I need sleep to do battle again tomorrow

likes caviar and cigarettes

is well versed in etiquette

is extraordinarily nice

men just love to run their fucking mouth about what women do or do not want without even once considering consulting any actual women on the matter

and as your local ace i understand why such advice is appealing because i have been 13 and feeling a rising panic that i would answer "wrong" and bad things would happen. however as an adult i now understand that most people asking this are just asking you a question on par with asking what movies/music/whatever you like. they're not testing you, and if you give a fake answer, you're going to end up fielding follow-up questions or being sent memes or whatever, because they're trying to engage with your answers. just say a celebrity that you actually like (regardless of if you find them attractive or have a "crush"), or if you don't have one, say you don't pay attention to celebrities

have you seen her? now you have :)

having a particularly heavy grief day for various reasons, so please forgive my posting two poems in one day. this one is about mourning and the ways in which we mythologize the dead. transcription under the cut