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i do not argue, i block. all hate in my inbox will be posted so we can make fun of you. feel free to waste your time.
genuine questions, conversation, and discussion welcome.
-> about me.
ethnically melungeon, racially white
diagnosed autistic with adhd
gender critical radfem
video game lover
connoiseur of lesbian romance fiction
#1 caitvi hater
-> thoughts on the trans community.
really, i'm just an opinionated woman in my late 20s who really cares about women. i was a TRA for ten years, identified as trans for five, then came to my senses as i got older. leaving the trans community was a gradual process for me as i tried to make sense of facts vs. rhetoric.
this blog is mainly a place for me to vent my frustrations, leave my thoughts, and express my opinions. lesbianbushlover dot tumblr dot com is my very own echo chamber after ten years of being fed propaganda.
contrary to the radfem stereotype, i do have trans friends and i deeply care about them. i don't hate every individual trans person, i hate the community as a whole, and the rhetoric this community pushes that perpetuates: homophobia, sex-based oppression against women, and the intersectional bigotry of misogynoir.
i believe that the broader trans community is filled with AGPs who use the trans label to act out their fetish. i feel deep empathy for the women and men (often homosexual) who have fallen victim to the lie that gender nonconformity means you must be trans. man and woman are not terms based on sexist stereotypes. feminine men and masculine women should be allowed to exist as they are.
i have zero empathy for and actively detest straight TIPs, especially "transbians". they embody predation and left-wing conversion therapy.
-> other politics.
free palestine but fuck antisemitism
anti-ICE
female separatist
anti-surrogacy/prostitution/porn (anything that puts a price tag on womens' bodies)
all organized religion is misogynistic and anti-woman
the US military preys on disenfranchised, impoverished kids
choice feminism is antithetical to the beliefs of feminism
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this trend of shitting on peer-reviewed academic studies in favor of tweeting “we already knew this was happening” is so soul-crushing. not to be an elitist cunt, but we have got to open the schools again. people genuinely seem to have forgotten that their personal lived experience isn’t indicative of the larger population, AND IF IT IS…… then you need researchers to support these assertions from a relevant data pool instead of a blog post from 2013 💀
google search how to acknowledge that the person you're arguing with is younger in age and that their mindset reflects it (through no fault of their own), without making them feel invalidated or dismissed and pissing them off even more.
if i had a superpower, i would like to erase the phrase “organic strap” from the minds of every single person on earth. if lesbians can like and enjoy “organic strap”, which is just a real life penis attached to a male, why were strap-ons ever invented in the first place? seriously think about that, think about how tiny the lesbian dating pool is, and how slutty males are and how they will sleep with anything with a vagina, and then think about why a woman would go out of her way to find a lesbian sexual partner and purchase and use a strap on when she’s capable of being attracted to actual penises and males. that’s a lot of work, when she could probably find an “organic strap” haver who would sleep with her in about 10 minutes on a dating app. is it perhaps because lesbians are only attracted to women? that whole concept makes no sense, strap-ons were not created as a pitiful stand in for the “real thing”. there is no shortage of the real thing, 50% of the population have them! if lesbians wanted and liked real dick, we could get it a lot easier than getting a lesbian partner and a strap-on. strap-ons represent a LACK of attraction to actual men. you literally sound like the conservative homophobes under masc/femme lesbian couples posts who ask them why don’t just get with a “real man” who has the “real thing” instead of being with a masculine woman and using a strap-on. “if one of the girls has a strap naturally” no girl has a penis, and no one has a natural strap on, because a strap on is not a natural organic set of genitals. it is an inanimate object purchased at a sex shop and taken home in a bag. quite different to an entire male body, which lesbians are not attracted to. this shit actually makes me depressed. the lesbian community is absolutely fried
“if you like strap why not just use organic strap?”
okay if a straight guy likes his girlfriend to peg him, why not just let another man fuck him in the ass with an actual penis? probably because he isn’t attracted to men!!! probably because of that!!!! this is literally what you’re saying to lesbians!!!!
if gay guys like anal sex, why not just do anal sex with a woman? because they aren’t attracted to women!!!! no one ever asks this to gay men though. funny how that works.
LESBIANS DON’T LIKE PENIS!!!! LESBIANS NOT LIKING MEN WAS LITERALLY THE CATALYST FOR THE INVENTION OF STRAP-ONS!!! STRAP-ONS DO NOT DISPROVE THE EXISTENCE OF FEMALE HOMOSEXUALS!!!
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re: bi women, a lot of ‘biphobia’ I see in the community is the assumption and generalisation that bi women are as you described- het partnered lesbian fetishists. When in reality bi women are as varied and human as anyone else.
Obviously everyone has their own experiences and wants in a relationship, if ppl want to be les4les thats fine isn’t it.
But it’s the misogyny against bi women, painting them all as ‘dick obsessed’, ‘unfaithful’, sometimes ‘unclean’ that is quite prevalent within wlw spaces that is just so wild. Not all bi women date/have dated men/will leave a woman for a man. Not all bi women are sex crazy fetishists. Bi women are all individual human women with their own lives and identities outside of being bisexual.
Why is chauvinistic misogyny OK when it’s about the mythical Bi Woman Whore?
i'm assuming this is about that ask i answered? hopefully i'm reading your ask wrong, but i feel the need to defend myself yet again.
equating lesbians being wary of bi women due to the lesbophobia we've faced from them and us openly discussing those experiences, to lesbians seeing bisexual women as sex crazed fetishistic whores deserving of misogyny is disingenuous.
you say "wlw spaces" but... bi/pan women make up the majority by a large margin, so who has made these stereotypes prevalent? you really think lesbians have so much power that people would actually believe us if we did say this shit? i feel like you're pinning a lot of stuff on lesbians that actually was started by straight people, and that's really not fair.
also let's not pretend like an overwhelming majority of bisexuals aren't het-partnered, which is, in fact, an important factor for lesbians given how men treat us.
are there lesbians who do treat bi women like they're tained by dick? absolutely, and its fucking disgusting. you will never ever see me supporting that shit, and every single lesbian i know would never support that shit either. in the lesbian communities i've been in, they share their negative experiences with bi women, but shut down the misogyny real quick.
to end on, i really wish everyone would stop downplaying just how traumatizing it is to be pressured into doing sexual acts with the sex you feel repulsed by. yes, it is traumatizing. i truly understand that it's hard to grasp when you don't have that experience, but lesbians are allowed to be angry about how we're being treated, despite our absence of endless diclaimers and nuance. it is no less a contribution of our oppression just because you are the same sex as us, or also experience same-sex attraction.
Have you literally never read anything about LGBT history? Marsha P Johnson, a TRANS WOMAN, thres the first brick at stonewall. Trans people have been integral to the movement from the beginning and het have been left in the dust by reform.
But Marsha saying so, is still not enough for them.
@babybsweettea do YOU? Everything you said is fucking wrong. Maybe don’t lecture people on not reading anything about LGBT history when you clearly haven’t either. You’re a damn clown.
Anyway the first pride parade was organized by gay men Fred Sargent And Craig Rodwell and lesbians Linda Rhodes and Ellen Brody. Don’t let the historical revisionists claim that gays and lesbians weren’t at the forefront of their own liberation movement!
Also… fucking LGB rights and pain is more than just Stonewall. So much damn more. Go read a history book OP, not just get cult brainwashed by Tumblr. For the love of…. arghhhhh….
marsha’s words regarding stonewall:
but ok, i guess marsha saying “i wasnt there at stonewall when the riots started” and “im just a gay man in drag” is all meaningless, and we owe every single event in our history worldwide to marsha, and marsha was somehow a trans woman despite her own statements that she’s not. and the organisers of the first pride march had nothing to do with it too. totally not revisionist.
Considering now a days terf is just a synonym for woman I don’t like and actual lesbian that’s not down with the girl dique, that first couple of posts is very on brand for TRAs.
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the most important virtues for the young woman are as follows: time theft, selfishness, orgasms, irreverence to authority, sacrilegious behavior, a questioning mind, and eating regular meals.
Most acts of "transphobia" are just a failure to convince TIMs that you see them as women.
Earlier in the TRA movement, a lot of women tried to be more inclusive by labelling things as "for women and people identify as women". It was a genuine attempt to be inclusive, but it wasn't enough for TIMs, because it still made it clear to them that we know the difference between them and women.
It reminds me of that unhinged TIM post ranting about how he hated this womam because she complimented him, but he spiralled in his own head about how she doesn't really see him as a woman and how he hates her, and all women because of it.
All of the things TIMs want are for the purpose of enabling their delusions. It doesn't matter how inclusive women try to be, it won't be enough for them unless it convinces them that other people believe their delusions.
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