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I once held hands with my husband at an event where my wife was also present, and a concerned parent lectured me about how she didn't want us to "influence" her son. Our icky gay polyam hand holding was such a threat to this woman that she made a point to corner me away from my partners and get me on my own to lecture me about being "indecent." If she had been inclined toward violence, I would have been fucked.

The sheer number of LGBT people who have called me a "degenerate" and a "pedophile" and an "abuse apologist" and a "homophobe" and a "woman-beater" over this post, in the less than 24 hours since I have posted it, is proof that it needs to be said.

Coming into a fandom late

Coming into a fandom early and watching it become an angry clusterfuck

Being in a dormant fandom that suddenly comes alive again after a new book/movie

Don’t forget about those who come in the midst of a fandom war. 

Being in a fandom and not even knowing there’s a war going on…

When You’re Not In The Fandom But You’re Nosy AF

When you get into a fandom only to discover it’s dead

Being in a dead fandom…

Or being in such a tiny fandom that it feels like youre the only one

Being in a fandom that had a shit ending.

Being in a fandom meant for kids.

When you realize that joining the fandom has ruined you

Fandom hell in general

Being in so many fandoms that you don’t even know what’s going on

Trying to recruit people to your fandom

Being in a fandom which has so many antis

Being in a fandom that actually works together

being in a fanbase but all your mutuals suddenly turn into Kpop blogs

Being in a fandom when shit goes down and everyone has different opinions

Being in a fandom on Tumblr

my bonnies

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