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Excuse me I'm extremely normal about The Character. Yes I got a stomachache thinking about them in passing and needed to lie down for a bit before I felt well enough to go about the rest of my day. But apart from that I'm completely and utterly normal about them.
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at this point I think alecto the ninth will be. Like. A choose your own adventure novel with chunks that are written in invisible ink and the smut scenes in cypher. Also it's upside down
until i read this panel from fun home by alison bechdel, i always thought that cam calling pyrrha a chicken hawk in the campalpyrrha goodbye scene was just a general insult, while pal’s accusation of “old roué” was more openly flirtatious BUT THEY’RE SAYING THE SAME THING!!! the last thing they ever said to pyrrha was to call her old and make fun of her for having controversially younger partners AND THEN SHE HAD TO OUTLIVE THEM BOTH
Pyrrha: please. Don’t do this it’s the worst thing that could happen to you. Don’t do it. I love you both so much
Cam and Pal, about to do it anyway: ok cougar
all public transport should be free unconditionally and I'm TIREDDD of pretending this is a radical idea
there is a double standard where public transport is expected to bring profit, but roads and highways are treated as a common good and are built and maintained (e.g. patching holes) through taxes
fuck that
One of the reasons “You can’t take loved away” is so important is that it extends much further than Nona loving Cam, Pyrrha, and Palamades and them loving her back. Nona doesn’t just love them—she loves everyone. She loves people! She loves nature! She is infatuated with all of it, which means that even though Alecto, who is absolutely fuming with (righteous) rage at humanity and everything they’ve done to her, loves everything too. It isn’t the same as Nona’s love because of all the history and context, but it’s still there. The earth loves herself and thinks she’s beautiful. She thinks all the things that she created and live alongside her are beautiful as well. And even though that got MAJORLY FUCKED UP, that won’t go away completely, because it can’t.
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Nona edition
dont tell anyone because its top secret but i just got the next tumblr update early and notes become like a currency that you can use to buy different outfits for your posts
ever since i was a little girl i knew fiction would save me
i must say, i am a huge fan of when a book is in the middle of a very exciting plot containing many interesting problems when out of nowhere for a few pages it's like, "hey by the way, real quick, here's a detailed explanation of the city's water filtration system! i'm telling you this for a reason and you should worry about it. anyway! haha okay back to the plot" and you just get to be Scared for a while
i am kissing you on the mouth right now
you are the only person who understands me. you and the person who tagged a series of unfortunate events
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Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
when I was in high school, I overheard two older students talking about a friend of theirs.
One of them said something like, "it doesn't bother me that [Friend] was in residential mental health treatment, I just wish they wouldn't talk about it ALL the time".
The other replied, "Well, that was all of last year for them. So when they say 'when I was in treatment,' it's like when you say 'last year'."
I try to remember that any time someone says something that sounds Shocking to me. sometimes one person's scary special crisis is another person's last year.
If you want to be accepting of mental illness, you need to accept the fact that some people's everyday lives are going to be terrifying to you. That doesn't mean they don't get to talk about it. Stop forcing hurt, isolated people to become even MORE hurt and isolated because you can't fathom toughening up a bit.
harrow the ninth is kind of just how it feels to be the new person at work
MORE BLACK MAGICAL GIRLS MORE LATINA MAGICAL GIRLS MORE INDIGENOUS MAGICAL GIRLS MORE TRANS MAGICAL GIRLS
the backrooms are simply not as scary conceptually if there is Something In Them
the whole reason why they're so unnerving is BECAUSE there's nothing in them!! because they're unrelentingly liminal and lonely and uncomforting. there shouldn't be a monster guy in there chasing you. you should glimpse other humans (?) from a distance but they walk away before you can close the gap and then they're gone. things should run away from YOU. do u get it
"and there was a MONSTERowooowwohhhh" the monster is isolation and banal beige sameness and uncanny valley architecture. you fool. you rube. you're putting a hat on a hat and the second hat is not only unnecessary but it ruins the first hat!!!!!!! "there's a monster in there" great so now it's just another place for a monster to be. ridiculous
"Fuck you my child is completely fine" your kid starts crying every time someone makes them feel safe and cared about.
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self help books and unsolicited advice-giving people: Don't let trauma define you. Live your life as yourself!
meanwhile trauma: renders my personal relationships into mine fields, renders my physical health into a constant pain and fatigue situation, turns my ability to work and think into a distant past-time, erases my control over how much anxiety and panic I feel daily, traps me into a cycle of guilt, shame and feeling unlovable and worthless, makes me scramble for problematic coping mechanisms just to stay alive
me: haha yeah how could I let this affect me on a personal level, that would be so pathetic of me
[ID: a screenshot of a comic speech bubble. The black text in it reads "No matter how open-minded, socially conscious, anti-racist I think I am, I still have old learned hidden biases that I need to examine. It is my responsibility to check myself daily for my stereotypes, prejudices and, ultimately, discrimination." /ID end]
antiracism is a constant process. i was raised in a racist village and it's not easy to get rid of it. i moved away over 10 years ago but those ideas are still haunting me.
also keep in mind that shame + guilt are not conducive to growing as a person. when it comes to "checking yourself" it should be a non-judgemental process. it's not about flagellating yourself for every bad thought or trying to purify your mind of all corruption. it's only when acknowledging your own racist thoughts doesn't fill you with dread that you can really progress past the white guilt of it all.
radical self-acceptance & genuine self-critique are not opposites. they need each other. do not let obsessive-compulsive behaviors colonize your desire to grow as a person.
