you needed. i bought and made you things, my family and i brought you on trips. ive tried to help with your physical and mental health but it has gotten to be far too much. i hope you grow as a person, and leave me alone.