no DNIs we just post content specifically catered to ourselves that will coincidentally alienate anyone with whom we would not want to interact
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went to a local free concert of a big local band tonight as part of a big local fair with 2 fellow lesbians from my queer org board. we ran into a bunch of gays who are in our queer org and ended up spending the evening together, which was great, just a big circle of queers.
they're all lovely and fun guys who I love hanging out with. that being said, the way gay guys act with each other is just so fundamentally different to how lesbians act around each other. such a fascinating thing to discover as someone who's only really ever had female friends and can't imagine having my hands all up my friends' private bits.
anyway on my way home now and if they want to grope each other, good for them. it was a wonderful night but this is where I'm letting the lads be very sexual gay lads amongst themselves.
my heart is filled with happy beautiful Pride feelings
today was my 2nd time on a truck during a Pride parade and it's still as wonderful as the 1st time. just like last time, all I'm thinking is that I kind of never want to do a parade otherwise again.
seeing all the people who are lifted up by Pride, the ones who need this in their lives to reassure them that they are valid and loved, the ones who are there to support us, the ones who are just there to have fun with a bunch of queers, the ones who are there incidentally but loving it.
all those happy, wonderful smiles as we drive past! all those gazes you catch and share a moment with, share a smile with, share a wave or a heart with!
it's so special, it's so important!!
Pride matters so so so so much and I love every single person there
just look at this beautiful crowd!! â¤ď¸đ
my heart is filled with happy beautiful Pride feelings
today was my 2nd time on a truck during a Pride parade and it's still as wonderful as the 1st time. just like last time, all I'm thinking is that I kind of never want to do a parade otherwise again.
seeing all the people who are lifted up by Pride, the ones who need this in their lives to reassure them that they are valid and loved, the ones who are there to support us, the ones who are just there to have fun with a bunch of queers, the ones who are there incidentally but loving it.
all those happy, wonderful smiles as we drive past! all those gazes you catch and share a moment with, share a smile with, share a wave or a heart with!
it's so special, it's so important!!
Pride matters so so so so much and I love every single person there
As an older queer, allow me to say: the walls of the closet are load-bearing. It is our job as a community to stand in front of that door and tell everyone who wants to peek inside to fuck off.
There are so many reasons a person may choose not to come out and there is no reason a person would owe the public or a stranger that information. Certainly it's not owed simply because someone is famous.
We have fought for decades to make it safer for people to be open and authentic about themselves, but we are not yet there. And even if we were, the closet would still be something we need to maintain for those who are not ready to reveal that part of themselves.
May we never become so obsessed with representation that we forget the sanctity of privacy.

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Can I be honest with yall I don't want to hear SHIT against cishets at pride this year
"But it's not FOR them!!!" The biggest military power in the world belongs to a christofascist nation overseen by a felon found guilty of 34 federal crimes and has greenlit a gestapo with more direct funding than the entire military of Canada for the purpose of ethnic cleansing. Let Hetero Jessica throw some biodegradable glitter at a municipal parade
At this point if anyone is trying to exclude anyone benignly pro-queer from a pro-queer space I'm just going to assume you're a fed or something idk like something something destabilize the movement from within or whatever
Joking over I do think that it is worth addressing that 90% of âqueerbaitingâ is just jokes where queerness (especially between men) is the punchline. JD and Turk werenât like that on Scrubs to draw in queer viewership, they were like that because the joke was that they were abnormally close for male friendship at the time and haha thatâs gay. A lot of examples of âqueerbaitâ are just homophobic jokes from that era of âcomedyâ that were designed to enforce the idea that men shouldnât care about each other on anything deeper than a surface level lest they be subject to ridicule. Some people have tried to reclaim these jokes as hints of queerness but that was never their intended purpose. One of the most frequently cited examples of âqueerbaitâ that falls under this brand of jokes is Sherlockâs âone for you, and for your date.â The punchline is them being mistaken for being on a date, and you can reclaim that moment by saying âactually they are <3â but analysis of baiting has to first acknowledge that the intent was always a punchline, not a hint.
This is a perfect time to read the brilliant and unforgettable graphic novel(s) Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi, about growing up in Iran during and after the Iranian Revolution, and the rise of the oppressive theocracy that persists to this day.
Both graphic novels are available free online (Persepolis vol. 1, Persepolis vol. 2)
It also was adapted to a wonderful film (co-directed and co-written by the author) which is available to watch for free on Sundance Now (sign up for the free trial)
about 90% of fanfiction takes place in a utopia where men are thoughtful and unsure of their place in the world
@skulandcrossbones this might be the greatest tag on a reblog Iâve ever seen.
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"the only difference between a cult and a religion is the scale"
NO. NO IT ISN'T. THIS IS WHAT THE CULTS WANT YOU TO THINK IT IS NOT TRUE. THERE ARE RELIGIONS THAT ARE NOT CULTS AND CULTS THAT ARE NOT RELIGIOUS AND YOU MUST LEARN THE DIFFERENCE
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CrashCourse actually did a pretty good lecture about this a few months ago â basically, the difference between a cult and a religion is sorta granular, but thereâs a few different checklists out there that you can use to discern the likelihood of something being a cult. The one in the video (developed by Dr. Roger J Lipton and the Cult Education Institute) goes:
A charismatic leader who offers validation and is believed to be the sole or primary source of truth in the world
Abuse (including, but not limited to: sexual abuse, financial abuse or labor exploitation)
Extreme paranoia about the outside world
No meaningful tolerance for questioning of practices and beliefs
No meaningful financial transparency (basically, can you determine where the money is really going?)
No meaning or viable exit strategy (if you want to leave, how easy is it to do so?)
The more boxes that get checked off, the more likely that an organization falls under the definition of a cult.
Take Mormonism, for instance. Mormonism expects its adherents to wear specific religious garments, but thatâs not inherently cultish â many religions have religious garments without being cults, such as Muslim hijabs, Jewish kippahs or the Khalsa Sikh PaĂąj KakÄr. Mormonism also lacks transparency about its religious temple ceremonies, but thatâs not inherently cultish, either â many other faiths have closed practices as well, such as the Lakota (where only indigenous members of their communities may participate) or Haitian Vodou (which require an initiation ceremony before you may participate). However, Mormonism also checks off numerous other boxes on the cult list: there is a charismatic prophet believed to be Godâs direct speaker on Earth, there is systematic financial and labor abuse via withholding saving ordinances from members who fail to pay a 10% income tithe to the church, there is extreme distrust of âthe Worldâ and âthe Natural Manâ, there is an intolerance for asking difficult questions or seeking non-Mormon sources, there is a notoriously-opaque financial system (the LDS church boasts a huge amount of capital and stock holdings, including investments in companies like Coca-Cola and Northrop Grumman), and it is extremely difficult to officially leave the church in both a legal and social sense. Accusing the Mormon church of being a cult based on its religious practices is about as effective as claiming that sugar is evil because Hitler once ate a chocolate bar, but analyzing it using an method devised by cult researchers does provide reasonable evidence to call it a cult⌠unless youâre my devoutly-Mormon father, who insisted that the similarities were âout of contextâ and that I oughta pray more to know the truth. Alas.
We could also apply the cult checklist to other organizations as well:
Is MAGA a cult? Iâd argue that it meets at least 4 out of 6 of the criteria on the checklist â charismatic leader, extreme paranoia, intolerance to questioning and no meaningful financial transparency, with abuse is a likely addition considering the movement worships a rapist and a con artist â so itâd be reasonable to call it a cult despite not being a religion.
Is Catholicism a cult? Thatâs more debatable: they have a central figure and a recorded history of abuse, but the other four criteria are less cut-and-dry, so Iâm not comfortable making any bold declarations here.
Are the Swifties a cult? Any answer here will see me cut to ribbons, so I plead the fifth.
The video also cautions viewers to remember that not all rhetoric that cults use are inherently evil â cults often utilize catchy mantras to maintain indoctrination, but âcatchy mantrasâ are also used as slogans and calls to action for organizations that are both good and bad. Instead, itâs better to remain aware of when people are trying to manipulate you, then decide whether or not you still want to help. Not everythingâs a conspiracy! When my wife says âdang, I could go for pizza right now, but I donât wanna leave the houseâ, sheâs trying to manipulate me into saying âalright, Iâll go get a pizzaâ, but Iâm still very much a willing participant in the pizza-obtaining process. Human communication really all boils down to trying to get other people to do something you want them to do, and accepting that is an important step in learning how to interact with others in healthy ways.
Anyway good post OP, apologies for the lecture
Doudou gets in trouble for saying âAWAWAâ
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seeing people say "this trope has been done to death" as if that's ever stopped anyone from eating bread. BREAD HAS BEEN DONE TO DEATH FOR LITERALLY THOUSANDS OF YEARS AND WE STILL WANT MORE BREAD. write your chosen one AU. write your coffee shop meet-cute. write your 47th iteration of "there was only one bed" because guess what??? we're still hungry.
Father Strange, when considering the famous shoelaces code, do you interpret the president they were stolen from to be whichever US president is currently in office, or is it still Obama? I've held in my heart that it has been Obama this whole time
I also feel like The Shoelace President is Obama but I'm curious what Tumblr at large thinks
Who did you steal your shoelaces from?
Obama
Whoever is current US president
A non-US president (put in tags)

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hey guys unpopular opinion but youâre not a bad person if you donât care about every bad thing happening in the world all the time, or if you do care but youâre not constantly reblogging posts spreading awareness and information
itâs okay if youâre just on tumblr to have fun and reblog things you like or that make you happy.
humans arenât made to process trauma and suffering on a worldwide scale without any breaks whatsoever & the internet has created an unprecedented access to bad news so please never feel guilty for scrolling past it because you canât process it! and youâre not doing anything wrong & thereâs no need to feel guilty
dead serious normalize having an average boring ass life where you have enough to meet your needs we do not need to be remarkable we just need to be alive