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Reminder that spring will always come back, music will never stop being created, and there are still so many books left to read! You’re alive! You’re alive! You’re alive!

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Voice Deepening Stretches
Lean your head back until you feel a light stretch in your neck tendons.
Hold for fifteen seconds.
Lightly hum, and gradually bring it down lower as you go.
Center your head.
Now lean your head to the left until you feel a light stretch.
Hold for fifteen seconds.
Center your head.
Repeat this process leaning your head to the right.
Lower your head down and put your hands behind your head.
Try to push your head against your hands upwards, while providing resistance from your hands.
Is there a heightening version of this, does anyone know?
This is digging I am happy to do for you! I had started writing a long thing about my vocal training as a soprano, but then I thought “if someone told me about their vocal training as a baritone in response to me seeking trans masc help, I’m not sure I’d find the advice particularly helpful.”
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In my experience, Reddit is actually the best place for trans tips that mean anything. I’ve read so many articles for trans masc tips and most of them have links that don’t work and advice I don’t understand and can’t use because I’m not medically transitioning and have no plans to. Testosterone would take away my high voice and I take too much joy in it. Plus with the articles, who knows how old they are? r/ftm has people posting every day, and there’s an r/mtf that’s just the same (today is just the first day I’ve looked at it, for obvious reasons.)
steadily recognizing that i’m allowed to exist in public spaces and not feel embarrassed about it… can you believe i used to feel weird about/too inadequate to sit on a bench in a public space. it’s ok. you’re allowed to be. just be. just sit on a bench. it’s ok
For every fat person who is questioning if this applies to them, you absolutely deserve to exist in public.
And it’s cruel that this world ever made you believe you didn’t
You deserve love now. Not once you lose weight. Not once you accomplish that thing. Not once you move. Not once you get on medication. Not once you start therapy. Not once you get that job. Not once you're more like them. Now. You don't have to earn the right to be loved. You deserve it right now, and always have.

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natural voice change
Lower
Boom Your Voice
How to deepen your voice naturally
How to talk with a deeper voice
How to deepen your voice (pre-t) Voice masculinization
Vocal androgyny in speech and singing
This Phone App Helps Transgender Users Change The Pitch And Tone Of Their Voices (buzzfeed article)
Higher
Voice Feminization
Pitch, range, resonance, depth
How to develop a female voice
Feminine voice techniques
Someone might need this
since literally none of the links in this entire post works, I took it upon myself to go find stuff that seems useful rather than let an empty post go around giving others hope lmao. I haven’t tried these myself but maybe it works for some of y’all ?
please add links if you got other useful stuff too !
Lower :
Voice Deepening Stretches. a tumblr post with pictures to show how.
How To Deepen Your Voice FTM. Alexander Jasper-Jay on Youtube. Pretty much a tutorial for the stretches from the previous post.
How to Make Your Voice Sound Deeper. Howcast on Youtube. Not FtM related or focused, I think this is mostly for acting ? ? ?
Higher :
How to make your voice feminine. No head voice. No falsetto. Ada Han on Youtube.
How to Completely Feminize Your Voice. An article by Michela, a trans woman.
Vocal Feminization Guide for any voice type. Impulse Collective DID on Youtube.
Emma’s Voice Guide ! Reddit article.
AmaRoseLessons on YouTube has some great content for both directions and a really helpful discord server as well where you can practice and get feedback etc.
also recommend this essay/paper that addresses FTM voice health, especially relevant if you want to take care of a singing voice or such but also important in general!
some of the exercises people do can actually be quite harmful. and as AmaRose discusses as well that often the pitch is not really the most important thing.
stop humiliating fat children/fat teens/fat young adults/fat adults/fat folks in general. stop questioning/speculating on our food intake, our energy out put, how our individual bodies must feel, what our health is,etc.
The tweet: https://twitter.com/Lionhearted_ben/status/1629919975203848192?t=HfF1j3BVqZMgZEIHgVnz3w&s=19
And in case Twitter is being a fool, here's the PDF itself: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1PiO5JAc2_erXL9rEPU-Gj4DXQ3N0dTbe/view
Shout-out to a friend for showing me this!!
ID: Tweet made on February 26 2023, by Ben Haseen (He/Him) @/Lionhearted ben, that say,
"For those who don't know and new followers, last year I created the first breast cancer self exam patient education for post mastectomy trans patients. It includes a how to video guide link. You can download it for free here!" [google drive link preview shown of "Self Chest infographic.pdf"]
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Beating the Heat while Fat: A Summer Survival Guide
Summer is (almost) here and it’s going to be hotter than ever. If you’re fat (like me), you know how much hot weather sucks. Specifically, we get to deal with fun issues like underboob sweat, chub rub, skin fold sunburn, and more. And while I like to take a body neutral approach to everything, this can be hard in summer thanks to exclusion and neglect.
The thing is that not a lot of people really… talk about these things, though, because that would interfere with our image of summer. Not a lot of companies are marketing their stuff as a solution to fat people’s problems, because that would be acknowledging that fat people might actually want to go outside during summer.
Having been fat for many a summer now, I want to share some of my resources for enjoying summer! These are all based on personal recommendations and things I have directly experienced. Please feel free to reblog and add on with your experiences and recommendations!
However, if your commentary is even remotely fatphobic, you will be blocked and your comments will be deleted. This post is not for you, and nobody is actually interested in what you have to say!
Back and Underboob Sweat
Two words: Gold Bond. Gold Bond fixes this. It comes in powder, stick, and spray form. I’ve used the powder in shoes, but not on my body. They’ve recently released an invisible form of the spray, which I’m very excited about.
Spray this under your breast tissue or other skin folds, or on flat areas of skin like your lower back that tend to sweat. Some of their powders have aloe in them, which is delightfully soothing for the skin.
Make sure that if you’re sensitive to scent, you buy one of the unscented versions. The “fresh” scent is nice, but it is a scent!
When you’re using this type of spray, do it clean but dry. Don’t do it right after a shower- give your skin a chance to dry off. Lift your breast or skin fold, spray underneath, and then hold it for a couple of seconds to let the spray dry down.
You can also use other types of powder, like body powder or baby powder. There’s mixed evidence about talc-containing powder and its link to cancer, but some people do find talcum powder more irritating than talc-free powder, so whether or not you use this is up to you.
Do keep in mind that this is NOT sunscreen! Apply your sunscreen first for areas of exposed skin.
Chub Rub
Dealing with the tops of your thighs rubbing together is extremely unfun. There are a couple of ways I like to deal with this!
Slip Shorts
I actually reviewed a bunch of these a few years ago. Slip shorts or bike shorts are perfect for wearing under dresses or loose-fitting rompers as a way to stop your thighs from rubbing. As a bonus, if you’re using bike shorts, sometimes they come with extra pockets to stash stuff in.
Friction Sticks
If you’re wearing a swimsuit and don’t want to wear shorts, or just don’t want to wear shorts, period, then a friction stick is another good way to avoid chub rub! I have a couple, Bodyglide and Gold Bond.
If you’re buying Bodyglide, they have one that’s just as good, Bodyglide Outdoor, that is sometimes cheaper. There’s a Bodyglide “For Her” which I’ve never tried, but that’s usually more expensive and let’s be real, do you really need to moisturize your inner thighs? I think not!
There’s also creams you can use but I find those messy and less effective than the sticks. You might like them, though! Experiment with products to find the one(s) that work for you.
Friction sticks can also stop foot blisters. Rub a little on your heel, toe, or wherever you get hot spots.
Dealing With Sweat
I sweat, you sweat, we all sweat. Humans were meant to sweat. Sweating’s a good thing. But that doesn’t mean it’s fun, and frankly I hate being sweaty. Typically, fat people sweat more than thin people, for several reasons related to the way we thermoregulate.
Fortunately, there are lots of ways to make summer sweating less annoying. I’ve written about this before, so you can check out that post for some of my favorite tips for dealing with sweat. Here’s some of the highlights.
Evaporative Cooling
A bandanna or other wrap filled with water crystals can do AMAZING things. You can make this yourself really easily- if you can’t find water crystals, you can just use Orbeez. They sell little 99 cent packs of those in the checkout lines at some stores and at the dollar store, and you can make several cooling wraps with one packet.
You can also get evaporative cooling towels, like Frogg Toggs. I don’t like those as much because they tend to start smelling a little funny, but they’re great for larger area coverage.
Using these will help cool you down and will do the same thing that sweat does– without being sticky.
Hair
If you have long hair, get it off the back of your neck. I used to put it up in a bun with a bun former, but now I just use claw clips. They’re cuter and easier! Seriously, this will help you so much. Get the hair up and away from your skin, you’ll feel so much better.
Hand Fans
I always have a hand fan with me, but not one of the little battery operated ones. I’ve tried a lot of those! I even took one up a mountain once, and it was the only reason I survived. But they never provide the same level of breeze that my folding fan does.
I use this one because it’s cute, and you can get cute ones for a couple bucks on Amazon. I do prefer fabric to the stiff paper ones, just because they’re a bit more durable- I’ve had mine for years now. It’s good.
I’m also not a huge fan of those fans that go around your neck, but I’ve seen many people enjoying them. If they work for you, great!
Hydration and Electrolytes
Carry water with you when you go places, and if you’re gonna be out for a while doing anything strenuous, take some electrolyte tablets with you. I like Nuun because I think they taste good, but there’s lots of brands out there.
There’s no one mineral called electrolyte, just so you know. Electrolytes are a group of minerals that includes sodium, potassium, and chloride as the primary (or significant) electrolytes. Electrolytes are important because they have a natural positive or negative electrical charge when dissolved in water. This electricity is how your nerves transmit information and how your cells make your muscles contract, so low levels of electrolytes can cause some serious issues. Different electrolyte imbalances have different symptoms, but common symptoms include nausea, fatigue, confusion, tremors, muscle spasms (cramps), and dizziness.
If you’re feeling those as you’re moving around outside, get somewhere cool, drink some water, and either eat some food or add electrolyte tablets to your water. This will help stabilize you quickly!
Skin Fold Sunburn Prevention
Everybody should wear sunscreen, period. End of story.
But if you’re applying sunscreen by yourself and you have skin folds, it can be a pain to reach them! This is especially true for any folds that form on your upper back or around your upper arm.
These areas can burn and be very painful, especially if you’re in swimwear or a sleeveless top. It’s also VERY easy to forget that these areas need sunscreen!
If you don’t want or don’t have someone to help you apply those areas you can’t reach, spray sunscreen can be a way to get those areas. If you don’t like the spray or want heavier coverage with a cream, then use a lotion applicator!
If the stick style doesn’t work for you (like if you have shoulder mobility issues), the strap style asks for a different range of motion. If you can’t find one that works for you at a big box store, look at a pharmacy. These are often sold as disability aids or for elderly people with a reduced range of motion.
But honestly, one of the most important things about this is just knowing your body. Know where your skin folds are and think about how they move as you’re applying sunscreen. Get underneath them- as you move, those areas can be exposed to the sun, too.
So yeah, that’s my best advice for beating the heat while fat. If you’ve got other tips, feel free to share them!
destigmatize having a body/body parts that look “gross”
destigmatize having a reoccurring rash that you can’t control
destigmatize “strange looking” veins
destigmatize “gross” scarring
destigmatize having bodies that are broken and express that
destigmatize being disabled and having “atypical” physical manifestations of said disability
disabled bodies are beautiful

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btw the term "women's health" to discuss uterine care/menstruation isnt just transphobic, it also keeps up this aggravating idea that the uterus & menstruation are obscene and impolite and need to be kept hidden under flowery vague terms as to not offend any cis men. like trans people demanding the end of gendered language around this stuff aren't just helping trans people, its also just good to normalize calling tampons and pads "menstrual supplies" because thats what they fucking are!!! we should say the words uterus vagina menstruation and we should do it in public and in stores instead of talking about ~women's needs~ and ~feminine care~. trans liberation is fundamental to women's liberation and anti-patriarchal action in general. listening to trans men & people isn't bad for women its good for literally everyone
yes! calling gynecology etc “women’s health” also reinforces a long history of centering the reproductive system as the most important part of women’s bodies and the only part that needs attention from a doctor.
when you hear stories about how historically, every ailment a woman could possibly have was blamed on the uterus (hysteria, the wandering womb, etc)? this kind of vague and generalized language keeps the legacy of that reductive approach alive. every part of women’s bodies are important to their health, and the idea that the reproductive system is the most/only important part is responsible for a lot of the barriers that women face when trying to access quality healthcare.
“women’s health” as a concept should include every part of the body and every kind of body a woman might have, because if it doesn’t, that only ends one way: women being neglected by medical professionals who don’t know or care enough to treat them as entire people.
listening to trans men and other trans people when we say neutral language in medicine is important will only improve medical care for women. you can say we’re trying to erase women all you want, but the reality is that it’s actually the gendering of reproductive care that leads to women being neglected.
Today I found out because of another fat trans guy who has been through the same thing that being fat means you need to be on a higher dose of HRT for it to work.
I've been on testosterone for three months now and I've had no effects. I was wondering why because in transition timelines I've seen, their voices started to get deeper after three months.
I knew I was on a low dose, but I didn't consider it wasn't working in particular because of my weight. Nobody ever taught me this INCLUDING other trans people. Probably because most of the other trans people I've encountered were skinny.
fat trans men i need y’all to know:
you can get top surgery while fat
you can go on hormones while fat
you can be in a loving relationship while fat
you can pass while fat
you can be worthy of love and respect and space while fat
you can have a respectful relationship with your body while fat
you can be trans while being fat!!!
being fat will not stop you from being trans!!!
i love you!!!
LGBTQ+ women defined our history. It’s time to acknowledge it during Women’s History Month and beyond.
It’s no secret that LGBTQ+ women have been breaking boundaries since the beginning of time. Unfortunately, patriarchy and homophobia often leave their identities obscured from history.
While every March marks Women’s History Month, queer and transgender women have yet to get their flowers. There have been attempts to make the month more queer and trans-inclusive, but recognizing the work of LGBTQ+ women goes beyond simply saying that it’s their month, too. It’s our duty to uncover the contributions of queer and trans women throughout history and honor them all 365 days of the year.
honestly i don't trust any argument that hinges on "this surgery is GROSS and HORRIFIC and MUTILATING!" because that is every fucking surgery. surgery is gross. it involves cutting people open and doing stuff to parts of the body that was never meant to have stuff done to it. and surgery recovery is frequently an ordeal and can involve nasty stuff that sucks to look at. thats just how surgery works. if someone's body being cut open and messed around with and sewn up, and recovering bruised and bloody and having to drain pus is grounds for something being horrific mutilation, then pretty much every surgery is mutilation. there is a reason why doctors generally don't judge the merits of a surgery on how gross it looks and instead focus on silly little things like "how safe is it to perform" and "how much does it improve the patient's life". do not trust anyone who wants you to think a surgery is bad just because its upsetting to hear the gory details about how its performed (especially if they are Not A Doctor)

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You can’t be anti diet culture without accepting the fact that some people’s bodies might not be thin when they’re not under the circumstances of being malnourished.
this is a gentle reminder to stop sucking in your stomach. it’s okay to take up space.