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you have to support bisexual women even when they willingly enter relationships with men and end up being abused I'm serious like it's not a joke. please support bisexual women for gods sake. we are not asking to be abused. we do not to deserve to be abused. we are not stupid for hoping not to end up in an abusive relationship with a man. we should not have to avoid dating men in order to be safe from abuse as if that's even how that works. for Christs sake as other women, as other wlw, as LGBT people, bisexual women need your support.
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Losing control
âAlmost every womon I have ever met has a secret belief that she is just on the edge of madness, that there is some deep, crazy part within her, that she must be on guard constantly against âlosing controlâ â of her temper, of her appetite, of her sexuality, of her feelings, of her ambition, of her secret fantasies, of her mind.â âź Elana Dykewomon, âNotes for a Magazine,â Sinister Wisdom #36
ppl were poor in grandpaâs time too now a days we have acess to birth control, abortion, and women can participate in the labour force lol
I donât have the stats on hand but thereâs a study somewhere showing that the single strongest correlation with population fertility is womens average educational level
Enlightening that this dude is comparing himself to his granddad who âhad a wife,â a whole ass person who bore and raised those children and likely had few other options
Womenâs Educational Attainment vs. Number of Children per Woman
Analyzing the Relationship Between Female Education and Fertility Rate
âThere is a strong link between increased levels of education for females and lower fertility rates. That is, the higher the level of a womanâs educational attainment, the fewer number of children she is likely to bear, and this effect is shown in countries and cultures around the world.â
Wouldnât another interpretation of that statistic be that only women who do not have children to care for are able to achieve that level of education?

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If you have the ability, please learn to code.
I haven't seen many posts about this, but part of the reason radical feminists and women in general are getting effectively silenced is because men control tech, and there are few women with the skills to set up our own networks.
I'm not saying learn to code and get a job in tech, but your activism can be so much more effective if you have a solid coding foundation. Need a list of all the Crisis Pregnancy Centers (fake abortion clinics) in the USA, in a data format that's easy to track and update with new info over time? That would take hundreds of hours manually. I can write a scraping script, set up a local sqlite database, and get running in a weekend. If I want to make that list public-facing, but don't want the hassle of setting up a more robust database like PostgresQL or MySQL, I can export a JSON file and make a web page that generates listings for each entry in the file.
Automating manual data entry saves so much time. Web scraping saves so much time. Knowing how to access APIs to get the data you need saves so much fucking time.
I highly recommend Python as a beginning programming language. It's a mature language that is still updated, has wide support, has a lot of free learning materials aimed at people who are new to programming, has intuitive syntax, and it has a ton of libraries and frameworks that cover the spectrum of tech needs. If you want to do it, there's probably a way in Python.
I donât think yâall want to hear this, but the right is gaining a lot of ground in the US and I believe itâs found a way to replicate the success itâs had in radicalizing men by taking a different approach with women: pretending to be the only ones willing to listen to womenâs concerns over trans issues and then slowly introducing anti-abortion, anti-gay, and other conservative rhetoric.
I just got an ad on youtube from a rightwing legal organization that framed the issues around trans athletes and female sports as an attack on personal freedoms and said it was on par with gay couples adopting. this organization was instrumental in overturning roe v wade, and it is not stopping any time soon.
make no mistake: these people are not radical feminists. and they donât pretend to be. but I need yâall to start paying attention to the feminists who call out rightwing rhetoric in trans discourse and stop dismissing us as âdivisiveâ and âtoo focused on ideological purity to get shit done.â
if someone questions why pediatric transition is being framed as a matter of âparental rightsâ (which this legal organization is also heavily pushing for) instead of, say, framing it as a matter of patient/children rights, take a moment to understand why that may be problematic down the line. do we want a parent to have the right to put their gay kid through conversion therapy? do we want a parent to have the right to stop their daughter from having an abortion?
I donât care for ideological purity, I care about not empowering an already powerful group of people that is directly attacking women.
French radical feminists on the 24th of June 2022, Paris
The reason I don't really engage in debates about political strategy online anymore is that they're almost always just fighting over which tactic is best, when the answer has always seemed to me to be "all of the above, obviously." Any strategy that gets us out of this mess is going to involve direct action, and voting, and labor organization, and mutual aid, and the creation of new institutions, and direct confrontations with existing institutions. These are complements not substitutes [crowd boos and hisses]
The 'Empowerment Industrial Complex' lost sight of the real levers of political power
âWhen you are forced to deliver children you didnât want to have and canât afford to raise, you may not care whether you see yourself reflected in the latest superhero blockbuster.â
âBy focusing on empowerment and losing sight of the nuts-and-bolts of political mechanics, they failed to recognize what McConnell and his allies have known all along: only power is power.â
But your eyeliner will still look great, right?
can someone post the text of this article? it has a paywall.
What is womenâs empowerment in a world without Roe v. Wade?
Women receive more college degrees than men, young women outearn young men in some cities, and more women run Fortune 500 companies than ever before. And still, Roe fell.
More women are directing Hollywoodâs highest-grossing movies, Ariana DeBose just became the first openly queer woman of color to win an Oscar, and thereâs a woman playing Thor. And still, Roe fell.
More than 60% of American women consider themselves feminists, including 42% of Republican women. More than half of American women say they prefer to work outside the home, the highest Gallup has recorded in three decades of polling. And still, Roe fell.
How could a cornerstone of American womenâs rights crumble at a moment of otherwise expansive economic, cultural, and social empowerment?
The fall of Roe exposes a crack in the foundation of mainstream liberal feminism that has dominated the past decade. This version of feminismâis it the fourth wave?âhas been preoccupied with individual achievements, feel-good symbolism, and cultural representation. It has, in turn, paid too little attention to the thorny mechanics of federal courts and state legislative races. Many fourth wavers presumed that reproductive rights were basically secure, and that therefore the remaining obstacles for women were not legal or political but cultural and emotional. Every time a woman won an Oscar, or released a hit album, or got a big promotion, the refrain was the same: representation matters!
Of course it matters. Of course it should be cheered. But somewhere along the way, many in the mainstream feminist movement convinced themselves that the soft power of cultural representation seemed as important as the hard power of votes and seats. Empowerment became not a means to an end, but the end in itself. Many feministsâparticularly rich, white, well-educated onesâassumed that changing hearts and minds was the difficult part. In a functioning democracy, winning seats and writing laws would inevitably follow.
But thatâs not how our democracy works. Nearly 60% of Americans did not want to see Roe overturned, including more than 30% of Republicans. The number of Americans who identify as âpro-choiceâ reached a record high in the weeks after a leaked draft opinion showed the Supreme Court was poised to upend a half century of constitutional precedent. And yet, the course of American history doesnât always follow public opinion. Just ask the two recent Republican Presidents who lost the popular vote, yet appointed four Supreme Court Justices who voted to overturn Roe.
Roe fell in large part because anti-abortion activists and policymakers better understood how power truly works in this country. They didnât rely on inspiring movies or heartfelt Oscar speeches or Twitter hashtags to advance their cause. Instead, the anti-abortion movement has been extraordinarily successful at getting conservative lawmakers elected at the state level. Mitch McConnell used the hard power of the Senate majority to block a Supreme Court nomination by President Barack Obama, which in turn allowed President Donald Trump to appoint another anti-abortion Justice. Conservative judicial activists selected Dobbs v. Jackson Womenâs Health as the vehicle to prompt this right-wing court to overturn Roe.
None of that was exactly the fault of mainstream feminism, and many feminists did sound alarms about the threat to abortion rights. Local reproductive-rights groups have been organizing to protect abortion access on the state level for decades, while feminist organizations like Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and the Center for Reproductive Rights have been litigating to protect abortion rights (although some national organizations have been criticized for focusing more on national politics than state races). EMILYâs List has been working to elect pro-choice women at all levels. And now, in a post-Roe world, Democratic governors, from Gretchen Whitmer in Michigan to Kathy Hochul in New York, are the last lines of defense for abortion access in their states.
But overall, the fall of Roe signifies that liberal feminists were outmaneuvered. By focusing on empowerment and losing sight of the nuts-and-bolts of political mechanics, they failed to recognize what McConnell and his allies have known all along: only power is power.
I am as guilty of this as anybody. In 2014, I wrote a piece that now strikes me as the apotheosis of mid-aughts feminist myopia. Titled âThis May Have Been the Best Year for Women Since the Dawn of Time,â the essay starts with this cringey hyperbole: âSince the dinosaurs roamed, since the pyramids were built, since the locomotive was invented, there has never been a better year for women than 2014.â I listed reasons that seemed important at the time, but look superficial in retrospect: the success of Frozen, a handful of new women CEOs, BeyoncĂŠ dancing in front of the word FEMINIST at MTVâs Video Music Awards.
Some call this thinking girlboss feminism. Others tie it to white feminism. I think of it as the Empowerment Industrial Complex. Whatever you call it, it now seems like a cheugy distraction at best.
While the Empowerment Industrial Complex spent the early 2010s debating the ever-changing contours of feminist soft power, anti-abortion Republicans were building hard power, seat by seat, state by state. In 2010, Republicans raised $30 million to gain control of 21 legislative chambers, including in many states that would go on to pass the toughest abortion restrictions.
While online feminists interrogated celebrities about whether they called themselves âfeministsâ and what âempoweredâ them most, conservatives were amassing the raw power to pass trigger laws in 13 states. While progressive nonprofits threw galas celebrating female inspiration, brands spent millions on body-positive ad campaigns, and celebrities partnered with NGOs to promote âwomenâs empowerment,â the state and local organizations fighting to protect reproductive rightsâmany of them led by women of colorâgot too little funding and attention.
While the left tallied the number of women nominated for Oscars and which top-grossing movies passed the Bechdel test, savvy Republican operatives were carefully building a pipeline of conservative judges with immaculate rĂŠsumĂŠs in anticipation of future Supreme Court vacancies. 2014, the year I dubbed the best ever for women, was also the year in which Republicans won the Senate, putting McConnell in position to block Obamaâs nomination of Merrick Garland to the high court.
âThe failure of folks to pick up the shovel and fight this on the state level is why weâre in the position that weâre in right now,â says NsĂŠ Ufot, executive director of the New Georgia Project, a nonpartisan civic-engagement organization devoted to building the power of voters of color in Georgia. âI see that as a failure of the large influencers and culture makers and popular feminists to really flank state-level activists.â
Itâs not that cultural representation is unimportant. Itâs just not enoughânot even close. âRepresentation is important but not sufficient,â says Amanda Litman, coâexecutive director of Run for Something, which recruits and trains young progressives to run for state and local offices. Gender representation doesnât always align neatly with feminist advancement. Neither the first woman Vice President nor the first woman Speaker of the House has the power to change the makeup of the Supreme Court or save the constitutional right to an abortion. Of the record 147 women in Congress, 41 are Republicans, many of them anti-abortion. All the major national anti-abortion organizations are run by women. For the first time in history, four women serve on the Supreme Court at the same timeâand Justice Amy Coney Barrett was key to sealing the demise of Roe. More white women voted for Trump than for Hillary Clinton in the 2016 election. This too was representation. This too mattered.
The Trump presidency exposed the faulty arithmetic at the heart of the Empowerment Industrial Complex. The rallying cries of empowerment politics convinced many that seeing and being were inextricably linked, as if obstacles like wealth inequality, structural racism, and voter suppression could be overcome by enough feminist inspo.
Now that Roe has fallen, itâs clear that women have bigger problems than representation. In a post-Roe world, many womenâs lives will be defined by new laws in their states restricting their bodily autonomyânot by someoneâs empowering speech at the Grammys. When you are forced to deliver children you didnât want to have and canât afford to raise, you may not care whether you see yourself reflected in the latest superhero blockbuster.
âIt was a boiling-frog situation,â says Meaghan Winter, author of All Politics Is Local. âPeople didnât realize how bad it was until it was too late.â
And so, despite everything women have achieved over the past half century, Roe fell. Now itâs up to the feminist movement to regroup and recalibrate. Inspirational narratives are great, so long as they inspire people toward building real political power. Abortion rights can still be saved, but only if feminists focus their energy on electing allies at the state and local level. In a post-Roe America, thatâs the kind of representation that matters most.

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I love when men are like i have to be stoic and i canât cry and i have to be a provider and take care of everyone. Yeah me too you stupid fuck. Except i donât get like respected as a full human being also
The 'Empowerment Industrial Complex' lost sight of the real levers of political power
âWhen you are forced to deliver children you didnât want to have and canât afford to raise, you may not care whether you see yourself reflected in the latest superhero blockbuster.â
Another âcrisis pregnancy center' was vandalized, this time in West Asheville.
Folks busted out the windows and the main entrance and left messages that said "If abortions aren't safe neither are you"and "No forced birthsâ along the walls.
Centers like this one are a key part of anti-abortion disinformation and harassment networks. These disgusting and dangerous sites tell pregnant people that abortions cause breast cancer and severe mental health issues.
They pressure and traumatize people with their evangelical propaganda, fear monger with no valid or scientifically accurate claims, and most often times have little to no training- including when they attempt âabortion pill reversalâ - the unscientific and unethical practice of injecting high-dose progesterone.
They also overwhelmingly lack medical professionals and any real resources in their centers, offering little more than a pregnancy test and psychological pressure and severe trauma.
All these famous abuse survivors are all openly bisexual women. And they've all been accused of being liars, manipulative, sociopathic and generally mentally ill (BPD/bipolar) especially. The negative stereotypes the public attaches to bisexual women is coming back to have real world effects on them. Same sex attraction in women has always been associated with mental illness in media, your favorite "psychos" are usually bi or gay coded (Harley Quinn, mystique, Jennifer check, basic instinct, all bisexual femme fatales). That isn't good representation and never has been, especially when men who date bisexual women can use this inbuilt societal perception to discredit their victims in the eyes of the public. A women's bisexuality is considered a threat to men. Bisexual women you deserve love without abuse. We believe you! Keep your head up!
Also if you believe bi women deserve abuse for being het partnered I wish you a very bad day
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'this is bad because once they're done gutting abortion rights they're going to-' stop. shut your mouth and sit with the fact that what's going on right now is a disaster for the basic rights of women and girls in this country. this is enough of a disaster on its own. attacks on half of the population aren't some fucking stepping stone to the 'real' problems. drop dead
I donât want to read any think pieces about abortion at this point I just want everyone who disagrees with me to die