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body positivity has largely failed because people started arguing for attractiveness and romantic prospects instead of respect and dignity

carewitchproject

this is truly the best summary of what all of this SHOULD be about

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kanelia

Apparently, JK Rowling has pissed off a lot of gender critical people on twitter by admitting that she has a trans woman friend she refers to with she/her pronouns because that individual is her friend and she wants to make the said person happy. I think it is so tiring how easily people fall into black and white thinking and fail to learn anything from the cult behaviour of tras. More than two things can be true at the same time: It can be wrong to force people either through law or social pressure to lie and control their speech and it is dangerous and offensive for media and researchers to report and record people's sex falsely. But when it comes to someone's personal life, they can still be free to choose to refer to someone with preferred, although inaccurate, pronouns. Just like they should be free to choose not to do this.

tra-archive

They desperately want to portray us as evil women who want all trans people dead and/or hidden away, and when we try and say that’s not true, they cover their ears.

I have a best friend who’s a TIF, I obviously don’t believe she’s a man but I use he/him and use her preferred name because she’s my friend and I want to be nice. I’ll always use preferred names because I hate my own name and go by a preferred name and it sucks to be called something you don’t want to be called. But again, that only applies for my friends and people I respect. A random TIM online sending me rape threats? Nope.

astropeony

It is this behavior, instilled in us by female gender socialization, that destroys the lives of other women

By using "chosen" pronouns such as for tifs or tims, you are perpetuating the illusion of their rightness rather than being "polite." This behavior is harmful in any situation where a person engages in practices that are detrimental to them, but others not only remain silent but actively encourage them

It's better to be honest with your tif-friends and tim-fetishists than to give them the illusion that they should retreat into their distorted world

This is especially true for women. By referring to a woman with non-feminine pronouns, you are feeding her internal misogyny. Show her what it's like to be loved as a woman. Show her that being a woman is not shameful or limiting. Don't allow the patriarchy to use compulsive empathy against us, women.

This is not "personal life vs. political life," this is hypocrisy. If you are against fetishists who view being a woman as a costume and consider invading women's spaces a mandatory right, then you are against this. If you desire women's freedom, self-acceptance, and the eradication of misogyny and gender structures, you will not encourage the destruction of the identity of another woman you consider close to you. How can you claim to desire someone's happiness (as Rowling does) when you support their self-destruction and harm to others?

Think about it, ladies

faasrumaar

I agree with the notion, but it's never this simple.

If someone genuinely experiences mental distress every time someone doesn't use their "preferred pronouns", it's not at all productive to keep causing them this discomfort. I don't believe it would achieve anything. They'd just grow resentful and cut you off. Rightfully so.

If they're deep in the gender ideology cult, the "tough love" approach might make the matters even worse.

#it's a tough situation to be in #but I don't think being an asshole would help in any way #gender ideology is a cult #radical feminism #gender abolition

shareddreamingexperiment

everyone likes to say its bad to have babies "in this world," as if babies don't give you a reason to be hopeful for the future. whenever i see that take im like... sounds like you need to have a baby

therearenoenlightenedpeople

I mean great for you I guess that your kid does that for you. what is your kid going to have to be hopeful for? wage slavery? the continuation of an unsustainable economic system? inability to live on their own due to the ongoing housing crisis? student loans? not being able to live without exploiting other beings in some capacity? dealing with the consequences of nationwide illiteracy? misogyny? death? heartbreak? microplastics in everything? poison in our food? disease?

but I'm glad you focused on what you get out of it. that's great.

anxiouslyliquidcurse

an opinion that might make me lose followers: theres nothing feminist, noble, admirable about being pregnant or giving birth

anxiouslyliquidcurse

men will say theyre the hunters and go "source☝️🤓?" every time a woman makes a feminist post, BRO go hunt the information google is free

#lmao #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact

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tidesandtwilight

I think the hottest thing a woman can be is a weirdo

evenlesssentimentaltranslator

this website can't even handle female body hair

drill-teeth

Something I really struggle to get people to understand is that like. Sometimes there was no intentional homoerotic subtext, the author was just extremely misogynistic. Sometimes the author wasn't "secretly shipping" those two men, the author literally just hates women so much that they see them as being literally incapable of relationships with depth. Like this is kind of a big thing with misogyny actually. A lot of extremely misogynistic people truly believe that a man can only have meaningful and complex relationships with other men because they literally just think women are so inferior they only exist to birth children and clean the house. It's like when people say along the lines of "no one worships exclusively men quite like straight men do". It's just that phenomenon actually. That happens to be manifesting in a raging misogynist's writing. Writing a man character who literally only puts effort into his friendships with other men while completely ignoring his literal girlfriend or wife is actually an extremely straight thing to write. And that doesn't mean you can't ship those men or that there are no stories with actual intentional homoerotic subtext. I just think it's important to be able to recognize extreme misogyny in writing and acknowledge it without brushing it off and assuming good intentions when literally all evidence is screaming that this was a misogynistic writing choice and not a representing gay men choice.

ivorygothic

I love you declining birthrate ❤️ I love you rising numbers of single men ❤️ I love you female celibacy ❤️ I love you birth control ❤️ I love you child free women ❤️ I love you death of hook up culture ❤️ I love you 4B ❤️

radfemme-rage

so there’s this one post on instagram which is at nearly 200k likes

it’s about this one woman who was telling her husband about something in the epstein files, and he says “are you sure that’s actually in the epstein files?”

the woman writes on instagram about how shocked and hurt she is by this comment, and how she’s tired about the nonchalance of men when it comes to social issues

yet in the exact same post, she writes about how he isn’t a bad man, humanises her husband as a good father, and even thanks him for being able to post this publicly

she also clarifies that the reason he asked wasn’t to undermine rape survivors, but because he was concerned about her mental health and how upset she had been over the files? (how does that even make sense?)

i’m sorry… what the fuck? is this woman being abused? what is up with the cognitive dissonance of het partnered women? this man has made it completely clear he is pro-actively an enabler of rape culture… and you’re defending him?

and then the comment section is flooded with loser women and males who are all like “oh, there has been so much misinformation, he was right to ask you for your sources”

stop fucking and pro-creating with these rapists

and yes, this post is specifically targeted towards women, because idgaf about getting through to men (you can’t). i don’t have much empathy for anyone who defends rape culture in ANY capacity.

you’re telling me a grown man - FATHER - who says that about the freaking EPSTEIN files - isn’t a monster?

faasrumaar

Stop fucking and procreating with these rapists!

#radfem #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact

cannabutch

if your g spot is in your ass, do not speak unless spoken to. i’ve heard enough from yall

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One aspect of feminist beliefs that I fundamentally disagree with is the overwhelming support of motherhood.

I will support a mother's rights as a woman, but I will despise her for her educated choice to bring a new life into this disaster of a world. She will lament about the terrors she has to witness every day, but still make a disgustingly selfish decision to create a new life.

If you really want to be a mother - you can adopt. And if you find it to be the "harder" way into motherhood, you are not supposed to be a parent in the first place.

#and don't give me the what-about-fathers nonsense #males is not what I'm talking about in this post #radblr #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact #antinatalism

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