Murli | Mindset & Growth

Sometimes what looks like laziness is actually emotional exhaustion.

The version of you that's tired isn't lazy. She's just been pouring into the wrong cup for years.

Maybe you have been giving too much energy to people who never give back. Maybe you have been chasing goals that stopped feeling like yours. Maybe you have been trying to keep everything together while quietly running on empty.

Not every tired season needs more motivation. Sometimes you need rest, stronger boundaries, a healthier routine, and the courage to ask where your energy is really going.

If you have been feeling burned out, mentally drained, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected from yourself, let this be your reminder to pause.

You are allowed to stop pouring into places that leave you empty.

Right now, not everyone will believe in your dream. Some people will question your choices, your hard work, and the time you spend building something they cannot see yet.

That is normal.

Every successful journey begins with uncertainty. Before the results appear, all people notice is the sacrifice. But one day, the same people who doubted you may proudly share your story with others.

Keep showing up. Keep learning. Keep building your future without waiting for permission or approval.

Your consistency today becomes the success everyone talks about tomorrow.

Close your eyes for a moment and imagine yourself one year from today.

Will you be looking back with a list of excuses, or with proof that you kept going even when it was hard?

Big changes rarely happen in one day. They happen through small choices made again and again. Every workout, every page you read, every new skill you learn, and every time you refuse to quit brings you one step closer to the life you want.

Your future is being built by what you choose today. You do not need to be perfect. You only need to keep moving forward.

Choose progress over comfort. Your future self will thank you.

Imagine looking back one year from now and realizing you were closer than you thought.

Closer to the breakthrough.

Closer to the goal.

Closer to the life you wanted.

So many people quit because progress feels slow. They walk away just before their hard work starts paying off. What feels like a dead end today could be the turning point you've been waiting for.

The hardest part of any journey is continuing when results are invisible. But success often arrives after months of effort, persistence, and belief when there is no guarantee.

Don't let a temporary struggle become a permanent regret.

Keep learning. Keep building. Keep showing up.

Because the opportunity that changes your life may be much closer than you think.

Nobody talks enough about the two kinds of pain we all face.

The pain of discipline.

Or the pain of regret.

Discipline asks you to wake up early, stay focused, keep your promises, and do the work when you don't feel like it. It feels uncomfortable in the moment.

Regret is different.

It arrives later. It shows up when opportunities are gone, goals are unfinished, and you wonder what could have happened if you had just kept going.

The truth is that neither path is easy.

One pain builds your future.

The other reminds you of the future you never built.

Every choice you make today is shaping the life you'll live tomorrow. Choose the discomfort that leads to growth, confidence, success, and self-respect.

Most people celebrate the result.

Few people understand the journey.

The early mornings. The quiet effort. The days when progress feels painfully slow. The moments when nobody notices the work you're putting in.

But that's where real power is built.

Not in the applause. Not in the recognition.

In the decision to keep showing up anyway.

Every step forward matters, even when the path feels invisible. Every small action compounds into something bigger than you can see today. Consistency is a superpower, and the people who achieve extraordinary things are often the ones who refused to quit during the silent seasons.

If you're working toward a goal, building a dream, healing, learning, creating, or growing, this is your reminder: keep going.

Your future self will thank you for the effort nobody else saw.

Can we please talk about this feeling that so many people are carrying right now but nobody is saying out loud.

The feeling that you are somehow late. That everyone else figured something out that you missed. That there is a timeline you were supposed to be on and somewhere along the way you fell off it and now you are just watching everyone else hit milestones while you are still standing in what feels like the beginning.

That feeling is lying to you. And it has been lying to you for a long time.

Here is what is actually happening.

You are not behind. You are in the foundation stage. And the foundation stage is the most invisible, most misunderstood, most underestimated part of any story worth telling. Nobody takes pictures of the foundation. Nobody posts about it. Nobody celebrates it in real time. It does not look like progress from the outside because most of what is happening is happening underground where no one can see it yet.

Nobody is going to sugarcoat this for you today.

Discipline is hard. Like genuinely, uncomfortably, inconveniently hard. It asks you to do the thing when you do not feel like doing the thing. It asks you to wake up early when the bed feels like the only good thing in your life right now. It asks you to say no to what feels good in the moment so you can say yes to what actually matters in the long run. It does not care about your mood. It does not care about your energy levels. It just sits there every single morning asking the same quiet question. Are you going to show up today or not.

And some days the honest answer is that it feels like too much.

That is real. That feeling is valid. Discipline is a weight you carry and some days that weight feels heavier than others. The alarm goes off and your whole body resists. The task is sitting there waiting and every part of you wants to push it to tomorrow. The goal feels far away and the effort feels enormous and the couch feels like it was specifically designed to keep you from doing the thing you know you need to do.

So you skip it. Just today. Just this once.

And today feels fine. Today feels like relief actually. Like you gave yourself a break you deserved.

But tomorrow comes. And then the day after that. And somewhere down the road, maybe a year from now, maybe five years from now, maybe in a quiet moment when you least expect it, regret shows up. And regret does not knock politely. It walks straight in and sits down and starts listing everything you did not do. Every morning you traded for comfort. Every goal you moved to the back burner until the back burner became the graveyard. Every version of yourself you were supposed to become but kept postponing.

And here is the brutal difference between discipline and regret that most people never think about until it is too late.

Discipline is heavy but it is productive heavy. It is the weight of a barbell that is making you stronger. It is the discomfort of growth. It is temporary pressure that builds something permanent. You feel it today and then you move through it and on the other side there is progress, there is momentum, there is a version of yourself that is quietly becoming someone worth becoming.

Regret is a different kind of heavy entirely.

Regret is the weight of everything that cannot be undone. It is looking back at the years and knowing you had the time and the ability and the opportunity and you chose comfort instead. It does not build anything. It does not lead anywhere. It just sits on your chest and reminds you of the distance between who you are and who you could have been if you had just chosen the harder thing a little more consistently.

One weight moves you forward. The other one pins you in place.

So on the days when discipline feels impossible, try to remember what the alternative actually costs. Not today. Today the alternative feels like rest. But tomorrow and the day after and the year after that the alternative starts to feel like something very different.

You are allowed to have hard days. You are allowed to feel the weight of showing up. But do not let the heaviness of discipline fool you into thinking that the other option is lighter. It is not. It never was.

Pick up the weight that builds you. Even on the days when it feels like too much. Especially on those days.

Five years. That is all it takes.

Not a lifetime. Not a decade of monk-like discipline and perfect decisions. Just five years of consistently choosing one thing over another. And the gap it creates between two people who started in the same place will absolutely take your breath away.

Think about the people you know right now. The ones who spend their energy tracking other people's lives. Who said what. Who did what. Who is dating who. Who fell off. Who thinks they are better than everyone else. It feels social. It feels connected. It even feels entertaining in the moment. But underneath all of it something very quiet is happening. Time is passing. And nothing is being built.

Then think about the other kind of person.

The one who is not in every conversation. The one who seems a little boring at parties because they keep redirecting back to what they are working on. The one who is reading when others are scrolling. Who is practicing when others are commenting. Who is building something brick by brick in the background while the world keeps spinning around them.

Five years from now those two people will not even be recognizable as someone who once stood in the same room.

And here is the thing about gossip that nobody really says out loud. It is not just a waste of time. It is an active drain. Every minute you spend in someone else's story is a minute you are not writing your own. Every conversation about what someone else is doing wrong is energy you pulled directly out of what you could be doing right. It feels like connection but it is actually distraction wearing a social costume.

Building is the opposite of all of that.

Building is boring to talk about at first. It is repetitive. It is slow. There are no dramatic updates to share and no viral moments to point to for a long time. It is just you, your craft, your goals, and the daily choice to show up and do the work even when nothing exciting is happening yet.

But that slowness is exactly where the magic lives.

Because five years of boring consistent effort creates something that no amount of gossip can ever touch. It creates momentum. It creates skill. It creates a life that you actually designed instead of one that just happened to you while you were busy watching everyone else.

You do not need to announce which side you are on. You do not need to call anyone out or declare yourself above it. You just need to make the choice quietly and then let the years do the talking.

Choose what you give your energy to. Choose it every single morning. Choose it when the group chat gets loud and when the drama feels impossible to ignore. Choose it especially then.

Because five years from now you are not going to remember the gossip. But you are absolutely going to feel the weight of every hour you spent building or every hour you spent watching someone else live their life instead of living yours.

The difference appears in five years. It always does.

Can we talk about something that does not get said enough?

Nobody sees the full story. Not really.

They see you win and they immediately start writing their own version of how it happened. They fill in the blanks with words like lucky, gifted, blessed, in the right place at the right time. It is almost like they need it to be effortless because if it was not effortless then they have to ask themselves why they are not putting in the same effort.

But you know what actually happened.

You know about the nights that stretched so far past midnight that they started bleeding into mornings. The nights where you were not even sure what you were working toward anymore but you kept going anyway because stopping felt worse than the exhaustion. You know about the things you gave up. The plans you cancelled. The relationships you had to put on hold. The version of yourself that had to shrink temporarily so that a bigger version could grow.

Let me tell you something that took me way too long to figure out.

The people who are actually building something real are not the ones you see everywhere. They are not the ones screaming for your attention or engineering their next viral moment. They are somewhere quiet. Head down. Locked in. Working on something that does not even exist yet.

And that is the whole point.

There is this version of success that gets sold to us constantly. The highlight reel. The overnight story. The person who blew up and made it look effortless. But behind every single one of those moments is someone who spent months or years being completely invisible while they got dangerously good at what they do.

Real builders are not chasing clout. They are chasing the craft.

They wake up asking how do I get better today not how do I get more followers today. They are studying, practicing, failing, adjusting, and showing up again before anyone even notices they were gone. The attention is never the goal. It is just what eventually happens when mastery cannot be ignored anymore.

And here is the part that hits different when you really sit with it.

They are not chasing who they are right now. They are chasing who they are going to be tomorrow. That future version of themselves that is sharper, more skilled, more grounded, more capable. Every single day is just a quiet conversation between who they are and who they are becoming.

That kind of hunger is different. It does not need an audience to stay alive. It does not shrink when nobody is clapping. It just keeps going because stopping was never actually an option.

So if you are in a season right now where it feels like nobody sees what you are building, good. That means you are doing it right. The best things get built in silence. The strongest foundations are laid when no one is watching.

Chase mastery. Chase growth. Chase that next version of yourself that scares you a little because of how good they are.

The attention will come. But it was never supposed to come first.

Most people have it completely backwards.

They talk about the goal before they even start working toward it. They announce the plan before the plan has even been tested. They need people to know what they are doing before they have actually done anything.

And then when the results do not come, the silence feels like failure. But it was never the silence that failed them. It was the noise.

The people who are actually winning in life are not hard to spot. Not because they are loud about it. But because the life they have built speaks before they even open their mouth.

They did not get there by telling everyone their next move. They got there by making the move and saying nothing.

Every hour they spent explaining themselves to people who did not believe in them was an hour they could have spent getting better. Every conversation they had about their dream was energy that could have gone into building it.

At some point you have to make a decision. Do you want people to know what you are doing. Or do you want people to see what you have done.

Those are two very different paths. And only one of them actually leads somewhere.

Put your head down. Do the work nobody sees. Stay quiet long enough for the results to become impossible to ignore.

Nobody tells you this when you are starting out.

The people who are actually building something real are not the ones filling your feed with updates. They are not the ones telling everyone what they are working on. They are not the ones who need the world to know how busy they are.

They are the ones with their heads down. Doing the work. Day after day. Without an audience. Without applause. Without needing anyone to see it while it is still in progress.

There is a reason the loudest people in the room are rarely the most successful ones. Because talking about the work and doing the work are two completely different things. And most people get so comfortable talking about it that they never actually do it.

Silence is not weakness. Silence is a strategy. When you stop explaining your moves to everyone around you, something shifts. Your energy stops going into conversations and starts going into progress. And progress compounds in ways that words never will.

Work harder than anyone expects you to. Stay quieter than anyone is comfortable with. And let the results be the only thing that speaks.

Because when the work is done right, it never needs an introduction. It walks into the room and announces itself.

There is something nobody really talks about when it comes to loyalty.

It does not announce itself. It does not send you long messages telling you how much it cares. It does not show up with grand gestures or loud promises.

Loyalty just shows up. On a Tuesday afternoon when nothing is wrong. On the hardest day of your life when everything falls apart. It shows up without being asked and without keeping score.

Fake people are different. They are the loudest ones in the room. They are always the first to tell you how real they are. They make promises like it costs them nothing. And when the moment comes to actually follow through, they are nowhere to be found.

Here is the truth most people learn too late.

You do not need to listen to what someone says about themselves. You just need to watch what they do when it is inconvenient for them. When helping you costs them something. When showing up means they have to sacrifice a little comfort.

That is where you find out who someone really is.

Words are the easiest thing in the world to give. Anyone can say the right thing. Not everyone can do the right thing.

Watch the actions. They will always tell you the truth that words are too polished to say.

You have probably seen both kinds of people in your life.

The ones who are always trying to be noticed.

Always in the middle of every conversation.

Always making sure everyone knows what they are doing, where they are going, and how well things are working out for them.

And then there are the other ones.

The quiet ones.

The ones who walk into a room and do not need to announce themselves.

The ones who are too busy building something real to stop and perform for an audience.

Those are the real ones.

And real ones move differently.

They do not chase attention.

They build value.

They earn respect.

Not because they asked for it.

Not because they demanded it.

But because everything they do over time speaks for itself.

Their work speaks for them.

Their consistency speaks for them.

Their character speaks for them.

There is a kind of person in this world who never needs to prove anything to anyone because the proof is already visible in how they live, how they treat people, and how they show up even when no one is watching.

That is the kind of person worth becoming.

Not the loudest one in the room.

Not the most followed one online.

The most real one.

The one who builds instead of performs.

The one who earns instead of demands.

The one who gives genuine value to every space they enter and every person they meet.

If you are already that kind of person, keep going.

The world needs more of you and less of the noise.

Let me be honest with you for a second.

That exhaustion you are carrying around right now is not a sign that you are weak.

It is not a sign that you chose the wrong path.

It is not a sign that you should stop.

It is actually the opposite.

You feel tired because you are showing up every single day for something that matters to you.

You feel tired because you are doing the kind of work that most people talk about but never actually start.

You feel tired because you are real and you are trying and that takes everything out of a person sometimes.

So here is what I want you to hear today.

You feel tired.

That means you are doing real work.

Rest if needed.

Do not quit.

Please do not quit.

Rest is not giving up.

Rest is you being smart enough to know that your body and your mind need fuel to keep going.

The most driven people in the world did not get there by running themselves into the ground without ever stopping.

They got there by knowing when to push and when to pause.

You are allowed to pause.

You are allowed to sleep in, step back, breathe deeply, and give yourself a full day of nothing if that is what you need.

Because after that rest, you are going to come back.

And when you come back, you are going to remember why you started.

And that reason is still worth fighting for.

Reblog this if someone in your life needs to hear it today.

Or save it for the next time you feel like walking away from something that still deserves your effort.

You are not done yet.