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how it feels to become too feminist for things you were previously fine with

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Not to point out the blindingly frigging obvious but if you label female people who arenât attracted to males âterfsâ, and encourage or excuse violence against âterfsâ, you are advocating for hate crimes against lesbians.
all weapons formed against bisexual women shall not prosper
Iâm a little bit annoyed at popular humor that characterizes menstruation as the uterus throwing a fit because it wants a baby. no it doesnât. hereâs my alternative anthropomorphic script. itâs no less embarrassing but at least Iâm right:
henchperson: uh, boss? You know how a couple weeks ago, me and the girls put up that barrier against invaders, extra thick, just like you asked?
boss: yesâŚ
henchperson: weeeel, the good news is no invaders this month.
boss: and the bad news? spit it out, already
henchperson: weeeeeel, we made it out of wet tissue again, boss. so weâre going to have to peel it off and put up a new one before it gets all nasty, you seeâŚ
boss: why is everything wet tissue with you people? get that thing out of my sight!
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insane how many people think an appropriate way to insult a man is to threaten to fuck his wife, as if that's the same thing as keying his car, just another piece of his property to be damaged in retaliation.
and no, i don't care if its wrapped up in fluff about "showing her a consensual wonderful time ;;;;;))))))" because its still sexual harassment against someone who 99.999% of the time had no part in whatever internet argument you're mad at him about (not that it would ever be okay to sexually harass someone either way obv).
this is absolutely rock bottom basic feminist stuff: women are not men's property, threatening to fuck someone is sexual harassment, and men should be the ones facing consequences for their own actions, not the nearest woman who can be blamed for it.
an obvious man uses the restroom not intended for him: so stunning and brave, their cock and balls belong there even though they make no effort to conceal their maleness from women who might be uncomfortable! trans women are women and they need to pee!!
women begin to use disabled toilet because they are uncomfortable with the male in their restrooms: those evil bigoted, transphobic cis bitches are taking up a space not meant for them!! they shouldnât be using the disabled toilet, itâs not for them!!!
that idiot truly is so far up in the ass of that trans-identified male that theyâd rather just talk to HR behind the backs of all those women than talk to them directly about what could possibly make them behave like that - that maybe, just maybe, thereâs a reason they feel uncomfortable about a male waltzing into their private spaces. that maybe, just maybe that man is not at all as âsweetâ as the writer of this post assumes.
Trans women (read: men) force their way into womenâs spaces and then complain when women stop going to those spaces. Iâm not sure everyone understands how seriously deranged and dangerous this attitude is.
Theyâve literally evolved from âI am entitled to use womenâs spacesâ to âI am entitled to share spaces with vulnerable, highly uncomfortable women and if they refuse or avoid the spaces that Iâve now overtaken then they are TERFs and, as the woke mob rules, deserve to die.â There is a small but not insignificant difference here.
Like, itâs no longer about wanting to be in womenâs spaces. Itâs literally about wanting to force women to be around you; vulnerable, uncomfortable women. They feel entitled to an entire sex (women) like all misogynists. And letâs be real: this is and always has been the end goal of TRA.
A world where men are entitled to womenâs company, to make them uncomfortable, to scare them into compliance (twaw), to force women to date them or be sent rape and death threats which the world has decided they deserve, to take advantage of the fact that women cannot avoid men without being burned at the stake, whilst women are forced to do as they say, forced to use the same spaces as men, to suffer injuries and loss after loss because womenâs sports now include men, forced to pretend the bearded man who spouts misogyny on the daily is now a woman just like them, forced to be ogled in changing rooms, to be forced to open up their same-sex attraction to men who identify as women lest they be called a bigot and fetishist, to lose a much needed promotion to a TiM, to be told that pregnancy and menstruation are not âwomenâs issuesâ but âpeopleâs issuesâ or worse âbleeding bodiesâ issues,â women who speak up will be cancelled, the voices of men and TRAs will be sure to drown them out, to erase them from history. They already try to. Men will be able to opt into womenâs spaces, steal their opportunities, rob them of their own words and unique experiences, and women will not be able to opt out, they wonât be able to start their own female-only sports teams since theyâll get shut down, or avoid the changing room because it hurts Brianâ no, Briannaâs, feefees, or get promoted because why would you NOT pick the woman who doesnât get periods and canât get pregnant? They wonât be allowed to warn their lesbian daughters about the dangers of puberty blockers and surgery because truth, knowledge, and honesty have been deemed transphobic. This is why TRA ideology is so dangerous, because it impacts ALL women and we cannot opt out of it like they can opt in. This is not purely an entitlement to womenâs spaces and language, this is entitlement to women, plain and simple.
I kind of went into a full-on rant, but I just wanted to get this all out here. It worries me to see just how sick and twisted trans ideology has become over the years.
oh my god queen GO OFF
Swinging at the hornets nest here (the âsex work is workâ crowd wonât like this one lol) but there was a post going around about like âif you work in hospitality and you think you see a sex worker, no you didnât. Keep your mouth shut and let them make their moneyâ is honestly sending me. As many of you know, one of my jobs is working front desk at a hotel and like no ladsâŚwe canât âlook the other wayâ at times. Yes, we know when the working girls check in (many are regulars who are open about it, plus after working their long enough you Knowâ˘ď¸ when a woman is because you can clock the signs) and of course we canât stop them but there are times when you literally have to say something. Here are a couple of instances that have happened on my shifts alone:
-I was checking in two girls and knew something was off and asked to see both their IDâs. Only one had a passport and her 18th birthday was literally a week ago. The other one handed me her high school student card. We had to call the police when their pimp came in and started making threats bc we refused to check them in.
-a sex worker checked in the night before and a housekeeper went into the room the next morning and found the woman in a bloody mess. There were chunks of human tissue scattered throughout the room (the housekeeper quit after that. Honestly, housekeepers are literally on the front lines of the bullshit but thatâs another story)
-something about a âcoupleâ was offfffffff at check in. The woman was standing with her hands behind her back, had her eyes glued to the floor, and wouldnât answer questions despite her name being on the reservation. The man was answering for her. When I asked to see her ID, he hands it to me, and when I handed it to her, her arms were covered in bruises. We didnât let them check in
-there are two properties and one of them has an agreement with a womenâs shelter. Iâve checked in women into one property only to see them come in months later to the other property under the womens sheltersâ reservation with bruises and broken limbs (many of whom are indigenous women).
So yeah bottom line: with the World Cup soon approaching, all of us -front desk, maintenance, housekeeping, the kitchen staff, sales, you name it all departments- have had to do extensive modules on clocking the signs of human trafficking. You canât just look the other way because it can mean missing the underaged girl or preventing horrific violence. Yes we have our regulars and yes sometimes it is what it is but no you canât just look the other way and let them âsecure the bagâ because I guarantee thereâs a pimp in the lobby/parking lot whoâs the one getting the bag at her expense.
many radfem leaning spaces like to claim to be friendly to detransitioners but then turn around and mock tifs with so much vitriol that it really doesn't feel that way
since i'm getting some misinterpretations of this post, let me clarify:
what i am tired of seeing is people mocking the effects of hormones (ie making fun of tif voices) or implying all tifs are stupid for buying into trans ideology (good for you that you avoided our fate, but many of us transitioned due to some combination of trauma and internalized misogyny. i would just hope for more empathy from fellow feminists)
these are things that are off-putting to me, as a detransitioned woman. i'm not saying you need to be nice and polite to any tif who is making misogynyistic or abusive statements
these are the first, most popular tags that come up on tumblr when typing #women are
Curious. Very peculiar indeed. đ
(When tagging.)
And at least for me, the first one that comes up when you start typing "detrans" is "detrans kink" đđ

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DUDEE this dumbass mutual of mine reblogged this long ass post about "transmisogyny" and it dead ass no lie included the phrase:
"For a cis woman to tell a trans woman that womanhood is suffering is for someone in a lifeboat to tell someone drowning in the sea that it sucks to not be on dry land. Thanks for the insight, could you make a little room in the lifeboat please?"
These people are fucking maniacs holy shit. You think women have lifeboats? you think the people dealing with (just to scratch the tip of the iceberg) FGM, forced pregnancy, no access to abortion, rape, literally being made men's property, forced marriage, complete and total exclusion from social and public life have lifeboats? and you're drowning? You're drowning?
You think you have it harder than them? Genuinely I can't deal with this anymore.
This is just "women have life on easy mode" lol
Having gender dysphoria is a real struggle, but it isn't some compounded worse oppression than being born female.
Let me describe to you what kind of world gender abolitionists actually dream about:
When a child would be born itâs biological sex, being an actual physical reality, would be noticed but not a single assumption regarding the childâs personality would be made based on it.
Growing up, children would be free to chose what toys and clothes they prefer. If they want to play with toy trucks or dolls, it would be fine either way. If they want to dress comfortably or in frilly colorful dresses, it would be fine.
Certain personality traits would not be encouraged in members of one sex and discouraged in the other. Females would be free to be strong, brave and assertive and males would not be shamed for being shy and soft spoken.
No female child would be called a tomboy and no male child would be called a sissy. No kid would ever be bullied for what we in our gendered world call âgender expressionâ.
When children would reach puberty they would still be free to dress how they want. Females would not be pressured to wear clothes that reveal their bodies and males would not be shamed if they chose to. Everybody would have a free choice of accessories, which would not be categorized as âmenâsâ or âwomenâsâ but people could should whichever they liked. Or chose to not wear accessories at all if thatâs what they are more comfortable with.
Females would not be pressured to keep their bodies slim, soft and hairless. Males would not be pressured to be athletic and muscular. Expectations of femininity and masculinity upon the body would not exist and affect negatively peopleâs relationship with their own body.
Everyone could choose a career without fearing stigmatization within that particular field because of their biological sex. The most important thing would be competence and not what someone has between their legs.
Domestic work would not be considered âwomenâs workâ and would be shared equally between the sexes.
Biological sex would only be thought about when relevant. And everyone would be free to be themselves without ever having to worry about gender expectations. Nobody would feel the need to repress certain parts of their personality and exaggerate others in order to fit into some gender role that is being forced on them.
Gender abolitionism is not about restricting peopleâs choices but about giving them greater freedom.
- http://burningax.wordpress.com/2014/10/06/a-gender-free-world-boring/
A big thing in so-called progressive spaces is criticizing women for being suspicious of random men, and insisting that there must be a racist/ableist/classist/anti-homeless bias at play, while conveniently forgetting that the woman in question (any woman) is a marginalised person doing what they can to avoid being hate-crimed (assaulted, raped or murdered) by a member of an oppressor class.
Iâm going to be so honest. I think in the pursuit of an individualized sexual liberation, the Overton window for misogyny has shifted violently towards normalizing bonkers levels of misogyny. Some of you have got to start being feminist killjoys again. I canât carry this teamfight myself no matter how good I am at fragging liberal false feminists.
I think that we may have lost the plot when we started arguing that itâs feminist to play gacha games, which are predicated on articulating women as units of exchange, one of the oldest kinds of Ur-Misogyny in history.
We desperately need some political consciousness about feminism in the world. Just like a smidge. Please. Iâm begging you.
I see a lot of folks defending their vitriolic repugnance towards toddlers with cries of "but my sensory needs!" as if children are not also in possession of sensory needs. As if you, an adult here on Tumblr.com, do not have the capability and resources to learn the skills or acquire aids for coping with competing access needs. Or, y'know, just the option to leave, the way children most often do not.
You're holding an actual child to higher standards than you hold yourself, but it's the child that should be removed from public and community spaces. For your comfort.
Go fuck yourselves.
"autistic/ADHD website!!" they cheer, idly shoving small children forcefully back into the torment nexus they had themselves previously escaped from.

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okay yeah i do think your filler is off putting and your botox makes you rigid and strange to look at
I know you think itâs âfeministâ to hate on women who already have self esteem and image issues (through no fault of their own, as a direct result of patriarchy) for doing something to help them cope with their fleeting youth - which may or may not have been stripped from them against their will due to years of depression, abuse, oppression, or whatever else - but the truth is that the freedom to get Botox is actually a right feminists have fought for - whether intentionally or unintentionally. Women used to get thrown away when we outlived our youth and beauty - now we have the option to prolong it and change the way we are perceived and treated by society as a whole. We ALL had to grow up too fast. We ALL have to cope with a childhood that ended too soon. Iâm no less a feminist than you are simply because I choose to hold onto my youth and beauty because it helps me feel better about my own loss of innocence. This is all just another excuse to hate on women and tear us down. Youâre literally letting the patriarchy win by judging women for their personal choices which harm absolutely no one. Please grow up. Not everyone is conventionally attractive or ages gracefully. Some women can cope with that and some canât. Both deserve love and respect. Have some decency. Youâre not edgy for this. Youâre hating just like a man would.
Feminists ⌠have fought⌠for the right ⌠to use BotoxâŚ..
yeah ive done this one but its also like what do you expect lol. you want women to hallucinate your like Innate Glow of Defiant Radical Womanhood that is just So Special and Magical and Beautiful and Enchanting for your validation purposes, and then when women go "omg i guess i am incredibly incredibly lucky to have been blessed by this Trans Angel !!!!! my lowly unenlightened Cis Self has been graced by the presence of a Rare Vision of Divine Beauty and Humanity's Very Hope at Eternal Liberation!!!!!" it's suddenly Weird. and like make no mistake IT IS WEIRD it is incredibly weird to talk this way about ANYONE but its WHAT YOU HAVE ORCHESTRATED !!!! ++++++ the constant over-emphasis on how HORRIBLY IMPORTANT it is to be open to dating a transfem DOES KIND OF MAKE IT A TEST so ofc women are excited for a chance to "pass" lol we are good well-behaved students!!! THIS IS NOT SELF-SERVING PROPPING UP it is actually wholehearted commitment to YOUR agenda of "make woman an eternal validation machine", and that commitment stems from our genuine desire to UPLIFT THE DOWNTRODDEN !!!! god forbid women get a little bit too enthusiastic while bending themselves over backwards in attempts to PLEASE YOU !!!!! "oh no they're playing it up too much so now it's embarrassing đ¤Ź" YOUR WHOLE THING IS EMBARRASSING!!!!