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me when i'm in a "being mischaracterized by fandom" competition and my opponent is the 15y/o anime girl with DID
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I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.
We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.
There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:
A single income isn't enough to get by anymore
Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system
Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly
Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.
So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.
Dk how much I'll actually draw, but this year I'll be joining Artfight again!
Going through the main Korra “critiques”.
“Korra is a Mary Sue.”
This is probably the weakest criticism to me. A Mary Sue is a character who’s unrealistically perfect so rarely fails and faces no meaningful consequences to their actions.
Korra is impulsive, stubborn, hot headed, spiritually disconnected, and often lets her emotions cloud her judgment. She loses her bending, loses her connection to the past Avatars, gets poisoned, develops PTSD, and spends years recovering from her trauma. She loses more major fights than almost any Avatar we’ve seen due to the strength of her villains.
Calling her a Mary Sue is not only inaccurate, it’s also reductive. It’s a label that’s disproportionately thrown at capable female protagonists, while equally gifted male characters are simply called “talented.”
“She dated her whole friend group.”
Did she?
She dated Mako as a teenager. Years later, after she and Mako had long broken up and remained friends, she began a relationship with Asami.
That’s two relationships.
Her going on one date with Bolin, a guy she was shown she didn’t like in that way, is not a relationship.
Meanwhile Sokka dates Suki, Yue, openly flirts with multiple girls throughout the series, and nobody claims he “dated the whole group.” Funny how that criticism only seems to stick to Korra. And people go as far as to label Sokka a “back bender”.
“She uses the Avatar State too much.”
People ignore context.
Korra’s villains aren’t random Fire Nation soldiers. They’re Amon, Unalaq, Zaheer, and Kuvira…arguably some of the strongest opponents in the franchise. Of course she uses the Avatar State. That’s literally what it’s for.
And the infamous race against Tenzin’s kids? It was an obvious joke. People act like she was using godlike power to win an Olympic event when it was a playful family moment. You can also see it as Aang pushing through for a moment with his grandkids.
“She’s immature.”
Yes.
She’s 17.
So are Toph, Sokka and Aang. Kids being immature isn’t bad writing…it’s called being young.
On top of that, Korra was raised in isolation in a secure compound, surrounded almost exclusively by adults and teachers. She never had a normal childhood or friends her own age. It would actually be unrealistic if she weren’t socially awkward and emotionally immature at the start.
The entire point of her story is watching her grow beyond that but I think that’s asking too much media analysis for these people.
“She loses too much.”
Isn’t that the exact opposite of being a Mary Sue?
You can’t argue she’s an overpowered and flawless character while also criticizing her for losing.
Her enemies are also far stronger and more complex than those Aang faced. Every season pits her against a villain who challenges what it means to be the Avatar in a changing world. The fights are supposed to be difficult.
“Aang is stronger.”
This debate is mostly subjective.
Aang and Korra were written for different stories.
Aang’s greatest strength was his spirituality, wisdom and ability to avoid conflict.
Korra’s greatest strength is her raw physical power, resilience and determination.
If we’re talking pure combat, Korra has a very strong case for being the stronger fighter. If we’re talking spirituality, Aang clearly has the edge.
Neither answer is objectively correct because they excel in different areas.
“She lost the past lives.”
This is another criticism that gets directed at Korra for something that wasn’t actually her choice.
The past lives weren’t lost because Korra was careless or incompetent. They were destroyed by Unalaq and Vaatu during Harmonic Convergence while Raava was literally ripped out of her. Korra fought to stop it and even managed to restore Raava, but the connection to the previous Avatars was already gone.
That’s a tragedy of the story, not a personal failure. Blaming Korra for it is like blaming Aang for the Air Nomad genocide. Sometimes terrible things happen to the Avatar that are beyond their control.
“Team Avatar was weaker.”
This criticism ignores the difference in what each series was trying to do.
Aang’s Team Avatar was made up of once in a generation prodigies. Toph invented metalbending. Katara became one of the greatest waterbenders alive. Zuko was a firebending master trained by dragons and her sister was a lighting bending prodigy. Sokka was a military strategist who was seen as outsmarting entire armies. (Idk how realistic that is but it is a kids show).
Korra’s team isn’t built around being legendary prodigies. Mako is a skilled lighting bender, Bolin grows into an accomplished lavabender, and Asami is a non bender whose strengths are engineering and intelligence. They’re capable, but they’re intentionally more realistic.
That also puts more emphasis on Korra herself. Unlike Aang, who often had teammates capable of matching elite opponents on their own, Korra frequently has to shoulder the burden of fighting the biggest threats herself. This puts more emphasis on the strength of the avatar. Her villains are also so dangerous that even her team can’t realistically take them on without her.
Rather than making Korra look weaker, it actually highlights how much responsibility falls on her as the Avatar also. Her team supports her, but they aren’t written to solve the conflict for her the way Aang’s exceptionally gifted companions often could.
“She is humanity’s destroyer”.
One thing people often forget is that every Avatar inherits the consequences of the previous one’s decisions.
Aang spent years cleaning up the aftermath of the Hundred Year War. Korra inherited a rapidly industrialising world where the role of the Avatar itself was being questioned. Every generation faces problems created by the last.
Now, with Seven Havens, we’re already seeing the cycle continue. Before the series has even begun, people are blaming Korra for the state of the world as if the entire point of Avatar isn’t that history is messy and every Avatar leaves behind both achievements and unresolved problems.
Avatar has never been a story where one Avatar “fixes everything.” It’s a story about an endless cycle of responsibility. Roku’s failures became Aang’s burden. Aang’s decisions became Korra’s challenges. Korra’s era will shape the next Avatar’s world.
If people only remember an Avatar for the mistakes they couldn’t prevent, then every Avatar has failed. But that’s never been what these stories are about. They’re about imperfect people doing the best they can in impossible circumstances, knowing the next Avatar will have to continue the work.
At the end of the day preferences exist and you don’t have to like Korra.
But calling her a Mary Sue, pretending she dated everyone she knew, ignoring the context of the Avatar State, criticizing her for acting like the teenager she literally is, and then complaining that she loses too much while also claiming she’s overpowered just isn’t consistent criticism.
You can dislike The Legend of Korra. You can prefer Avatar: The Last Airbender. But at least criticize Korra for what the show actually does, not for things that aren’t true. And that quite frankly are dripping in misogynistic stereotypes.
Shinko Windy #112
- MY ORIGINAL IDEA FOR TODAY CAN WAIT, NEW SCENARIO = I HAVE TO MAKE A BILLION MORE WINDY GIFS OR I WILL KMS
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Opera O might seem a bit annoying at first, but, going further in her story, you realise that, in the end, her whole thing is that she knows she is destined to do great things, and, bc of that, her ultimate goal is to become a guiding light for her contemporaries and the umas that will come, the one that others want to beat, the one that others will train SO HARD to beat that they will inevitably go through their own journey towards greatness.
I'd also like to remind you that, in Opera's career, when Doto finds the courage to challenge Opera and Opera's fans start booing Doto, Opera DEFENDS Doto, saying that her rival deserves just as much respect as hers, and that, if you are not willing to respect Doto, you are NOT a real fan of TM Opera O.
THIS is what TM Opera O is all about. She is not an abuser, she ain't a narcissist. TM Opera O is someone who wants to do SMTH GREAT, for herself AND for OTHERS, while ACTIVELY believing in and loving herself, and ppl are acting like that's a crime
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similarly to how you should never trust gamers with a nonbinary character i feel like you can also never trust a fandom with an aroace character. whether it's explicitly canon or implied it just ends up the same
Actually no wait, I need to add this here bc like.
I've seen ppl who just categorically ship 2 or more charas whenever they see them show some basic care for each other.
And look, it's a free word and you can do whatever you want, but if you see 2+ charas care for each other and THE ONLY THING you can think abt is "oh they must be in love", without even considering the fact that caring for someone outside of yourself is NOT smth that is exclusive of romantic relationships... either all the friends you had in your life SUCK ASS, you are an awful friend, or you are straight up aphobic and arophobic
similarly to how you should never trust gamers with a nonbinary character i feel like you can also never trust a fandom with an aroace character. whether it's explicitly canon or implied it just ends up the same
I think if you want to understand bigotry against aromantics, I have a good case study. Let me talk a little about my dad's family.
My dad has 4 half siblings and two step siblings. They're all a decent bit younger than him. When I was a teenager, we went to a family reunion, and I realized something—my dad did not respect his siblings. He looked down on all of them. He saw them as fuck-ups and overgrown children. My dad had the American dream: well paying management job, suburban house, wife, and three kids. My aunt and uncles did not. Excluding my aunt, none of them were married or in serious relationships. They hadn't really settled into long term careers. Several of them were working the kind of jobs that get called "Unskilled labor." So he looked down on them because the youngest one was in his thirties (and several were much older), and yet none of them had "settled down" into what he saw as lifelong, permanent careers and relationships and lives. He was polite to their faces, sure, but I heard how he talked about them behind their backs, to my mother.
And then a few years ago, we visited his brothers again for Thanksgiving. And I realized something again--he respected them now. He saw them as equals. Why? Well. All of a sudden, every single one of them had serious, committed romantic partners. They didn't even need to still be with those partners—one of my uncle's fiance passed away from cancer before they could marry—just having had one showed that they matured into a real adult participating in society. In fact, at one point, my aunt was telling my mom about how one of my uncles was no longer living in an apartment she owned, but instead, after having a steady girlfriend for about a year, he moved in with her. And my mom literally said to my aunt, "wow. Look at that. He finally grew up."
One of the lines that frequently gets repeated about anti-aspec sentiment is "why would anyone hate asexuals/aromantics/etc? They aren't even doing anything." And that's exactly it. In the eyes of amatonormative culture, we aren't doing anything. Adults are supposed to do things. That's how you become a member of society.
I know that my father will never see me as a successful adult. He will never approve of my life. And I think most people would assume that that's because I'm trans. And don't get me wrong, he sure as shit doesn't like or respect that, but I do think if given enough time, he would get used to it. He would eventually realize that it isn't going away. And if I settled down with a spouse and a respectful job and a few kids, he could see me as a successful adult that he could be proud of anyway. But of course, that's not going to happen. Because I'm aromantic. So I'm never going to do that one thing that signifies that his job is complete, and I'm officially a full-fledged adult. I will perpetually be that fuck-up kid who won't settle down. In my personal case, that's okay. My dad is a conservative piece of shit, and if he doesn't approve of you, that just means you're doing something right. But on a societal level? This kind of attitude is a massive problem. Aromantics deserve to be treated like adults, and to feel like the accomplished adults that they are. We should feel like we belong in society.

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Shinko Windy #100
- WE DID IT! TRIPPLE DIDGITS!!!
I truly can't believe ive gotten this far, and really couldn't do it without all your support! I dont think ive ever drawn another character this many times 😅.
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"everyone should get more aromantic" can appeal to tumblr's sensibilities but I genuinely think everyone should also get more asexual. I don't mean everyone stop having sex, what I mean is
Sex is not essential. You can live without it. Full stop.
Not having sex isn't shameful or a sign of failure. It also doesn't make anyone boring.
You are not entitled to having sex with anybody and nobody is entitled to having sex with you.
Sex is not what makes someone an adult.
Nobody's worth is defined by how much sex they have or don't have.
Sex is not equally important to everyone.
You can have fulfilling and happy relationships without sex.
You should only have sex on your own terms, not because you feel like you owe it to someone, or because you feel like you'd be incomplete without it.
Know your boundaries around sex and be firm about them. Know how to respect other people's boundaries.
The previous point also applies when it comes to discussing sex. If someone doesn't wanna talk about it or hear about it you have to back down.
Anything can be sexual but not everything has to be sexual.

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Can we start normalizing flagging NSFW content with a NSFW tag so that ppl who are sex repulsed are not forced to look at it when looking at the tags of their fav characters/shows/etc?
"Oh why are you such a purist at your age" no Janet. If YOU want to talk about sex, draw sexy fanarts and stuff, that's fine by me!! You should be allowed to talk abt that, period! What I'm saying is: Just don't force ppl who don't like it to look at it, bc those ppl are trying to ENJOY that stuff just as much as you, and being forced to look at smth that makes you straight up uncomfortable REALLY ruins the experience.
"Then why don't you set your tumblr so that it doesn't show adult content?" bc sometimes Tumblr doesn't identify it or flags perfectly innocent stuff, Tom. Meanwhile, if ppl just bothered to add ONE TAG, this issue wouldn't really persist