A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away...

- Young Anakin develops a habit of sitting on Obi-Wan when he wants to bug him. This is funny when he's 11 but much more threatening and hilarious at 21

- Obi-Wan refuses to cooperate with medical during the Clone wars and full grown General Knight Skywalker just sits on him saying something like "stop being so stubborn, don't make me call Qui-Gon on your short ass" (Anakin will use their height difference against Obi-Wan at any opportunity)

- "Don't make me call Qui-Gon" is how they keep each other in line. It works on both of them no matter how old. Qui-Gon isn't sure how to take this but he thinks it's positive

- on the flip side, they'll both do something stupid and follow up with "not a word to Qui-Gon"

- The absolute blatant disrespect goes both ways. Other Jedi are shocked when the serene unflappable Master Kenobi casually calls the Chosen One Himself 'ten kinds of a spice addled idiot' and flicks him when anakin is being annoying

- Obi-Wan is in a council meeting and he misses a call from Anakin, somehow the message plays out loud and it's just "pick up your comm nerf herder"

- on a softer side, Anakin sometimes stays over at Obi-Wan's knight quarters when things are tense with Qui-Gon. Obi-Wan knows what it's like being 'too angry/too emotional/too old' to be a 'proper' padawan, and he knows what it's like being apprenticed to the well-meaning disaster that is Qui-Gon, so he can offer support that both helps Anakin feel better and keeps him out of Skeevy Sheevy's claws

- Qui-Gon also needs a lot more recuperating after being shish kabobed, so Obi-Wan takes over some of Anakin's basic training. He still insists he doesn't like Anakin at this point even while gently guiding him through katas and motherhenning him about eating vegetables

Idk these are just some things off the top of my head but I would kill for this dynamic

Revelations 16:3

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.