Rough and tumblr

Any blogs with no age stated in pinned or bio will be immediately blocked. No exceptions. Any blogs that are engaging in predatory or exploitative behavior will be immediately blocked. No exceptions. Any blogs that don't distinguish between institutional patriarchy and individual kinks in their pinned or bio will be immediately blocked. No exceptions. I purge my followers regularly. If you were blocked, you fell into one of the categories above and you should reflect on why you are not invited to this community. I will never appease, only persist. This is important for everyone's safety.

Who the hell are you?

I'm a flannel wearing man in his 30's who considers himself domsexual, ambiamorous, and demi. I really like ropes, being in total control, obedience, dressing her up, and making her melt. Feel free to ask me anything. My name is Ribo and is pronounced "Ree-bo," a nicname that is a reference to Kuriboh from the anime Yu-Gi-Oh, who often protects the main character. Like a Daddy sacrifices and protects. I put rough in the name because alliteration is metal af. I'm long-winded and overdescriptive, get used to it.

Why are you on here?

To write. I'm a creative at heart with decades of experience writing and I want to contribute to kinky culture in that way by adding my brand of erotica into the world. My posts can sometimes contain triggering content, language, or dark and degrading themes. Enter and stay at your own risk. If anything is not to your tastes, I highly recommend you use your tumblr settings to filter out tags/posts you'll see in the future, though my tagging is very limited. Original writing will be tagged #ribowrites, asks are #ask ribo anything, polls or open questions are #ribo asks anything, rants are #riborants, and my music obsessions are #ribotunes. I also do a series of posts about music that is kink-focused under the hashtag "#songs to spank them to".

Any posts created or reblogged by me are assumed to be done under the context of informed consent. Check the link below:

What are the different types of consent and why do they matter?

What I write about is from my perspective as a Daddy/Owner in a 24/7 total power exchange relationship with a heteroromantic orientation. Because of that, my posts may sometimes not be the most gender neutral or pronoun friendly. By all means, if you read a post I've written that you like but the pronouns/vibes aren't quite right for you, you are absolutely free to copy that post, modify some pronouns/vibes, and post it as your own. I'd love to be credited, but that's not necessary, you do you. Serial reuploading of my writing will not be tolerated however. I'd love to be notified if you do modify one of my posts so I can help signal-boost more gender neutral posts for all my queer and trans or otherwise non-normative (aka awesome) folks out there. There is one exception to this rule however: my poetry is off limits to modification or derivatives and I will make your life hell if you claim it as your own or otherwise plagiarize it.

Why do you sound so self-righteous?

I do not tolerate serial abusers who mistreat others or otherwise misuse the bdsm community for nefarious purposes and I'm not afraid to call anyone out who's doing so. If you or someone you know is being preyed on please reach out to as many people as you can. There are folks that will listen, and I am one of them. My scope of knowledge is not unlimited, but I can help point you in the right direction.

What kinks you write about, fam?

general sexy times, bdsm relationship dynamics, collars, breath play, the oxford comma, somnophilia, shibari, praise, deification, degradation, humiliation, free use, edging, denial, anal, wax, knives, tutorials, oral, piss, abduction, training/conditioning, intox, corruption, temporary or permanent marking, romance and the cute moments, misogyny/patriarchy, physical and emotional sadism, total power exchange, kinks of the same ilk

Surely you have limits?

Making my partner uncomfortable, scat, blood, feederism, feet, vore, medical play, needles, race play, cuckoldry, multi-partner play, predatory age gaps, firearms, other more violent/gruesome topics

Anything else mister monologue guy?