an unconditionally inclusive sapphic space made by lesbians, for lesbians.
[This blog is for lesbians💋]
If you think that includes you, then it does! I'm radically inclusive because fuck terfs 😘
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This blog is occasionally NSFT. Adults are horny sometimes, grow up about it.
My tags??
#for my baby// things I wanna show to my beloved, namely cats, pokemon, nature, probably the tag to scroll if you just want happy or funny stuff
#trans mom advice// if you need a mom, I'm your mom now. Click this tag for this I want my children to know. Mommy loves you very much💋
#tlt #tlt art #gtn #htn #ntn #atn// I adore The Locked Tomb and have read them and listened to them all multiple times. I'm currently reading them to Kris, and she loves them too. We're currently reading NtN with the paperback (UPDATE WE ARE NOW REREADING THEM AND ARE AT HtN) 💀 👓
#queer theory// In order to create a better world, we need to be able to imagine one. This tag is for things that I want to remember as we make a better world 🌎 the future is queer🦋
#queer history// we've existed throughout all of recorded time, and a lot of post talking about queer liberation in the past
#the problem is capitalism #dystopia// abolish capitalism. Eat the rich like your life depended on it (because it kinda does)
#acab #abolish the police// yep I'm one of those. If you don't like it, fuck off about it (military recruiters pls keep dming me tho I want to study you with a magnifying glass)
#free palestine #dont stop talking about palestine #i need a better tag for crimes against humanity// rbs mostly regarding the genocide and ethnic cleansing in Isreal. Zionism is not Judaism. Colonization and ethic cleansing are bad. Murdering children is bad. Murdering people on mass is bad. This isn't about personal ideology. This isn't about anything that happened in the past. This is about what's happening right now in front of our very eyes. Repeats of the horrific crimes against humanity that we were taught about as children by people who regretted doing nothing about it at the time. The dialog is changing. People are seeing what's happening. Keep it up 🍉🇵🇸
#trans rights// trans stuff, kinda like queer theory but with more sad sprinkled in (sometimes found with the tag #fuck jkr)
#cndpoli// Canadian stuff. I shoud just copy that post here honestly
#for my mil// things to show to parents of all types
#american fascism// fascism is like herpes. It never goes away, and the best/only treatment is to kill it every time it flares up. "The leader of the free world" 🙄 has taken a frightening bend toward openly fascist policies and practices in order to maintain their empire, both within their borders and beyond. As Amié Césaire theories in "Discourse on Colonialism," fascism is just imperialism turned inward. We need to learn to recognize fascism that doesn't look like gooseststepping nazis. How it grows and the beliefs it forms around are going to be informed by the culture that births it. Learn to recognize american fascism. Call it what it is, because the republican party as a whole are flirting with or simply adopting fascist policy, pretending its just average conservative values, meanwhile the neolib dems resist in tweets more than in policy. Modern fascism is growing in popularity, and no one can be complacent in the fight against it.
#colonial history// to round out the paragraph above, examples of colonialism, and it's effects in our world today
I guess I might as well mention that I'm one of those abolish cops, abolish prisons, abolish borders, radical queers. I'm a globalist. The modern concept of nations as we know it is less than a few generations old. It doesn't have to be this way. The problems we face are global ones. The solutions need to be global too. Sustainability is possible. But it has to be in a world where the natural use for wealth and capital is to be used for the common good. Not to be hoarded by an ever shrinking group of the unfathomably wealthy. Not in a world where demagogues and oligarchs war against eachother, paid in our blood. You will always have more in common with a worker on the other side of the globe than you will with a billionaire.
#billionaires should not exist
Only now, at the end of all things, have you earned my selfie tags
#me #femme herbo #wlw selfie// I'm sorry I never really made a consistent one
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one of the (many and increasingly stupid) reasons people refuse to stop calling trans women "dude" or "bro" or "mate" or otherwise referring to us in exclusively masculine terms is because they start wanting to do it more after we tell them not to. A trans woman's ability to be considered and seen as a "real" woman is often entirely dependent on how attractive others find us, and it turns out a lot of people find the establishment and enforcement of boundaries to be a supremely unattractive trait in a woman
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What if the children go to schools unafraid of tear gas and bullets?
What if the birds come back, and the bees are healed, and every species moves from endangered, to threatened, to thriving?
What if the rainforest ADVANCES?
What if every parking lot had solar panels? What if every structure had solar panels? What if we built climbing gyms and terraced gardens in the skeletons of old coal power plants?
What if you baked your neighbor bread, and they shared their home-grown blackberries?
What if every person who needed a home, had one? What if every person who needed healing was healed?
What if every body was treasured for what it was, not what it should be?
What if every trans child's parents attended their graduation, their wedding, their new-name-day?
What if every warehouse became a closed-circle repair station? Goods flowing out, and back, and out again? What if landfills started to SHRINK?
What if the water and air were clean? What if there was enough public transit that the cars dwindled, leaving the streets safe for kids on bikes, evening deer, midnight cats and foxes?
The condors are back. The whales are saved. The sea turtles are no longer endangered. The cranes are back. The bees are recovering. The air in LA and Tokyo and London is clean again. The aquifers in the LA Basin are refilling.
Children are kinder than previous generations. Parents are stopping the abuse cycle. Being trans and queer is more acceptable than ever on a ground level.
It's hard to see if you're young, if you don't know how to step back from social media and the news. But remember--bad news sells, and the algorithm knows despair keeps you scrolling. It's a skewed lens.
We are fighting and we are winning against this adminstration's bullying. We are coming together against the bullies and they are running away scared because they don't understand that we will do that.
People are working hard every day to find ways to make sure fewer animals get hit by cars and planes and rockets.
Maker spaces are more common than ever. Solar and wind are more common than ever. Coal plants are shutting down every day.
Unprecedented numbers of acres are being bought back or given back to their rightful stewards, and the world heals because of it. People are working hard every day to learn how to help a forest recover faster.
We are not at zero. We are at decades of effort to heal the world. We've come SO far.
In 1982 there were only 22 California Condors left in the world. In 1992, when the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service (USFWS), with its public and private partners, began reintroducing captive-bred condors to the wild. In 2001 the first wild nesting occurred in Grand Canyon National Park since re-introduction. In 2002 there were only 8 pairs of wild nesting birds population-wide. In 2008, for the first time since the program began, more California condors were flying free in the wild than in captivity. Today there are nearly 500 – more than half of them flying free in Arizona, Utah, California, and Baja Mexico.
When I was born, there were no condors in the wild. I'm 37 now, and there are over 250 condors flying free.
When my mom was born in 1955, there were days when she wasn't allowed to go outside to play, because of the air pollution. When I was born, that never happened anymore.
When I was born, humpback whales were critically endangered, and people thought they were going to go extinct. Today, they've recovered to exceed their recorded numbers. Other whales too!
We fixed it.
We CAN fix it and we ARE fixing it and we DID fix it.
Since 1990 extreme poverty has decreased worldwide by over HALF.
This is not the narrative media sells us. We have access to more information about suffering now than we used to, but things are getting BETTER overall. Yeah some people are trying to undo this, but we have made SO MUCH PROGRESS. Don't give up.
We're at the "JK Rowling is personally funding litigation to try and destroy AMNESTY INTERNATIONAL" stage of rabid UK terf brain.
Screenshot via Alejandra Caraballo @esqueer.net on bluesky
Tldr Amnesty International, global human rights organisation, published a report called 'A growing threat: the anti-rights movement in the UK'. In it is detailed, amongst others, a whole bunch of transphobic groups and organisations, including Beira's Place, JK Rowling's trans exclusionary sexual violence support service. JK Rowling threw a shit fit and got Amnesty to take the report down by threatening libel. This was obviously not enough, because you can't appease a fascist, so now she's going to bankroll a bunch of lawsuits anyway through the JK Rowling Women's Fund.*
You can read an archived version of the report here, please save it and share it.
*Not so friendly reminder there is no way to engage in the wizard books without enabling this shit.
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you know when you were a kid and disney channel type shows and cartoons used to always feature at least one episode where a trio is torn apart because "you can only have ONE best friend and it's ME 😡" and it makes no sense at all because you can clearly see all three of them are best friends so it's just sad to see them fight
Now that Lindsey Graham is dead, his many victims are speaking out. Actress Jesse James Rose just opened up about being one of them. Despite Lindsey's sexuality being an open secret in DC circles for decades, he ceaselessly harassed and demeaned LGBTQ+ people while in public.
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I was going through old episodes and was going to gif this, but....it's just not the same without being able to hear Brennan yell, "TITTIES!" So, video.
#I have no clue what the context for this is#but I confused my partner giggling#Brennan was doing his best Tim Curry as Frank-n-furter impression#and that made the whole thing all the better
The context is that they have to read the lines and not smile or laugh, Brennan is doing his absolute best to corpse his castmates as much as possible and he is KILLING it
Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.
On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.
Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby
Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.
Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.
And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.
Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future