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Was planning to send a similar problem, in particular about people who HAVE to make sure people know that they ship this M/F pair as Fdom and that she totally pegs. And I don't mean people who just mentions their preference, you know the ones I'm talking about.
1. You yourself fell for a historical inaccuracy: it was the upper class women who had the privilege of not gaving jobs. Lower class women had jobs.
2. I think you'd like Apothecary Diaries. While not fully historically accurate, it provides a relatively accurate version of what a strong woman from that time period would go through and how she'd navigate her surroundings compared to a lot of period pieces.
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Antis are straight up fascists who will send you death threats and gore over shipping a 17yo and an 18yo together. The worst thing a proshipper will do is call you 'boring' for not liking darkfic.
But sure. They're both the problem. Okay anon.
Also, if you're using it as an insult at all, you're not really reclaiming it. The idea of reclaiming a slur is supposed to be turning it into a good thing.
I don't know what's worse about people making all sex abuse victims aroace...the implication that only aroace people would say "no" to sex, or the implication that they're now "ruined" and can never have sex or a healthy relationship ever again.
It's disgusting either way.
Exactly. And the whole "too many villains get redeemed" thing is bullshit anyways if you simply engage with media outside of ones aimed at children. I promise you there are PLENTY of irredeemable villains/ ones who are truly bad and all you need to do is stop watching so much content for kids.
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I really really wish Ao3 had something like a shuffle button. There’s quite a few ships or smaller fandoms where I’ve read everything or almost everything available and it would be super cool to be able to put all my tags and ships then get to have the option to have all the fics show up in a completely random order so I could easily see some I might have forgotten about or just have the option for variety!
People use Letterboxd for everything BUT movie reviews I'm fucking sick of it. Using it to complain that people were talking in your theater? Like yeah that sucks but it's irrelevant to the actual movie.
The equation of all examples of the “funny anime pervert” trope to be the same, such as the case of equating sweet and kind Brock from the Pokemon anime to characters who have canonically committed sexual assault
People posting ship art but being unable to just be "here's the ship art!" They NEED to include a diatribe about how they don't normally like het pairings and they ship this one in a bi4bi t4t way, or "they're yuri to me 🥺". It comes off as bizarrely insecure, like, overcompensating for something?
With how much the film world has already been known to not do much about and continue working with predators, including child predators, and has even kind of been built around them, I really don't understand why so many people seem surprised at how many people are still willing to work with JKR despite her anti-trans politics.
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When people join strict no-harassment communities then whine about being banned/kicked out after making some violent "jokes" because "the group targeted deserves it". "No harassment" means "absolutely no harassment". Yes, even for terfs, Yes, even for proshippers. Yes, even for politicans and police. Go vent somewhere else. You are not "tagetted" or "opressed" for being punished for not following this one simple rule.
