Just a random girl, really

Fandom Problem #14,523:

I know that a lot of people like to pretend that edgelords are all men who live in their parents' basement and whatnot. But the vast majority of these edgelords are actually women who love to sling around hateful, radfem slogans. No time for men bullshit, I believe in women's rights and women's wrongs, etc. Turning to wicca and witchcraft to be hateful towards "male focused" religions. If they're not an outright atheist. Just because they use pastel colours doesn't mean they're not some hateful and argumentative piece of shit.

Fandom Problem #14,083:

"We want more morally grey characters!"

Morally grey character exists

"OMG HE'S GOT NO REDEEMING QUALITIES AND IS SOOO PROBLEMATIC!"

First off, if you actually read, he has several redeeming qualities

Fandom Problem #14,075:

"Why are people fawning over the male side characters, when the main characters are women?! This is misogyny! 😡"

"AaAage GAaAAaaaaAAAAAAAAAP!!!!" 🤯🤯🤯 (when it's only like 4 or 5 years gap, yes I saw such comments on tiktok and reddit..)

"Ur ruining the [fem character]'s independence, she'd never love a man!!!" 😵

"THEY LITERALLY HAAAaAATte each OtheRrrR!!!" 😱 (if they were both males, they'd go "WOOOWWWWWW ENEMIES TO LOVERRRRRSSS!!!!" or "THEY HAVE SO MUCH POTENTIAL/BEST DYNAMICS!!!")

"They're SIBLINGS CODED EWWWW!!!" 😱🤢

"They're so SIBLINGS!!!" 🤮🤮🤮

"THEY'RE LITERALLY FRIENDS!!!" 😱

"[The male character] looks better/has a better chemistry with [another male character]!!!" Or "[The fem character] has better chemistry with [another fem character]!!!!" (Who are usually friends btw)

"THEY'RE LITERALLY GAY/LESBIAN FOR EACH OTHER!!! It is vEry IMPLIIiiIiiiIIIED!!!!" 😡😡😡

"THEY WERE NEVER CANONNNN!!!!"

"EWWWW GROSS!! How can you ship them!!!"

"THEY LITERALLY SAW EACH OTHER FOR OOoaoOoNCe!!!"

"You're shipping them just bc they look good together, NOTHING MOREEEE!!!!" (When they actually do literally the same with gay ships)

"SHE'S LIKE HIS MoThERrrrRRrRrrRRRR!!!" (One of the most stupid reason I ever heard.. I'm talking about Blade and Baiheng)

It doesn't matter if the ship is canon or not, they'll find million reasons to hate a male x fem ship, while they can't find at least one reason to hate a yaoi/yuri ship..

I hate how ppl are hypocritical here, just bc no one can see who tf is sitting behind that screen.

I do have my fav yaoi and yuri ships, I also have fem x male ships, and I never minded any ship tbh, if u like this ship/if u ship them, go on, it's oki.

BUT the way they fight against any straight ship makes my mind boil, like wtf bro? Who said straight ships are worse than gay ships, and who tf said gay ships are the worst? Bruh why tf do you even bother yourself to hate a fictional sht?

Tbh I respect almost every ship, especially when ppl aren't being mean, but man most of fandoms I see on reddit and other sites are so ass I swear.

I never had an argument about ships tbh, but I see and read the comments and fights in the posts talking about such stuff.

Like when the fck did straight ships became something boring or ass? Why do ppl even do this I don't understand? Why can't ppl like or AT LEAST respect other ships? Is it just me who likes both ships, straight and gay? Why ppl can't do the same idk?

I was a HUGE fan of satosugu, spent hours looking for fanarts and doujinshi/comics, but when I saw how fans are talking about them/or how they treat their ship comparing to others, I started to hate myself..

Like, you care about friendship when it comes to straight ships, but there's no meaning of friendship between two males or two women? I genuinely feel bad for those people bc bruh.. you need a therapy.

I don't mind any ship, honestly, as long as people aren't being ass about it, canon or not, I respect all ships as long as I see the same from others. BUT when ppl start being ass, idk I start to HATE these ships I swear..

I was even worried, like.. am I being a homophobic? No, bc I do like yaoi/yuri ships.. then why i hate some of other yaoi ships..? BECAUSE OF THE DAMN FANDOM. I'm not even gonna talk about danren shit, one of the biggest shit I ever seen, I swear. I never minded the ship, I even liked it, but again I started hating it when I saw how ppl literally despise Baiheng and blade ship.. why? Bruh, why? No, I don't even need an answer bc I'm tired of reading this shit in comments under every post containing a straight ship.

Nounou kissed Louli on the cheek, and ppl immediately started "YEEEEES LESBIANS!!!" like bruh I don't mind it, I like the ship honestly, it's cute and gives me a lot of fluffy vibes, kind of a happy romantic relationship, but why when someone says I see them just as friends everyone starts barking "are u blind?" "She literally kissed her on the cheek, ur saying you'd do the same with ur friend?" Yes, I would. If u guys were not so weird.

In general, I wanna say, i like both ships, I have a list full of both straight and gay ships, but i can't stand how people act so hypocritically and usually stand against females.. bruh, if you hate females, just say it, no ones gonna beat you for it. We don't even know who u are. You're sitting behind a screen and nobody sees you, so why are you so coward? Just admit that you hate girls.

What surprises me the most, is that women also do the same, not all of them ofc, I'm talking about the majority I've seen on the internet.

Again, I respect all the ships/opinions/fandoms, as long as u guys aren't being ass :) if u start being an ass I'll probably stop respecting YOU firstly, then I'll stop liking/respecting the ship ur trying to defend with the weakest arguments..

Someone has to say this..

you are playing with an imaginary toy in an imaginary sandbox. fandom is all about having fun and letting your imagination run wild. canon is only a suggestion, not a rule. how much of canon you will follow, if any, is entirely up to you.

please stop trying to apply rules on hobbies and something that’s supposed to be your comfort place and a form of self-care.

“is it okay if I think this” “is it okay if I imagine that” it’s YOUR little world that you create for yourself and your own enjoyment. you literally do not need strangers’ opinions or permission when it comes to a hobby that doesn’t harm or affect anybody in real life. again, it’s YOUR imagination, YOUR world, YOUR creation. you have all the power and the freedom to:

headcanon whatever you want, however you want

ship whatever you want, however you want

write whatever you want, however you want

draw whatever you want, however you want

create whatever you want, however you want

reject whatever you want, however you want

as long as you’re not harming anybody in real life, how you have fun with fictional characters and your imagination is no one’s business but your own’s.

Fandom Problem #15066:

"Would it be better if yuri?"

Project Hail Mary // Incorrect quotes 1/?

Bonus:

Motherfuckers can miss me with that shit about how Elon “rUiNeD” Twitter. If anything, he’s the first person to make it valuable in any meaningful way.

i'm being so serious when i say you have to kill the live studio audience in your head.

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