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*gets let down by a man yet again*

This has just always been a thing I’ve known but now I wonder if it’s common knowledge bc it should be;

what

When I was pregnant I was in so much pain and discomfort from my extreme vomiting 30-40 times a day , that i had insomnia for months on end and I tOLD my dr that even when I was able to fall asleep …I it would wake me up from the pain of it still and she didn’t give a fuck . Told me oh that’s bc ur pregnant . I am literally looking for a new dr rn bc she was so horrible . Another thing she did was induce me without telling me or asking me . I thought she was simply checking to see how dialated I was bc that’s what she told me . Then I came back a week later like I’m having false contractions and she’s like oh well I induced u last time let’s induce u again rn and I was like wait what ? U never told me u were doing that what the fyck .my friend who had the same dr gave birth one month before me and almost died bc of this dr , her placenta was dried up completely and so she almost died in childbirth and her baby , bc this dr never told her about her placenta …. what else?? the lists goes on . Both ultra sound apps she made for me at the hospital never went through bc she sent blank emails , never checked to see if she was sending to the right person and turns out all along she never sent them to anyone … I am the one who had to kee pcalling the hospital and both times they never got a referral from her so I had to just set it up myself and th nurses were so annoyed with me bc that’s not how u do it the dr is supposed to . And then it wasn’t until baby was born and we had to get an ultra sound of his head … that when she was sending the referral I asked her .. what phone number will they call me at ?bc other times it’s never worked for some reason they never call me . And she’s like oh . It’s blank. Oops . Turns out it was like that THE WHOLE FUCKIMG TIME SHES THAT DUMB . OH AND DONT FORGET HER FORGETTING WHAT BLOOD TESTS SHE Mde me alREADY DO AND STILL TRU TO MAKE ME DO THEM AGAIN AND IM LIKE U LITERALLY JUST MADE ME DO THESE Y STERDAY DO U NOT REMMBER WHY U TRYNA MAKE ME DO THIS TEST TWICE .

Do we start with:

My fellow men, pay attention. I didn’t realize how scary this could be until one of my exes explained it to me, and it’s heartbreaking.

Note to guys: It really, REALLY doesn’t matter if you’re thinking, “but I would never…”

This has just always been a thing I’ve known but now I wonder if it’s common knowledge bc it should be;

what

When I was pregnant I was in so much pain and discomfort from my extreme vomiting 30-40 times a day , that i had insomnia for months on end and I tOLD my dr that even when I was able to fall asleep ...I it would wake me up from the pain of it still and she didn’t give a fuck . Told me oh that’s bc ur pregnant . I am literally looking for a new dr rn bc she was so horrible . Another thing she did was induce me without telling me or asking me . I thought she was simply checking to see how dialated I was bc that’s what she told me . Then I came back a week later like I’m having false contractions and she’s like oh well I induced u last time let’s induce u again rn and I was like wait what ? U never told me u were doing that what the fyck .my friend who had the same dr gave birth one month before me and almost died bc of this dr , her placenta was dried up completely and so she almost died in childbirth and her baby , bc this dr never told her about her placenta .... what else?? the lists goes on . Both ultra sound apps she made for me at the hospital never went through bc she sent blank emails , never checked to see if she was sending to the right person and turns out all along she never sent them to anyone ... I am the one who had to kee pcalling the hospital and both times they never got a referral from her so I had to just set it up myself and th nurses were so annoyed with me bc that’s not how u do it the dr is supposed to . And then it wasn’t until baby was born and we had to get an ultra sound of his head ... that when she was sending the referral I asked her .. what phone number will they call me at ?bc other times it’s never worked for some reason they never call me . And she’s like oh . It’s blank. Oops . Turns out it was like that THE WHOLE FUCKIMG TIME SHES THAT DUMB . OH AND DONT FORGET HER FORGETTING WHAT BLOOD TESTS SHE Mde me alREADY DO AND STILL TRU TO MAKE ME DO THEM AGAIN AND IM LIKE U LITERALLY JUST MADE ME DO THESE Y STERDAY DO U NOT REMMBER WHY U TRYNA MAKE ME DO THIS TEST TWICE .

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