like a doll but squishier

People talk about hypnosis like it’s a game or a temporary escape, but for me it feels deeper than that. Like my mind was built for surrender from the very beginning, like I was always meant to become someone’s hypnotized little plaything. A toy with a pretty smile and a hollowed-out mind, aching to be filled with someone else’s words instead of my own thoughts.

The need for brainwashing never really leaves me. It sits inside my chest constantly, heavy and desperate, growing louder every time I try to ignore it. I don’t want freedom from it. I want to sink further. I want the comfort of obedience. The relief of giving up resistance piece by piece until there’s nothing left of me except devotion, trance, and the overwhelming need to please.

A common misconception about hypnosis is that being easily susceptible and suggestible is a sign of a lack of intelligence, however it is the exact opposite. The more intelligence someone displays in their waking life, the dumber and more docile they tend to be when they are tranced out. In fact, being suggestible and easy to hypnotize indicates a strong imaginative capacity, as well as a notable ability to focus and pay attention. As we know, attention span correlates with intelligence.

Having all of this stressful, mind numbing work from day to day. Studying, constantly using your brain. Of course all of that dumb; docile bliss needs to go somewhere.

It's like that intelligence, that hard mental work you perform every day is a rubber band being stretched out and the moment you drop into trance all of that tension snaps and releases and you're allowed to drop deeply into that happy docile, dumb, ditzy bliss. Right in your happy place. I've found the most profound subjects I've worked with were intellectuals, hardworking women, professional and astute. Yet, when in session, they exibited such a deep sensitivity to having their mind utterly fucked with hypnotic bliss.

caught you looking 🫧💕

Each time when you're saying complicated words, or also a "no". I'm gonna force you to edge until this word doesn't exist for you anymore.

One day you're gonna be just confused when you hear the word "orgasm" or "female" in a sentence... You might even ask me what a "female" is. And you're just gonna nod and laugh when I tell you it's an unnecessary word for "fucktoy" or "inferior".

Even words are gonna be rearranged. A "yes" can only be said if there's a "yes... Master" coming after.

Last edit: April 2026

So you’ve heard some folks evangelizing at play parties, you’ve read some hot smut, and you’ve decided you’re excited about Erotic Hypnosis™. Well, I don’t blame you, cuz it’s objectively the hottest kink (she said, objectively). But how do you start practicing it for yourself? I mean, you can do what I did and just sort of flail until you somehow found yourself firmly embedded in the community, but if you want a slightly less chaotic approach, here’s where I might start:

Read(/Listen)

The “Bible of hypnokink” is Mind Play by Mark Wiseman. This is probably the best place to start for anyone interested in this kink!

Learn Hypnokink is a GREAT, digestible online resource about what this kink is and how to do it

9 Persisting Misconceptions About Hypnosis, a zine by sleepingirl and GleefulAbandon

Two Hyp Chicks is a delightful, educational, and often v hot podcast about hypnokink by sleepingirl and cckitten.

Hypnotic Amnesia by Lee Allure and DJ Pynchon is a bit more niche, but still a super neat window into how this kink works and one of the specific, rad things you can do with it.

Get Horny

Go read/watch some porn. Seriously. There are some links in the preamble above, I’ll wait. Take the porn with a grain of salt, because it’s not necessarily realistic, but it can definitely give you a sense of what parts of this play turn you on, which will help you figure out what in the hypno-sphere you actually want to get up to. A handful of specific suggestions:

Written:

ReadOnlyMind is the shiny new hub for hypno-smut and smut for its related kinks!

In particular, the #real-play tag (and probably handful of analogous tags) contains smut about erotic hypnosis as it’s practiced in real life, rather than fantasy mind control stuff

The Erotic Mind-Control Story Archive is probably the biggest repository of written material, though also very inconsistent in quality, and can be Problematic™. Still, it has been responsible for many orgasms in its time

Jukebox is a rad and particularly prolific writer. I mention him in particular because he has so much stuff out there that if you browse his archive, you’re sure to find a story or two that catches your eye

Other authors that I particularly like:

My smut lives here

h-sleepingirl

EllaEnchanting

Ari (see also: Tumblr)

And dream-operator

Video:

Mesmerotic: real hypnokinksters doing real hypnokink and being extremely fuckin’ hot about it!

Entrancement: this is the real deal. Erotic hypnosis done by an actual erotic hypnotist, it actually gives you a pretty good idea of how this sort of play might work

Classes and Cons

Honestly, the best way to learn about this stuff is to go to classes! Look for your local hypnokink group—if you live in/near a reasonably-sized city, I bet you have one—or go to one of the many rad hypno cons out there. This list is somewhat out of date, but you can start here.

There are full entire cons for hypnokink, the most prominent of which are Charmed, Beguiled, and NEEHU.

Also many broader kink events have a hypnokink track or a few hypno classes in there (lookin’ at you, TES Fest!

You can learn from people who have been doing this for a while, and maybe even more importantly, just meet some cool folks!

Meet Humans and Chat

You can find experienced hypno-players with whom to shoot the shit either in person (at classes/cons/events) or on the interwebs. There’s a small but mighty band of hypno folks on Tumblr, and a handful of varyingly active Discord servers for local groups and big national communities.

The biggest Discord server I know of is Erotic Hypnosis (invite link here) – you can meet folks there and find a bunch of educational resources, as well as probably use it as a jumping-off point for smaller regional groups.

Practice

Honestly, this is the hardest and most useful part. If you wanna get into this kink, practice is key! It’s the only real way to develop these skills—and this is true on either side of the pocket watch, as it were. How to do it, though?

With a play partner

As either a ‘tist or a subject, it’s easiest to learn the ropes with an experienced partner to guide you through. You can find play partners at events or on the interwebs, as mentioned above. (Note too that hypno is particularly well suited to long-distance play—you don’t need to be in the same place with these folks to practice with them!) I’d add: at kink events, mention hypno in your cruising post! There are hypnokinksters everywhere, I bet you’ll get some responses.

You can definitely practice this stuff with someone else who’s new to the game, though, as long as you both communicate lots! Talk about what does and doesn’t feel good, and experiment until you find stuff that works for you. And don’t hesitate to reach out to your hypno-scene contacts for help and advice!

For ‘tists: if you feel uncomfortable making up your own inductions, you can start reading from scripts, to get a feel of how hypno works! But I’d encourage you to start making stuff up as soon as possible, because it helps you gain fluency, and ultimately makes you a better hypnotist.

By yourself

Self-hypnosis is a great way to practice hypnokinky stuff! There are a lot of greatttt hypnosis files out there. Some folks I’d particularly recommend:

My stuff :-)

Lee Allure 

Chew Toy

The Secret Subject

Ella Enchanting

DeepDiscourse

Impish

Tennfan

Imaginatrix

Sinister Denial

For hypnotists: if you’re comfortable with it, I definitely recommend trancing a little yourself, just so you can get a feel for what it’s like, and better understand your subjects’ experience. Regardless of whether you personally want to practice trancing, I’d still recommend listening to some files and getting a feel for how other hypnotists do things—it’ll help you develop your own style!

With a pro

Paying a professional for a session—whether it’s play or a lesson—is a great way to dip your toe in hypnokinky waters while knowing that you’re in good hands. Check out:

Dahlia Lark

Imaginatrix

Sinister Denial

Lee Allure

"this is normal. this is natural. it comes easy to you. it comes effortlessly to you. you don't have to think or do anything at all. that's right, just let everything happen. absorbing the words i give you, because it's natural for you to listen and agree. natural to need guidance. natural to be controlled. that's it, sweet thing, back to normal~"

And you've long since learned that resistance doesn't work. He's both too strong for you and you're too devoted to him to truly want to displease him. And you kind of asked him to force you to do it. You were curious and wanted to try it, see what it felt like to be truly helpless. You didn't know it was going to become "your next big kink," but the way it left you feeling fulfilled, subby, owned, and quieted your head was too enriching to ignore. Even he had commented about how your mood would perk up afterwards.

And after a few times you really start to feel the benefits of submitting to be his personal oral cumdump. You felt closer to him and pride in the praise he'd shower down on you. You'd feel personally accomplished because of your endurance and how confident you were that your man was pleased. And as time went on, the more you did it, the more rewarding each time felt.

But it's mainly the fact that it calms you down that makes you crave it now. All of your anxieties get suspended and thoughts stop echoing inside your head, if even for a little while. You've even learned he's more likely to fuck your face if you start to talk fast and sound anxious. Which you may have embellished a few times to get him to pin you down and take your mouth, but you did tell him you wanted him to use your mouth if you were showing signs of overthinking.

So here you are again, this time backed up on your knees and head pinned against a wall just inside the entrance to your home, listening to him rant and rave about the rough day he had as you sloppily slurp and suck like a dutiful little whore. Seriously, fuck Greg in accounting for putting your man through the emotional ringer today. But secretly? Thank you Greg for getting him so worked up because you also needed this.

You had come home only 20 minutes earlier from your own rough day, but things are looking up now as his cock stiffens and lodges itself all the way down your throat.

You've long forgotten just how many loads you've swallowed. It used to be a fun game to keep track of how many you swallowed earlier on in your relationship, but the number was way too high to reliably keep track of now. A thought that made you subby to even think about. It wasn't just humiliating fun to call you a greedy cumguzzler anymore. Honestly it's just accurate terminology at this point. 'Whore-nidae cumguzzler-icus' he joked was your species name once. God, he's such a fucking nerd for that core memory. You love him for it.

You've been emptied of any residual worries you had from the day, pumped out of your head by the unrelenting plunging of his cock between your lips. And in its place is the familiar warmth of a hot, viscous liquid painting the walls of your throat and coating your esophagus all the way down like a comforting syrup as you desperately swallow his cum down into your tummy to keep all for yourself.