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After possibly thousands of requests, here’s a version of the Pans video with CAST IRON pans.

Spoiler: there’s a reason weapons and armour weren’t usually made of cast iron!

When a transfem makes posts about how you can "you should start estrogen", it's treated like detransition rhetoric, and she's demanded to put lengthy disclaimers to prevent her from upsetting AFAB readers

When a transmasc talks about the "miracle of testosterone" or recommending you start it, it's fine.

When a trans social group has mostly trans women, it's a bad sign, and they need to represent transmascs more ASAP

When a trans advocate group is led by mostly trans men, it's just an unfortunate result of random chance

Calling a transmasc whiny is hard misgendering, as only women can be whiny. Calling a trans woman a bro or dude is fine, though. As is directly stating her feminist leanings are due to a mental illness

When a transmasc runs into a transfem kink post by accident, it's the transfems fault and she's treated as on par with sexual predators

When a transmasc directly tells a transfem that she should kiss or even have sex with him instead of arguing, it's funny

Pointing out the objective fact transmasc spaces have a misogyny problem is bioessentialism.

Saying that T makes you a strong man and E will dissolve your muscles is not.

When a transfem distrusts men due to a lifetime of abuse, it's considered a symptom of a disease at best, and can only be stopped through forcing interactions with men.

When a transmasc directly says "I can't relate to women because I'm transmasc and have dysphoria" it's just how people work and you can't force him to do anything.

Telling a transmasc he benefits from male privileged at all is considered a grievous insult, and a denial of every problem he has

Transfems must be reminded of every bit of privilege they get at every possible moment, including lack of periods or pregnancy.

Part 3 of the lil chara and azzy comic!!! they are!!! talking things out!!!!!! (Kinda!!!!)

probably something like this

One of my friends in high school changed his named as soon as he turned 18, so that the ethnic name his family gave him was finally the name reflected on all of his paperwork. He told me that he understood why his parents had given him an “English” name, but that he felt that if he needed to assimilate in order to succeed, then that was a type of success that he didn’t want.

When I was on my way home from the courthouse after changing my own name, I got into a conversation with my rideshare driver, who was extremely interested once I told him what I was in court for, and wanted to know how I’d done it, how much it cost, was it difficult, etc. It turned out that his girlfriend had chosen the name “Yo-yo” when she came to the United States, unaware of how rare that was as a name, and that she was frequently made fun of because of it. Neither one of them had realized that a name change was so easy, and he told me he was excited to let her know that she had options.

There was an intern at a summer job I had once, who changed her name to be the same name, but a different spelling. She said that she had no idea why her parents had spelled her name so oddly to begin with, and suspected that it was just an honest mistake either by them or by some nurse, but it had been a headache for her entire life, and it was a huge relief to not need to be correcting people’s spelling on important documents anymore.

One of my exes legally changed his name to have an exclamation point, because he liked to sign his name with an exclamation point.