the mystery shall remain

However.

The problem is when people start to think of non-binary and bisexual identity as ONLY a stepping stone or ONLY a phase. And then inflicting that on people by talking or joking about these identities bring a stepping stone. Ironically, for those who actually are in a state of change, this can make them ignore the change that's happening for them, because they keep being accused of their identity being a phase and they don't want to reinforce that narrative.

It's stupid and complicated and at the core of everything, people shouldn't tell other people what they are and what they can be.

That's it.

"They've got nobody in the Odyssey?"

"No I'm saying they don't got nobody."

"Nobody's there?"

"Nobody's not there!"

"So everyone's there?"

"Everybody but nobody!"

1. if your work is unfinished, do not mark it as complete. you will not keep readers who start it thinking it’s finished and will then want to know what’s happening next, you’ll just alienate readers (obviously this doesn’t apply to things like one-shots where you later gain inspiration to write a sequel). to prevent it from being marked as such, please check this box and fill accordingly. note that not adding a number will simply list it as chapter number/??? so it’s fine if you don’t know how many it will ultimately have.

2. if the relationship is platonic, you use the tag with the ampersand (&) and, if it’s the main focus, the gen category. if it’s romantic, you use the tag with the forward slash (/) and, if it’s the main focus, the respective category (f/f, m/m, m/f*). if you know it will ultimately be one or the other, even if it doesn’t appear straight away in the first chapter(s), you still use the correct one. here’s an example:

*there’s an option for multi and other, but these can vary by fandoms and even writers. generally speaking, multi is often used for polyamorous relationships and other is good for relationships with a non-binary/agender/etc. character.

(please tag these correctly. seeing a relationship tag in a one-shot where the whole thing is predominantly platonic can be frustrating and it’s the same the other way around. you can add in additional tags that it can be read as platonic or romantic if it can technically be read as either.)

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