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fortune flavors the bold. but with what spices.......who can say

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if as a writer the only positive thing u can think to have the male love interest tell the female love interest is that she's strong, u need to go back to the drawing board

#by the way ESPECIALLY if it's in reference to her surviving horrific trauma #and not that this is my wheelhouse. but dare I say also especially if she's a woman of color

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my cats aren't comfortable meowing for food yet but this evening they did both peek around the couch to stare expectantly at me. artist's rendition below

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I'd like to make an important clarification, which is that smallboy is actually normalsize. bigboy is just That Big

hades 2 dream dives are fun but what about Infinite Dream Dives. like what if it just kept throwing biomes at u until u died

I'm tentatively embarking on the journey of reviewing the entirety of Epic: The Musical on my patreon, one saga at a time as god intended. also I do monthly art requests which I suspect is more appealing lmao

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my cats aren't comfortable meowing for food yet but this evening they did both peek around the couch to stare expectantly at me. artist's rendition below

#Artbeat

hot take perhaps but I don't think you can say you "had" a cat and then tell me it would show up at your house every few months for food.

#like I'm not saying you didn't have a bond with it or whatever #but in what sense did u Have it. u know what I mean. that's like saying you had a friend and then revealing it was the pizza delivery guy #who you only saw when he delivered pizzas

here's my question about artfight. is it the law that people can only attack on the characters u provide reference for

#not that I don't appreciate fanart for efd or my other old stories but I wouldn't want to do artfight with them

fanfiction-psas

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sheath > sheathe

#and of course as we all know. the verb form of death. deathe

first three quarters of work today: just fine!

final quarter: absolute dogshit

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I have this pet theory about the "if I'm not good at a new skill right away I just wanna quit" thing. I think maybe it has less to do with like...perfectionism or lack of discomfort tolerance and patience around being bad at something, and more to do with trying to find a reflection of a warped idea of Intrinsic Self-Worth in yourself.

like, perhaps you are seeking out new skills to try not because you're necessarily interested in just being good at them, but specifically to see if you will be exceptionally good at them without trying. ykwim? testing to see if you "have talent" because it would prove to the part of you that doesn't comprehend your inherent preciousness as a living human being that there is "something of value" in you. which, again, the thing of value in you is you. you had inherent immutable value as a baby and babies can't do shit*. do u get me. everything else is just gravy.

it's very easy to learn fast without trying and exceed expectations as a child, for obvious reasons I think. and if that's the only thing you felt valued for, you are gonna miss that feeling like hell as an adult and part of you might even get Big Mad at the insinuation that you have value even if you are truly doing nothing and producing nothing and excelling at nothing. at which point it's time to sit with that feeling and affirm it but also ask it some questions.

so anyway my end point here is that although "you need to get comfortable with being bad at things so that you can get good at them" is not bad advice, I think it might not be addressing the actual source of the issue for a lot of people

*or rather, shit is one of the only things babies CAN do, but either way

Really pleased with this month's Patreon Requests! Got really excited about inking as you can see

#Artbeat #escape from divinity #hades #megzagthan #luke fon fabre #suvi #wbn #phm #httyd #toothless

u know. I genuinely enjoy the work of the job I'm at. like doing the job part of my job is great. I don't spend too much time either sitting or standing, it's engaging and skill-based but not overly intense or complex, I have my scripts to work from for every customer interaction which keeps my social anxiety with them low, and my coworkers are competent and smart so if I make a mistake I know there's a safety net in place. however management is absolute dogshit so we hemorrhage workers at an insane rate, and frankly it does also make me want to quit eventually.

...and also I have one coworker who disliked me on sight and made that my problem for several weeks, and things are still on the rocks with her because even though she isn't pointedly ignoring my existence anymore I struggle to engage with her normally because of. you know. the whole ignoring my existence thing.

#you might say 'surely there's a reason why she dislikes you that could be addressed' and I would say: yeah definitely!#but she chose to stonewall me after one interaction instead of communicating :) so we may never know :)#and I'm not gonna waste my mental energy on a mind-reading conspiracy board of 'why is she mad at me'

HUH??? IM SORRY WAS NO ONE GOING TO TELL ME THE LAST SEASON OF THE BEAR WAS OUT?????????

I feel like you can see brennan's d20 work becoming more political and I'm truly really into it. like the vibe I get is that he was like. how can I use this huge platform I now have to model community solidarity and political activism via gameplay with my hilarious friends--thus gladlands and now city council of darkness. which is not to say his values weren't always coming through in his GM work, but I think it feels more concretely instructional now, especially with the benefit of being able to hire consultants for the nitty-gritty stuff.

#d20

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and lashed but not leashed--what? what do you mean that's not how the saying goes. last but not LEAST????

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had a rough day so I gorged myself on smoked salmon and tiramisu and now I am paying the price in nausea u-u;

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shouldve seen this coming and bought pepto bismol along with them

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