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i literally get what marie kondo was talking about now

Today I found a new bowl! In its center is a little hill with a little house. I will carry it down to the shore and fill it up, and whomever lives in that little house can have a tiny portion of my meal. I hope they have a nice bowl to put it in..

Not sure what’s going on right now over in Conservative World, but it’s a hell of wild U-turn for them to suddenly switch from “Oh no! The left is sexualizing our children!” to “Oh no! The left is asexualizing our children!”

Queer solidarity means all of us because the fash are coming for all of us.

All Dividers are Feds. Stand united or die separately.

Our relationship was never the same after that and she didn't even remember that it happened.

(ID: six trans flags with text. Text reads "Trans kids exist and deserve to be supported and heard", "Trans kids know themselves and their identities", "Trans kids deserve to become happy trans adults", "Trans kids deserve the right to access gender affirming care", "Trans kids have the right to decide their own names and pronouns", and "Every transgender adult was once a child who should have had support").

happy Thursday the 20th

You know, just in case you wanted to set your queue for the next 6 years

May 20, 2027

Seriously, this is so unaddressed and uncared for in medical circles. Please spread awareness, even if all it’s for is to let those who have it but don’t have a name for it finally be able to understand what’s happening to their bodies.

Pelvic hypertonia/vaginismus is incredibly debilitating and psychologically damaging but it CAN BE TREATED. Spread the word, and you never know who you’ll be throwing a lifeline to.

don't ever feel like you're "not nonbinary enough" because you absolutely are! 💖

Pour one out for a real one.

[Tweet from @/fozmeadows: "human gender and sexuality are very much like animal taxonomy, in that both look structured and simple on the surface, but once you start investigating, it turns out there's actually no such thing as a fish despite the fact that we all know what a fish is, and that's okay"]

Gender is absolutely the same way.

The way that exclusionists treat ace and aro people often reminds me of how the average person would treat me when I started being open as non-binary. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a thousand times, we are not enemies. Our experiences do not oppose each other, they are intertwined. If you’re ace, if you’re aromantic, if you’re any variation thereupon; your home is here. You belong here, too. You are beautiful, and powerful; and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. You are a valued part of this community.

(ALSO: if you are like me and just Can’t Fucking Cry, even when you’re really upset, you gotta find other ways to communicate that to someone who is used to crying. Because like, they’re used to people crying as an indicator of upset, and if they don’t see that, they’re maybe not gonna know that you are! I’ve gotten in the habit of saying aloud, “if I could cry, I would be crying right now.”)

And if the truth is (as is so common) somewhere in between, it gives them a chance to step back sort their shit out--which is not a gift offered by either "I gotta make them stop crying (fawn version)" or "I gotta make them stop crying (angry version)"

And another shout-out to all the disabled people who purposely avoid getting diagnosed, because official diagnoses can be used against you, and you're unable or unwilling to risk it.