“people won’t be friends with you if you’re mean to them” is something you have GOT to learn in adulthood if you never learned it as a shut-in internet-socialized youth. you can’t just go up and say to ppl to shut the fuck up and kill themselves all the time and then expect people to genuinely care for you.
SO TRUE.
And yeah, this doesn't just mean "be nice to the people you WANT to be friends with."
If those people see you being a jerk to lots of other people for flimsy reasons, they are going to think: "what mistakes on my part might involuntarily turn me into this person's enemy? What does this person say about me behind my back already?"
And then they won't want to be friends, probably.
Posts that make me kinda miss the Five Geek Social Fallacies...


















