That Bowl Of Coffee

Ppl will be like “end the stigma around mental illness uwu” but still judge you if you’re unemployed or single or not completely self-sufficient or healthy or perfectly groomed or still live with parents and don’t see the hypocrisy in that whatsoever

Friendly October reminder not to put Spock or other Jewish characters in costumes with horns

to clarify: it is an antisemitic idea that Jews have horns (dating to a mistranslation of karan (shone) v keren (horns) ) which was perpetuated in art by the likes of Michelangelo. this is not a thing of the past–some gentiles still believe that jewish people have horns, and putting jewish characters in costumes/aus with horns is insensitive at best and also really fuckin gross

Just to give y'all an idea of how modern the horn issue is: My dad, when he went to college in the early 1980’s, was asked by someone who had never met a Jew before where his horns were. In the 1980’s. My dad was asked where his horns were. This was only 30 years ago. I have been lucky not to deal with that particular stereotype in my lifetime, but that was less than a decade before I was born. And I know other Jews in areas where Jews are scarce have dealt with this much more recently than the 80’s.

It would b cool of my non-Jewish followers to reblog this!!! Spread this bc it’s scary and real and you should know!

horror is when a fucked up guy looks at you. comedy is when you look at a fucked up guy.

what if we’re both fucked up and we look at each other?

gay romance

#CLOCKED

Rosemarie wasn’t ready

Rosemarie got dragged by Target.

tbh i feel like ppl are like "shy" abt giving small amounts but most ppl will probably really appreciate even a 2 or 3 dollar donation on mutual aid posts and if more people had the mindset of oh, let me give this person like 2 bucks cos i can spare it, ppls stuff would get taken care of pretty fast if 40 ppl gave 2 bucks or whatever. esp since like lots of mutual aid is poor ppl passing money back n forth to each other. nobodys gonna judge u

2 bucks has gotten me out of overdraft, every penny adds up to people being able to be safe and healthy. if im ever doing well financially (rare) i do a couple 5$ donations so the comrades can eat or get their meds faster

Let's be real, PE exists to shame and torture the fat kids, and for pretty much no other reason.

*Insert that thing with all the people who dread gym*

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the owner of this blog is a homosexual

I hate it when people are like "Aww man you don't need those meds! Your brain is perfect the way it is!" Like... listen. The last time I was off my meds I had a manic episode and started having visions of my death which I became convinced were real. I need you to understand I didn't get prescribed medication because it's trendy- it is literally for my own safety. I have strong myopia too and I don't think you'd want me to go driving without my glasses either

Magicians HATE me. They ask me to pick a card and I say NO

ALAKWNSJAKWNALAKSKSKSMN RIGHT UNDER THIS I GOT AN AD FOR A ANIMAL HOSPITAL OSOWJWJSJDJDNDJDJDJ

This is one thing emotionally abusive parents are known for. Holding power over accountability and they wonder why their children don’t want to be around when they get older.

You know something is screwed up if advocating for basic human rights is considered "radical".

literally so disgusted by how people are joking about drake being a he/him lesbian because of the lyrics in his song. people will see someone fetishizing lesbians and writing lyrics with implications of a man forcing himself on lesbians and come away thinking it’s okay to not only joke about the fetishization, but use an already marginalized identity that’s constantly targeted to joke about said fetishization. people always make he/him lesbians the butt of the joke, they claim to support he/him lesbians but the second they get a chance to compare he/him lesbians to straight men or imply that he/him lesbians are straight men they always take it. he/him lesbianism is a complex identity but people trivialize it and mock it all the time. calling a straight man a hesbian because he wrote lyrics fetishizing lesbians is literally so blatantly lesbophobic, and none of the people joking about it are he/him lesbians themselves. why do people think it’s okay for them to joke about an identity that they aren’t even a part of in a way that reinforces the misconceptions about said identity

ok so i have been really busy w irl stuff the past few days and i havent had time to address this but i wanna clarify that the transmisogyny regarding the situation is significantly more severe than the hesbophobia. this post was criticizing two tiktoks specifically making hesbians the punchline of the jokes, and i was trying to bring an issue to light where people who aren’t hesbians think/say that hesbians are just binary straight men because of the pronouns we use. seeing people claim to support our identity but then still use it as a punchline was frustrating, which is why i wrote the post, however it wasn’t in any way written to disregard the transmisogynistic aspects of the issue. there were a significant amount of people joking about drake being a trans lesbian, literally portraying someone who grooms minors as a transfem person. the whole thing is intrinsically transmisogynistic, and the jokes about him being a transfem lesbian were way more harmful. i wrote the post about the hesbian jokes because as a hesbian myself i knew i could speak up about hesbophobic misconceptions without unintentionally speaking over anyone. when it comes to the transmisogynistic aspects of the situation, me, a tme person, is not the most ideal source, and i wanted to avoid speaking over tma people, which is why i only spoke about the aspect of the situation affecting me. that wasn’t meant to distract from or disregard the intense transmisogyny, and if i had known the post was going to get this much attention i would’ve focused more on that aspect