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disabled & impoverished & abused since 1988!
on tumblr since 2012
escaped the worst of the abuse (and came out as gay and crazy) in 2014
met the most incredible girl in existence in 2016
experiencing housing insecurity (including frequent bouts of homelessness) since 2017
realised i was trans in 2022
escaped the uk and the rest of the abuse (and moved in with my internet best friend of over a decade who i first met here on tumblr!) in 2023
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I don't want to tell off a Fellow Tumblruser who I generally like and respect about this, but I've just seen someone fully apply every antiziganist trope in the book to their fantasy goblins, and I just want to ask people to be careful with this one!
Your "natural scavengers" who "Just have very different ideas of how property works and what counts as theft", with "An optimistic and opportunistic attitude - How was I meant to know you were still using that, when it looked so tempting and so unattended?" who "Interpret these situations to their own benefit"...
The idea of a race of people who are just naturally happy to scavenge the edges of your society, who are cheeky thieves but also resourceful recyclers so any well-ran city should welcome them for keeping the place clean even if it does mean the odd lawnmower goes missing, who just naturally have lower standards than other people so will happily eat roadkill and wear secondhand clothes, and have a parallel society to yours with incomprehensible property laws that always seem to favour them... This is an old, old libel about both Romany Gypsies and An Lucht Siúil and Nawken and the other Traveller ethnicities in the UK, and Roma and Sinti especially in the rest of Europe.
Along with similar stuff being applied to other ethnic minorities, and to the lower castes in India (and honestly anywhere with a caste system) and to poor people in general, but specifically the shape of "A parallel society who live in/around yours and are incomprehensible and stickyfingered and do all the dirty jobs" is something where if you're writing it, be aware of the libels you're getting close to.
Maybe it's more clear when it's talked about as if it's the present day.
I'm going to vivisect this joke, sorry, I know that's not funny and crucially that the writer of the joke was not thinking consciously of Gypsies, but it's always worth looking at where tropes like this form from.
There is a "joke" in the UK about the idea of your car being so run-down that the Gypsies came past and asked if it was scrap that they could take. This is because scrap dealing, including scrapping cars, is still a very common Gypsy profession. Because of the way that rubbish collection for large objects works in many council areas it is really common to just leave your scrap metal in a pile outside of your fence for someone to take, without them talking to you at all. This is common enough that it's financially worthwhile for a scrap man to just ride around residential areas with a van (or, a horse and cart) to collect scrap.
Along with this of course comes the idea that the Gypsy scrap dealer might just be "optimistic" about what counts as scrap, in order to steal things like bikes, garden benches, radiators, scaffolding, old cars etc. The Russian tanks which were dismantled by Roma with gas axes apparently minutes after crossing the Ukrainian border were both a very real act of heroism, and also seemingly the final form of the long-running joke about Gypsies being unstoppable in pursuit of anything we can weigh in.
"The fella said I could take it" is a bit of an orphan punchline, the idea being that the scrap man is stealing something that belongs to you, and you caught him, and now he's trying to convince you that he really thought the thing he was stealing had been left out for scrap. This is related to the idea of being not just optimistic, but also reckless, unashamed of lying, and having a bit of a "gift of the gab" - The idea that they might persuade someone that they were really authorised to take something, feels plausible.
Finally, there is also the idea of two-tier policing, that Gypsies are just "allowed to get away with theft because it's in our nature" and "police won't touch them", even that the police will tell a settled person that it's just inevitable that Gypsies steal things, because we don't have the same understanding of property as everyone else.
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hi, filipino here. just want to say that our independence day is june 12, not july 4. july 4 is when the united states government decided that they would recognize our freedom, specifically because it is your independence day and they wanted to cement their cultural hegemony over our country. and because of their influence on our country this was recognized for a time as our independence day. we still commemorate it, but i hope you can understand why we don’t want our independence day to be associated so closely with our former colonizer. it wasn’t even a work holiday for us.
june 12 is the day that we filipinos declared our own independence for ourselves, and that is what we celebrate as independence day
I wish I could make white people(and not just white Americans) understand how diverse the pre-columbian Americas were. The history, religion, culture, politics was at least as complex as Europe's. There was the full gamut of religions, from monotheists to animists to ancestral religions. There were city building empires, village farmers, nomadic traders, and so many other ways to live. This is all just based on what we know, the fragments left behind and the stories of survivors of an apocalyptic plague. All this before the most extended campaign of genocide in history was waged in an attempt to wipe out those survivors.
Over 500 years spent trying to cut down a whole trunk of human culture.
Do you understand how much poorer our whole species is because of it? Can you imagine where art, religion, and science would be if we still had these vast bodies of knowledge? The stain of the colonial project will never be fully washed clean. We owe more than just the land to those we stole from. We owe them a whole future, a future that could have been brighter for all of us. If only greed and fear weren't allowed to rule this land.
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If you'd like an essay-formatted version of this post to read or share, here's a link to it on pluralistic.net, my surveillance-free, ad-free, tracker-free blog:
It's been 55 years since Milton Friedman – cursed be his name – published his NYT editorial, "The Social Responsibility of Business Is to Increase Its Profits," in which he invented the idea of shareholder supremacy out of whole cloth and declared it to be a universal, freestanding, inarguable truth:
Friedman's editorial railed against the idea of "corporate social responsibility," arguing that corporate managers should confine the exercise of their consciences to projects involving their own money and resources. At work, managers must harden their bleeding hearts and do nothing except increase the returns to their shareholders.
Friedman wasn't merely arguing that this would give rise to better companies – the crux of his argument was that by adopting this "fiduciary duty" standard, it would be easy to determine whether a company was being well-managed or run into the ground:
Friedman argued that "being a good person" was a squishy, undefinable standard that could never be objectively measured. But "maximizing shareholder value" was a crisp, bright-line test that could be readily evaluated by any reasonable person. "Did this manager make as much money as possible for the company's owners?" feels like the kind of question we can all agree on, while, "Did this manager behave in an ethical way?" is much harder to answer.
But even a few moments' thoughts reveal the flaw in this line of reasoning. We can all agree whether a manager made money for the shareholders – but how can we know whether the manager made as much money as possible?
Think about how much "corporate social responsibility" cashes out to performative and insincere nonsense and/or cynical marketing. Target didn't stock Pride merch because they love their LGBTQ friends. They stocked it because they thought they could sell it (same goes for BP marketing its "green" gasoline). Google supports its coders' environmental/queer/antipoverty efforts because being the "don't be evil" company lets you hire in-demand workers who might otherwise go to work for Meta, and every engineer a Silicon Valley firm hires adds an average of $1m to the company's annual bottom line.
Further: it would be absurd to hold managers to the "make as much money as possible" standard in a competitive market, because in that market, there will always be a company that comes in second. If "as much money as possible" is the standard and you're Chairman of the Board of the number two company, with $10b in profit, while the number one pulled in $11b, "as much money as possible" demands that you fire the C-suite immediately, since they objectively could have done 10% better.
So the real standard isn't "make as much money as possible," it's "try to make as much money as possible." And here again, there's no objective way to evaluate managerial performance. Target made a lot of money by selling Pride merch…until they didn't. Do we fire the Target C-suite because they failed to anticipate that 2024 would mark America's transition into the chuddocene, an era in which selling Pride tchotchkes makes you cucked and soy and, you know, gay?
Whether it's "make as much money as possible" or "try to make as much money as possible*," shareholder supremacy can only be evaluated with the aid of a crystal ball…or a time machine.
Which raises a question: what made this nonsensical shareholder supremacy standard so damned attractive to corporate leaders?
Well, what if the ambiguity of shareholder supremacy was a feature and not a bug? What if the function of shareholder supremacy was to absolve the cruelest people for indulging their most sociopathic instincts? What if this "bright line test" was actually a universal excuse, an all-purpose accountability sink that could be used to justify any cruelty or cowardice? "Why didn't I fire my college buddy when I found out that he was sexually abusing his colleagues? Well, he was the best salesman on the team, and I have an obligation to my shareholders. Sorry, my hands were tied."
"Profit" shouldn't be the primary goal of any company. Money is a tool to facilitate the trade of labor, goods, and services. On its own it is entirely worthless - a million dollars only has value because it can be exchanged for things, not because of any inherent value or usefulness of having lots of money.
That doesn't mean profit and shareholder returns should be ignored, just that it should be secondary to whatever product or service the company actually offers.
What's especially crazy about this is that there really is a clear bright line we could be using. Marshall Rosenberg's version of human needs theory identifies "needs" as that category of resources essential to life, universal to every human who has ever lived, and making no reference to specific actions or specific people (with the exception of the need for other's well-being).
The economist Manfred Max-Neef has put forward 9 categories of needs, but with a little thought and practice needs are not difficult to either identify, or distinguish from non-needs (the test for universality is particularly useful). Some examples of needs include food, water, air, shelter, autonomy, intimacy, safety, play, and connection.
Any person can see how these things are critical to every person's life, from cavemen to CEOs—as opposed to, for example, money or a nice car. Under this terminology those are strategies to meet needs.
Rosenberg's version of human need theory has other things to say. Meeting needs drives all human behavior. It is possible to meet everyon's needs (though not via their preferred strategies). Needs are satisfiable. And to resolve a conflict is to satisfy the needs of everyone involved.
This last creates a clear standard for judging the behavior of both inviduals and organizations. And while people can always lie, the satisfaction of a need, at least to the person who has the need, is always directly identifiable. When you have eaten you feel full, when you spend time with loved ones you feel fulfilled, when you play you feel joyful.
So there'is a clear bright line here: satisfaction. And what is satisfied (needs, in the technical sense) can be objectively described and has a foundation in the physical reality of our bodies (as opposed to moral foundations, which are usually axiomatic). That means it successfully avoids the squishiness trap that 'maximizing shareholder profits' shares with every moral system ever invented. (this is explicitly not a moral system, and take an anti-moral realist position on morality)
Of course, the process of organizing our world along these lines is change so extreme that it frightens those in power. And many too, cannot imagine it as an option. So, we plod along.
I truly believe that gettin your belly out for summer is very hot and sexy and I do wanna see that shit shake but if you don't believe that I am truly Horny For It or if that's not enough for you to join crop top summer, then please remember this: horrible men will be apoplectic with rage at the sight of your beautiful big belly unapologetically out in the sunshine and spite is the best reason to do anything.
I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.
Give yourself the treat before you start. I'm serious. And ideally during the task and afterwards too.
Executive dysfunction comes from a lack of available dopamine. Common advice is wrong. You need to provide your own dopamine before you can start. Otherwise you're trying to run your car on empty.
"But what if I still don't do it" well you already weren't getting it done anyway. Now you have a little treat. Try again later.
You deserve kindness and care even when you aren't being productive.
(Also read How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis)
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