Olly

Popping on real fast to say thank you for all of the support I’ve received on my posts, I seriously appreciate and it’s made my day many times now  ❤︎ Thanks a bunch <33

My activity has been quite low lately. Not much going on to speak about besides one thing really. Please stop excusing the R word. I don’t care who you are. If you don’t have at least 1 neurological developmental disorder do not fucking use it. You wouldn’t excuse a straight, cisgender person using LGBT slurs, and you wouldn’t excuse a white person saying the N word so why are us disabled people different? I’m really sick of seeing it. Yeah I’ll use the word I’m autistic, have ADHD and tourette’s. Don’t deny me the use of that word just because I told you, a neurotypical person not to use it. People are dumb, and it’s infuriating.

ALL I want is to live in early 19th century korea and wear pretty hanboks and live in pretty houses and sneak into the palace and overthrow the government and be a cool ruler who hangs out with the village people and holds parties inside the castle for the lower class and fall in love with one of the village people and give them a lavish life but ultimately have my heart broken because they want to return back to the life they had before but we’re still in love and meet in secret sometimes.

Imagine telling someone not to complain about a broken arm because some people are in full body cast. Imagine telling someone with the flu not to seek treatment because some people have cancer. Imagine telling someone who survived an attempted murder not to report it because they were still alive. Functioning labels are harmful. no matter how you use them. Whether it’s “Mild autism”, or “High-Functioning Autistic”. These labels imply that we function just fine and need no support, we’re just like everyone else right? I had no idea you were autistic because you mask so I don’t need to accommodate your needs right? Yes. I can communicate with my words. I can have a job. I can go to school. I can form relationships with people. I can buy a house, or rent an apartment. But I can’t deal with lots of loud noises. I can’t touch certain items because it upsets me so severely. I can’t understand certain social cues. I don’t know when to stop talking. I can’t go to the store without some sort of sensory blocker. I need stim toys, or to be able to stim or I’ll have a meltdown. I have meltdowns quite frequently.  While I can go to school I need a specialized version of education.  While I can form relationships with people I struggle to keep them. While I can get a job I need “special treatment” if I want to do it properly. While I can communicate with my words sometimes I can’t. The “high-functioning” label I often get applied to me, is harmful. I don’t have “mild autism”. I’m just autistic. plain, and simple.

marmot appreciation post bc they have no business being so adorable

I get that I don’t get to decide my tics but the least they could do is be funny 

Obviously, the answer to that question is no. So why is PFL necessary? Why is it so important that we aren’t associated with the word autism? PFL comes from a good place. The intentions are true, But it is not something that needs to be enforced on people. When I say I’m autistic, I don’t want to hear someone tell me “oh no, no, you’re a person with autism.” because that takes away from the significance it holds in my life. If you are autistic and want to use PFL please go right ahead. but to my neurotypicals, please stop getting upset when someone doesn’t use it. This was very long I’m sorry lmao but thank you so much for reading this far <3

why did they change it i don’t fucking understand I was diagnosed with ADD why does it have to change Why am I crying over this

I know I pulled my eyelashes out mom, that’s why i wore makeup specifically to try and hide it you bitch

Can I not cry when my mom gets mad at me for food sensitivities pls k thanks

it’s just fax

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