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@basil-being-afamilial
Intro
(Our main/system blog is @theherbgardensystem)
My name is Basil, I use he/it/that/thing/teeth/rot pronouns and prefer masculine and nonhuman terms. I AM A MINOR.
This blog is about my experience being afamilial and anyone who wants to is welcome to share their experience being aspec or specifically afamilial
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Afamilial🕯🔥/Afamilialguiding candle-identifying as or with afamilial in a way that feels warming and guides your understanding of your other identities
Afamilial❢/Afamilialheavey exclaim- identifies as afamilial in a strong, calming and sincere/interwoven way (both [x]❢ and [x]🕯️🔥 were coined by @wave-pool-coining)
Afamilial🐍/Afamilialsnake- Identifying as or connecting to afamilial(ity) in a way that is solitary, misunderstood and perceived as cold blooded and/or unfeeling from the outside. ([x]🐍 coined by @sillytek)
Afamilial↑/Afamilialarrow- when someone is/connects to afamilial(ity) in a very grandiose, flashy, and self important way. ([x]↑ coined by @narcpolar)
-Afamilial/minusAfamilial-Someone who identifies as afamilial since youth; an afamilial identity that is understood best from a youthful perspective, being afamilial early in life, et cetera. (-identity coined by @coinedbank)
Afamilial⬟/Afamilialpgon- a term for when one's identity as afamilial is affected by one's source. ([x] ⬟ coined by @destoral with the flag template by @skyclowdercoins)
@radiomogai @symblabel-terms
Family Favorability
(or Familial Favorability)
Family Favorability. In order from top to bottom, left to right:
Family-Favorable/Familial-Favorable: When one feels favorably towards familial relationships/family/familial activities.
Family-Desired/Familial-Desired: When one actively desires family/familial relationships.
Family-Piqued/Familial-Piqued: When one is favorable to family due to trauma recovery, mania, or other mental health-related phenomena. This may be temporary or permanent.
Family-Indifferent/Familial-Indifferent: When one is indifferent or has no strong feelings towards family/familial relationships. They aren't particularly interested or particularly opposed. Some may enjoy it when they have it but just feel no need desire, or drive for it, while others don't necessarily have any significant positive feelings about it at all.
Family-Ambivalent/Familial-Ambivalent: When one has mixed or complicated feelings on family/familial relationships (may fluctuate between/overlap with other favorabilities). Could be different between different times, contexts, or particular aspects of family. Varied and doesn't fit neatly into other favorabilities.
Family-Oscillating/Familial-Oscillating: When one's feelings about family/familial relationships change over time. They may consider themselves fluid between other faborability labels.
Family-Averse/Familial-Averse: When one is averse to family/familial relationships. Those who are averse are typically opposed to having family and/or being involved in familial interactions, activities, or affection. Some that are averse also dislike seeing or hearing about family, even if it is not directed at them. Not necessarily repulsed by it.
Family-Repulsed/Familial-Repulsed: When one feels repulsion towards family/familial relationships. Those that are repulsed are typically strongly opposed to having family and/or being involved in familial interactions, activities, or affection. Many that are repulsed also dislike seeing or hearing about family in general and make an effort to avoid it.
Family-Drained/Familial-Drained: When one is averse to or repulsed by family/familial relationships due to trauma, exhaustion, bad experiences, or other mental health-related phenomena. This may be temporary or permanent.
@radiomogai (im going to add you to all my old posts now so if you see ones you've archived already you can ignore them)
I hope all afamilials have a good Sunday
Reblog if you think asexuality is a legitimate sexuality.
I’m trying to prove something.
Reblog if your blog is a safe place for asexuals.
im on the acespec myself so hell yeah
And for aromantics too!!!! And aplatonics!!!!!! and agender people!!!! Afamilials!!!! Asensuals!!! Aqueerplatonics!!!!! Ansocials!!!!!!!! Aemotionals!!! Anaesthetionals!!!!! Aphysicals!!!!! Anattractionals!!!!!!! Analterous’s!!!!! Any other aspec identities i missed!!! Youre all welcome and youre all cool!! If anyone says you arent ill bash their head in!!!!!!!!
And alove / loveless!!!
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Aberrofamilial
・₊✧𝘈 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘥𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘺｡｡｡ -`♡´-
[PT: Aberrofamilial
A pearlescent term has been added to the sanctuary…]
✧ Aberrofamilial - Those who have familial attraction, they just don't experience it towards those they are expected to (ex: raised family). Experiencing familial attraction atypical to what's expected in ones culture. While this is geared towards western expectations, this term includes other cultural expectations outside of that. Made with allofamilials in mind but inclusive of anyone who experiences any form of familial attraction. ✧
✧ Ex. Someone may feel familial attraction towards their grandparents, aunts/uncles, found family, etc instead of the expected parents, tribes, etc. ✧
✧ Similar term: Adaquofamilial, an afamilial-spec term for when you don't feel love and/or familial attraction towards blood relatives, but feel it for found family or chosen family. ✧
✧ Requested by a @a-jagged-nightmare ✧
✧ Tagging for all Term posts: @radiomogai ✧ ✧ Aberro- comes from Aberration, "a departure from what is normal, usual, or expected, typically an unwelcome one" ✧
for those with crappy mothers, i'd like to bring to your attention that today is children's day in some places, as well as shrimp day! and clean your room day (less exciting, but some may enjoy that), and also small business day!
My roommate is armchair diagnosing me with every mental illness ever because I said that there are people who love me more and do more for me than him (he only sees me every other week) (I can count on one hand the number of times he cooked a meal for me before he got divorced) (he has told me to my face that I am not a person multiple times) (literally the only logical conclusion from how he treats me is that he hates me)
I've recently realized that I'm most likely somewhere on the afamilial spectrum and realized that I only ever really have familial attraction towards pets, with only one exception (my Dad). I'm still learning to accept this about myself, I'm frustrated with the way society treats family as this extremely important thing and purposefully makes life harder for those without families.
Yeahhhhhhhh society is the worst. I wish I could do more to help advocate for afamspec and other lesser-known aspec identities. Most of my OCs are afamspec and I run this blog but I'm bodily fifteen and can't really do anything super concrete to help, at least not for a while
Is the way people feel about pets familial?? I've actually been wondering that for a while now. I've generally thought of my bond with my cats as platonic but I definitely did have a phase when I was younger when I insisted they were blood related to me/my brothers. Although that might've been cause I'm a cat therian
If you're looking for specific labels which I know you didn't say you are but my brain jumped to it because queerness is my spin so if you don't want labels just ignore this; the first things that came to mind are unifamilial and zoofamilial.
and i had to wonder.......was it even possible for fictional characters to be friends and coworkers with each other? or could we only exist in a world where all dynamics are processed through the lens of the nuclear family?
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I know that being on the afamilial spectrum is not the same thing as having a bad relationship/having a bad/shitty family, but is it possible that being afamspec can be related to that for some of us? I'm questioning that I might be afamspec and am curious about this due to also not having a very good relationship with most of my family. I apologize if I'm being offensive in some way.
It's okay!! Yes, being afamspec can be related to trauma or negative familial experiences. I myself am caedfamilial/afamilial from trauma!!
you are like if two people had a child
Wrong!! Afamilial beam ⬛️🐺⬜️🟥 /silly
Familybonding and Nonfamilybonding
(or Non-fambonding / Nonfambonding, and Fambonding
Family-bonding: Someone who wants familial bonds, or someone who labels specific relationships of theirs as familial, for any reason.
Non-family-bonding: Someone who does not want familial bonds.
Note that nonfambonding is not synonymous with familial-repulsed, and fambonding is not synonymous with familial-favorable.
Similar to nonpartnering and nonfriending, but for afamilials.
I'm afamilial obviously of course forever and always but god the only way I can think of to describe Caine from the Amazing Digital Circus is my son. he my son. It’s not accurate but it's close enough
Allofamilial aplatonics 🤝 Alloplatonic afamilials
Eternal frustration at people using "platonic" to mean "not romantic or sexual" and thus constantly calling familial relationships platonic
Like. No! Actually they aren't! And that matters a lot actually because I'm only allo about one of these things and so I feel very differently about familial relationships than I do about platonic ones!
So yeah, allofam apls and allopl afams are in fact god's strongest soliders
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Sometimes being afamilial is why am I crying (/neg) because she said she loves me why do I hate the sound of her voice why does she insist on dragging out phone calls much longer than they need to be why does she laugh when I'm annoyed that I have to lie and say I love her why does she love me what's wrong with her what's wrong with me
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