THE HOARD

WHAT ARE USERBOXES

“Userboxes are boxes containing a little bit of information about someone! They originated from wikipedia and were meant to be put on people’s user pages, but here people either choose to reblog those that apply to them or put them on their about pages (or both!)”

—Definition stolen borrowed from Userboxed's FAQ

So, basically, Wikipedia had this little thing where NERDS would code* boxes of information and people said “HEY, THAT'S SO COOL WHY DO ONLY THE SMART PEOPLE HAVE THOSE” and said “IMMA MAKE MY OWN, SCREENSHOT IT AND PUT IT ON MY WEBSITE/PROFILE/PINNED POST”

*Zzz boring code (I have a website myself, I'm allowed to call it boring)

WHY I LOVE USERBOXES

✦ Most people won't read your pinned post in its totality, but will read the userboxes. ✦ They're colorful, have one or two sentences max per userbox and have an image on the side, so it catches people's attention more than just plain text. ✦ They get their point across: your personality, interests, sometimes aesthetics… ✦ MAKING YOUR OWN IS SUPER EASY!!

The standard size is 239px × 49px, but bigger/high quality userboxes can be found, always following that ratio, of course.

WHAT ARE STAMPS

Basically, just images/GIFs with a border resembling a real life stamp. These are called static or animated stamps, AND I'M IN LOVE WITH THE LATTER TYPE. I believe they come from Deviantart and serve a similar purpose to userboxes: decorating your profile.

WHY I LOVE STAMPS

✦ Collecting them is super fun!! It reminds you of which parts of the internet you have visited. ✦ Groups of stamps look super cool together. ✦ That thing about getting your point across but without text and writing AESTHETIC in bold red underlined text.

The standard size is 99px × 56px, but bigger/high quality stamps can be found, always following that ratio, of course.

BUT WHERE DO YOU PLACE THEM !?

You can have a couple on your profiles (Spacehey), pinned posts (Tumblr)… But where people COLLECT THEM is in

A CORNER ON YOUR OWN WEBSITE / NEOCITIES

EXAMPLES OF COOL NEOCITIES THAT WITH COOL STAMPS/COLLECTIONS

✦ Shishka ✦ Cinni ✦ Oddity Commoddity ✦ Ko's Crag! ✦ Cloud Cover ✦ Echo's Graphics ✦ silly zone ✦ Mad Paddington ✦ My own website lmao

THIS IS YOUR CALL TO MAKE YOUR OWN NEOCITIES !!

(Because it's my hyperfixation, topped only by TF2, and I MUST share it with the world) (I already convinced my light to make a neocities, YOU ARE NEXT.)

CONCLUSION

TL;DR: They're silly and cute BUT, they're also nostalgic and an important part of internet culture

I also recommend watching the next videos just because (you won't understand userboxes or stamps any better, but the culture around it)

✦ Whatever Happened to Profile Customization? ✦ Old Websites Were Cooler, Actually

All images include image IDs and every colored/title text in plain text below.

Plain text: SSAs!

Plain text: Let's break down the term:

Plain text: Key differences:

Plain text: Some "tasks" SSAs can perform:

Lunarian: A non-binary person who identifies with femininity in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Fenby/Finby/Femenby/Finenby/Femby: A non-binary person who is feminine, but not aligned with womanhood.

Nonbinary Woman/Engirl/Enwoman/Girlby/Womanby/Womenby: A non-binary person who also considers themself to be a woman in some shape or form (ie; being multigender, having a mixture of womanhood in their gender, etc.)

Solarian: A non-binary person who identifies with masculinity in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Menby/Minby/Minenby/Mascby: A non-binary person who is masculine, but not aligned with manhood.

Nonbinary Man/Enboy: A non-binary person who also considers themself to be a man in some shape or form (ie; being multigender, having a mixture of manhood in their gender, etc.)

Boygirl/Girlboy/Manwoman: A person who is simultaneously a man and a woman, either blended together or as two distinct aspects. Some boygirls consider themselves to be femmasc or androgyne.

Eclipsian: A non-binary person who identifies with both masculinity and femininity in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Femmasc/Mascfem: A person with a gender that is both feminine and masculine.

Calypsian: A non-binary person who identifies with androgyny in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Androgyne: A person with an androgynous gender. (Note: Androgyny describes a blend of femininity and masculinity. Some people prefer femmasc because they view their femininity and masculinity as separated distinct parts, rather than a blend.)

Femandrogyne: An androgyne person who leans towards femininity. Gynx is a person who is in-between androgyne and female.

Mascandrogyne: An androgyne person who leans towards masculinity. Androx is a person who is in-between androgyne and male.

Neutrois: A person with a gender experience that is neutral. (Note: Neutrality describes an unaligned, ambiguous, undefined, or "grey" experience.) Some null or genderless people consider their nullity/genderlessness to be neutral as well.

Neugender: A person with a gender experience that is part neutral, part something else. For example, a neudrogyne person would have a gender that is part neutral, part androgynous.

Stellarian: A non-binary person who identifies with neutrality in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Genderless: A person who is genderless. (Allogender is an umbrella term to describe anyone who isn't fully genderless; anyone who has a full gender is allogender.)

Erasgender: A person who feels as though their original gender was erased, leaving them with only traces of it. For example, a person who used to fully identify as othergender, but now only feels vaguely othergender and otherwise genderless.

Demigender: A person who is only partially a specific gender. For example, a person who considers themself 30% a woman would be a demiwoman/demigirl. A person may have multiple demigenders at once (ie; being 10% demiboy, 40% demixenine, and 50% deminull), or the rest of their gender "percentage" could be genderless. (Ie; 30% demioutherine, 70% genderless.)

Agender: A term that usually describes a person who is genderless, however it can also describe a person who considers themself to be detached/unaligned from the idea of gender.

Gendervoid: A person whose gender is absence. They consider their gender to be a void or empty space.

Gendernull: A person whose gender is null. Gendervoid people may consider themselves to be gendernull. (Note: Nullity describes a void/empty space, but still distinctly present experience. Nullity would be like an empty cup, while genderlessness would be like no cup at all.)

Boötian: A non-binary person who identifies with genderlessness or nullity in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Spacialian: A non-binary person who identifies with xeninity in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Xenogender: A person whose gender is best described through concepts, objects, or non-humans.

Othergender: A person whose gender is outherine. (Note: Outherinity describes an experience that is detached from femininity, masculinity, androgyny, neutrality, nullity, genderlessness, or xeninity. It is not empty/void and is a distinctly gendered feeling. It may be based on a cultural gender, ones self autonomy, or an entirely new concept. For example, a person who considers their gender to just be "myself", rather than any other gender qualities.)

Maverique: A person whose gender is outherine, in a non-cultural way.

Aporagender/Abinary: A gender that is not feminine, masculine, or androgynous, while still being present (not genderless.) Neutral genders, null genders, xenine genders, and outherine genders fall under this.

Multigender: A person who has multiple genders. This has specific subsets, such as Bigender (2 genders), Trigender (3 genders), Quadgender (4 genders), Quintgender (5 genders), Hexagender (6 genders), Septagender (7 genders), Octagender (8 genders), Enneagender (9 genders), Decagender (10 genders), and Pangender/Omnigender (all genders possible for their culture and/or mental/physical experiences.)

(Monogender is an umbrella term to describe anyone who isn't multigender; anyone who has only a singular gender is monogender.)

Genderfluid: A multigender person whose gender changes. How often it changes depends on the person (ie; multiple times every day, one every few days, once every few weeks, etc). They may have a few specific genders they rotate between (ie; rotating between man, woman, and neutrois) or they may have randomized gender experiences.

Genderflux: A multigender person whose gender fluctuates in intensity. For example, a girlflux person might fluctuate between being a woman, being a demigirl, and being genderless. Another example is a xenoflux person who fluctuates between demixenine and xenogender, but never becomes fully genderless.

Genderfluidflux: A multigender person whose gender fluctuates in intensity and also changes. For example, a person who is boyflux one day, and androgyneflux the next day.

Multiversian: A non-binary person who identifies with multiple gender alignments in either presentation, experience, or internal identity. Aurorian describes a non-binary person who is fluid between alignments.

Unlabeled Gender: A person who does not desire to label their gender.

Singularian: A non-binary person who rejects any concept of gender alignment in either presentation, experience, or internal identity.

Gender Apathetic/Apagender: A person who is apathetic about their gender.

Mingender: An umbrella term for masculine genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is masculine.

Fingender: An umbrella term for feminine genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is feminine.

Lingender: An umbrella term for androgynous genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is androgynous.

Ningender: An umbrella term for neutral genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is neutral.

Agingender: An umbrella term for agender-related genders (often including voidness and nullity.) This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is agender-related.

Xingender An umbrella term for xenine genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is xenine.

Ouingender: An umbrella term for outherine genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is outherine.

Aingender: An umbrella term for aporine genders. This can also be used as a lone identity if a person doesn't want to specify in what way their gender is aporine.

Uingender: An umbrella term for genders that are unknown, unidentifiable, undecided, unsure, or undetermined.

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Sex & Gender Labels

[PT: Sex & Gender Labels]

Trans: A person who is transsex, transgender, or both.

Cis: A person who is cissex, cisgender, or both.

Cistrans/Trancis/Trisgender (Tris): A person who is both trans and cis at the same time (ie; a transsex cisgender person, an intersex person whose gender has been reassigned multiple times and therefore they align with both transgender and cisgender experiences, a multigender person who identifies with their socially imposed gender and a different gender at the same time, etc.)

Transfeminine (Transfem): A person who is trans in a feminine way.

Trans Woman: A trans person who is a woman. They may be transitioning from man to woman, from enban to binary woman, from one type of womanhood to another type of womanhood (ie; binary woman to non-binary woman or vice versa), etc.

Transmasculine (Transmasc): A person who is trans in a masculine way.

Trans Man: A trans person who is a man. They may be transitioning from woman to man, from enban to binary man, from one type of manhood to another type of manhood (ie; binary man to non-binary man or vice versa), etc.

Transfemmasc: A person who is trans in both a fem and masc way.

Transandrogynous: A person who is trans in an androgynous way. Some people may prefer transfemmasc because they view their femininity and masculinity as two distinct facets, rather than a blended concept.

Transneutral: A person who is trans in a neutral way.

Transnull: A person who is trans in a null way.

Transgenderless: A person who is trans in a genderless way.

Transsexless: A person who is trans in a sexless way.

Transxenine: A person who is trans in a xenine way.

Transoutherine: A person who is trans in an outherine way.

Transaporine: A person who is trans in an aporine way.

Multitransitional: A person who is trans in multiple ways.

Woland- (Wolandsex, Wolandgender, etc): A person whose physical disability affects the way they perceive their identity. For example, a genderflux person who feels as though their gender fluctuates based on how much pain they are feeling at the moment.

Neuro- (Neurosex, Neurogender, etc): A person whose neurological or psychological disability affects the way they perceive their identity. For example, a xenosex person who feels as though their delusions are the reason why they wish for inhuman sex traits.

Caed-/Caedo- (Caedgender, Caedsex, etc): A person who feels as though trauma "cut away" their original identity. This could leave them genderless/sexless, or it could lead their previously gendered/sexed feelings to be replaced with a new gender/sex experience. For example, a person who used to identify as a man, but feels as though their trauma has cut away their manhood, and they now identify as neutrois as a result.

Alterhumangender/AHgender/Gendernonhuman (GenderNH): A person whose alterhuman (otherkin, therian, otherflicker, otherhearted, nonhuman sysmate, fictive, factive, etc) identity affects the way they perceive their gender. For example, a fictionkin demigirl whose source is a woman, and feels as though their connection to womanhood is because of their kin.

Cultural Gender/Cultural Sex: A gender or sex identity that is exclusive to a particular culture. There are many cultural genders/cultural sexes around the world.

Some examples of cultural genders/sexes include:

Siberia: Ergi/Argr

Balkans: Burrnesha/Sworn Virgin

Naples Italy: Femminiello

USA (including Alaska), Canada: some Two-Spirited identities

Latin America: Travesti

Mexico: Muxe/Biza’ah 

Peru: Qwariwarmi

Ndongo Africa: Chibados 

Ethiopa Africa: Ashtime

Central African Republic, DR Congo, South Sudan: Boy Wives/Male Wives

Sub-Saharan Africa: Female Husbands 

Egypt: Sekhet

Israel: Aylonit Adam, Aylonit Hamah, Saris Adam, Saris Hamah, Androgynos, Tumtum

India: Kinnar/Hijra 

Nepal: Meti

China: Yinyang Ren

Japan: X-Gender

Philippines: Baklâ/Bayot/Agî/Ladyboy

Indonesia: Waria, Bissu, Calabai, Calalai

Australia: Sistergirl, Brotherboy

Tonga: Fakaleitī

Somoa: Fa’afafine

Tahiti: Rae-Rae

Hawai’i: Māhū

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Gender Presentation

[PT: Gender Presentation]

GNC (Gender Non-Conforming): A person who presents in a way not traditionally associated with their gender.

PNC (Pronoun Non-Conforming): A person who uses pronouns not traditionally associated with their gender (ie; a woman who uses she/her), or not traditionally used societally (ie; a person who uses neopronouns.) PNC people may sometimes consider themselves GNC.

Azalean/Cerul: An enban who presents femininely.

Carnatian/Vermil: An enban who presents masculinely.

Rosarian: An enban who presents in both a feminine and masculine way, either simultaneously (androgynous) or fluidly.

Lavenderian: An enban who presents in a neutral, genderless, null, or outherine way.

Amaranthian: An enban who presents in a xenine way.

Tomboy/Mascgirl: A fingender person who presents masculinely.

Azurgirl: A fingender person who presents masculinely, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to masculinity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Femboy/Calicogirl/Tomgirl/Janegirl: A man who presents femininely.

Rosboy: A mingender person who presents femininely, or a mingender person who has a deep connection to femininity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Softboy: A mingender person who is soft/gentle in personality and/or appearance.

Flamboyant: A person who acts/presents in a fancy or over the top (often sassy) manner. This is often applied to men, but can be applied to women & enben as well.

Twink: A skinny queer person (often a man) who bends traditional gender roles in some way, usually by being a femme, a softboy, or flamboyant. Twunk describes a twink that is slightly more muscular.

Femme: A queer person who presents femininely. Oftentimes they will bend traditional femininity.

Futch: A queer person who is both a femme and a butch, or in-between.

Butch: A person whose gender presentation is masculine in a queer way. This is often used by masculine women and transmasc people, but can also be used by anyone else who twists masculinity in a queer manner.

Butchwink: A person who considers themself both a butch and a twink.

Fish: A black person who is feminine in a queer way. Some fishes will use the label femme as well.

Stemme/Stem: A black person who is both a fish and a stud, or in-between. Some stemmes will use the label futch as well.

Stud: A black person whose gender presentation is masculine in a queer way. This is often used by black masculine women and black transmasc people, but can also be used by any other black person who twists masculinity in a queer manner. Some studs will use the label butch as well.

Bear: A big (muscular or fat) queer person (usually a man) who is hairy. Cub describes a young bear. Ursula describes a bear who is fingender. Urse/Ursule describes a bear who is non-binary.

Sugar Bear: A bear who is gender non-conforming (usually presenting femininely, but other gender presentations may apply.)

Cow: A fat fingender person who wishes to reclaim the insult "cow", using it as a synonym for ursula.

Chub/Gummybear: A fat queer person (usually a man) who is not hairy.

Otter: A thin or lightly muscular queer person (usually a man) who is hairy. This is often considered the in-between of twink/twunk and bear.

Futch Otter: A person who considers themself both a futch and an otter.

Charoigirl/Charoitegirl/Charoifem/Charoitefem/Drogygirl/Drogyfem: A fingender person who presents androgynously.

Wisterigirl/Wisterifem: A fingender person who presents androgynously, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to androgyny, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Charoiboy/Charoiteboy/Charoimasc/Charoitemasc/Drogyboy/Drogymasc: A mingender person who presents androgynously.

Wisteriboy/Wisterimasc: A mingender person who presents androgynously, or a mingender person who has a deep connection to androgyny, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Jadeigirl/Jadeitegirl/Jadeifem/Jadeigirl/Neutringirl/Neutrinfem: A fingender person who presents neutrally.

Callagirl/Callamasc: A fingender person who presents neutrally, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to neutrality, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Jadeiboy/Jadeiteboy/Jadeimasc/Jadeitemasc/Neutrinboy/Neutrinmasc: A mingender person who presents neutrally.

Callaboy/Callamasc: A mingender person who presents neutrally, or a mingender person who has a deep connection to neutrality, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Citrigirl/Citrinegirl/Citrifem/Citrinefem/Xegirl/Xefem: A fingender person who presents xeninely.

Zinnigirl/Zinnifem/Zinniagirl/Zinniafem: A fingender person who presents xeninely, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to xeninity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Citriboy/Citrineboy/Citrimasc/Citrinemasc/Xeboy/Xemasc: A mingender person who presents xeninely.

Zinniboy/Zinnimasc/Zinniaboy/Zinniamasc: A mingender person who presents xeninely, or a mingender person who has a deep connection to xeninity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Rhinegirl/Rhinefem/Rinegirl/Rinefem: A fingender person who presents outherinely.

Oenogirl/Oenothgirl/Oenothfem/Oenofem/Oberongirl/Oberonfem: A fingender person who presents outherinely, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to outherinity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Rhineboy/Rhinemasc/Rineboy/Rinemasc: A mingender person who presents outherinely.

Oenoboy/Oenomasc /Oenothboy/Oenothmasc/Oberonboy/Oberonmasc: A mingender person who presents outherinely, or a mingender person who has a deep connection to outherinity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Unakigirl/Unakifem/Porigirl/Porifem: A fingender person who presents aporinely.

Kniphogirl/Kniphofem/Kniphofiagirl/Kniphofiafem: A fingender person who presents aporinely, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to aporinity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Unakiboy/Unakimasc/Poriboy/Porimasc: A mingender person who presents aporinely.

Kniphoboy/Kniphomasc/Kniphofiaboy/Kniphofiamasc: A fingender person who presents aporinely, or a fingender person who has a deep connection to aporinity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Drag Artist/Drag Performer: A person who dresses in an exaggerated manner, twisting gender presentation in a queer way. Oftentimes they will do this on stage for performances such as fashion shows, music/dance performances, skits, etc. A Drag Queen is someone who dresses in an exaggeratedly feminine way. A Drag King is someone who dresses in an exaggeratedly masculine way. A Drag Monarch/Drag Queer is someone who dresses in an exaggeratedly androgynous or aporine way. A Drag Monster is someone who dresses in an exaggeratedly inhuman way, often also with exaggerated femininity or masculinity integrated (ie; a hyperfeminine Godzilla outfit.)

Polyamory labelled by attraction:

[PT: Polyamory labelled by attraction:]

Polyamsensual: A polyamorous senseship. Polyerosous: A polyamorous intimaship and/or casual relationship. Polyaffectionate/Polyplatonic: An umbrella term for people who have polyamorous passionate friendships, QPRs, and/or alterous relationship. Polyamalterous is a subset describing specifically polyamorous alterous relationships.

Polyamory labelled by gender:

[PT: Polyamory labelled by gender:]

Polygyny: A man (or mingender person) who is in a relationship with multiple women (or fingender people), and is not dating anyone of a strictly non-feminine gender. Polyandry: A woman (or fingender person) who is in a relationship with multiple men (or mingender people), and is not dating anyone of a strictly non-masculine gender. Polysapphic: A person (usually a fingender person) who is in a queerfeminine or genderqueer relationship with multiple people. This often describes a woman (or fingender person) who is in a relationship with multiple women (or fingender people). Polyachillean: A person (usually a mingender person) who is in a queermasculine or genderqueer relationship with multiple people. This often describes a man (or mingender person) who is in a relationship with multiple men (or mingender people). Polyduaric: A binary-gendered person who is in a relationship with multiple other binary-gendered people. Polybinitian: A binary person who is in a relationship with multiple enben, and is not dating anyone of a strictly binary gender. Polytrixic: An enban who is in a relationship with multiple queerfeminine (or otherwise genderqueer) people. This often describes an enban who is in a relationship with multiple women (or fingender people.) Polytoric: An enban who is in a relationship with multiple queermasculine (or otherwise genderqueer) people. This often describes an enban who is in a relationship with multiple men (or mingender people.) Polytiric/Polyordrisian: An enban who is in a relationship with multiple binary-gendered people and/or a mix of mingender & fingender people. Polyenbian: An enban who is in a relationship with multiple enben (or genderqueer binary people). Duogamy: A person who is dating (only) two people, each with different types of genders (ie; a person in a relationship with a man and a woman, a person who is in a relationship with a neutrois and androgyne person, etc.)

Polyamory labelled by number:

[PT: Polyamory labelled by number:]

Triad: A relationship with three members. A Full Triad is a triad where all three members are dating. A V Triad/Vee Triad is a relationship where one person is dating two people, but those two people aren’t dating each other. A T Triad/Tee Triad is a relationship where all three members are dating, however if one member were to breakup, the other two would breakup as well due to the relationship feeling incomplete.  Quad: A relationship with four members. A Full Quad is a quad where all four members are dating. A Complex Quad/Triple Triad is a relationship that is almost a full quad, however two members are not dating each other. Plus One Polyamory/Exterior Angled Polyamory is a quad where three members are all dating each other (forming a triad), however one member of the triad has an additional partner (who is not dating the other two), giving the relationship a fourth member. Arrow Polyamory is a quad where one person is dating three people, but none of those three people are dating each other. Double V Polyamory is a quad where two V triads connect. N Polyamory/Fluid Chain Polyamory is a quad where two couples are connected by one member of each couple dating each other.

Pentad: A relationship with five members. Heptad: A relationship with six members. Septad: A relationship with seven members. Octad: A relationship with eight members. Nonad: A relationship with nine members. Decad: A relationship with ten members.  Ultrad: A relationship with more than ten members. 

Polyamory labelled by partner/logistical dynamics:

[PT: Polyamory labelled by partner/logistical dynamics:]

Kitchen Table Polyamory/KTP: A structure where all of the paramours or metamours have close relationships, and frequently interact. The metaphor is that people in a KTP relationship would “all gather around a dinner table to have dinner together on a frequent basis.” Garden Party Polyamory/GTP: A structure where the paramours or metamours interact with each other less frequently than with KTP, but are still relatively well-acquainted. The metaphor used is that people in a GTP relationship would “all meet up during special occasions (garden party, neighborhood grill party, birthday party, etc), but wouldn’t necessarily go out of their way to interact with one another aside from that.” There might be a few close relationships, but not enough to constitute a KTP.   Parallel Polyamory: A structure where the paramours do not discuss the relationships of metamours with each other, but still know of the metamours existence and baseline information (ie; age, name, pronouns, etc.) They may also be close with their partner’s metamours, but do not discuss the relationships. For example, Miram is dating Tomas, Olivia, and Lora - Tomas is friends with Olivia and Lora, however he prefers not to hear about Olivia & Lora’s romantic or sexual involvements with Miram. Egalitarian Polyamory: A structure where all paramours and metamours have equal control over relationship decisions (finances, scheduling, etc) and equal time/effort spent together. Hierarchical Polyamory: A structure where different paramours/metamours have different “ranks” in the relationship, and are assigned different levels of responsibility and effort. This is sorted into three tiers - primary, secondary, and tertiary. People can have one or multiple partners in each category - it just depends on the individual (ie; a person who has five primary partners, one secondary partner, and two tertiary partners.)  Primary Partner describes a partner with the highest priority. They are usually nesting partners and often have the most control of finances and decision making for the polycule. Secondary Partner describes a partner with a lower degree of involvement than a primary partner. How low that degree is depends on whether there are also tertiary partners involved. Tertiary Partner describes a partner with a lower degree of involvement than a secondary partner.   A Competitive Relationship is a hierarchical relationship where the ranks (primary, secondary, or tertiary) are determined based on a frequent (ie; monthly) competition. This competition is done in good fun (ie; a building competition in Minecraft, a board game, a water gun fight, etc), and there are some pre-established rules for the winners (ie; “don’t overspend our shared money.”) Solo Polyamory/Free Relations: A polyamorous relationship where a person has intimate relationships with others, while prioritizing oneself. It may be described as “making oneself the primary partner, and all other partners are secondary or tertiary.” Solo polyamorists don’t desire a relationship-centric life; they may not wish to share homes or finances with their partners. They still tend to their partners’ emotional needs, and do not neglect them; they just live a self-focused life (which all partners are aware of before joining the relationship.) Some solo polyamorists refer to themselves as Singleish. Equiamory/Pluriamory/Synamory/Polyfidelity/Polyexclusivity/Polyfaithful: A structure where every member of the relationship is equal (egalitarian) and are all dating each other. There are no metamours, only paramours. An equiamorous relationship might be called a Pluriad/Group Relationship. Paxamory: A structure where a person desires for only a few partners, and for their partners to either only date each other and/or only have a select few metamours. They wish for their polycule to be small, and to close the relationship once everyone has selected their few partners. It could be egalitarian or hierarchical. 

Rotationship: A polyamorous relationship where four (or more) people regularly swap out the housing locations of partners on a scheduled or semi-scheduled basis. The swap can be even or odd, depending on the number of partners. It can be done for partners who live close by, or partners who are long distance. If the partners live close by, they can still meet up for dates or hangouts; it is simply their housing that changes.

Reproamory: A polyamorous relationship where a person starts a polycule or adds a new partner to their polycule, for the purpose of reproduction. This could be due to the previously established partners having incompatible sexes for reproduction, due to infertility issues with previously established partners, etc.

Line Relationship: A polyamorous setup, where new younger partners are added into the relationship whenever the older partners age. The oldest partners may not date the youngest partners, depending on how large the age gap is (however, the line ONLY includes people who are 18+.) Line relationships typically start as a way to continue the polycule through generations.

For example, there are three partners - one is 53, one is 45, and one is 38. The 38 year old may begin dating a 30-year-old, the 30-year-old may start dating a 25-year-old, and the 25-year-old may start dating a 21-year-old. The oldest members of the group may refuse to date anyone younger than the 30-year-old, but still respect the youngest members as their metamours.

Open Relationship: A setup where people in a committed relationship (typically a couple, however there could be more than two members) decide to allow one another to date or engage intimately with people outside of their relationship. This could be done for exploratory purposes, for reproductive purposes, due to one partner having a lower libido or having different limitations in attraction, and/or due to one partner being monogamous while the other is not.

Geographical Non-Monogamy describes people who temporarily open their relationship (specifically open it to undedicated relations, such as hookups) when they are physically apart from their partners (ie; on vacation, on a work trip, etc) - once they are physically reunited, the relationship is closed again. This may be considered a form of mutoamory.

Swinging describes people who have a purely sexual open relationship, to engage in sexual social activities, sex work, or reproductive activities. Some examples of this include the following:

- A couple who goes to sex clubs and hooks up with people there.

- A quad who occasionally invites a random fifth person to hookup with them for a one night stand.

- A triad where one or multiple of the partners are sex workers, who regularly have sex with people outside of the relationship.

- Two (or more) couples who swap partners to have sex with. This may turn into a sexual rotationship, if it is done on a scheduled basis.

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Aspec Identities & Other Orientations 

[PT: Aspec Identities & other Orientations] 

Allo-: A person who experiences regular, strong levels of attraction. Allo- people feel attraction in either a burst of attraction (ie; instant sexual attraction) or a gradual progression (ie; progressively experiencing more and more social desire for someone), and the attraction levels do not dissipate unless they are experiencing personal unfulfillment (ie; an alloromantic person whose partner is not making time for them resulting in a loss of romantic feelings, an alloplatonic person whose friend is growing apart in life, etc.) Allo- people do not require deep connections to develop the initial attraction, however they may require a deeper connection in order for that attraction to remain.

Asocial (Aso): A person that does not experience allotypical social attraction. Bold Stripe Asocial describes a person who feels no social attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe asocials can have any attraction stance, including being socially-favorable. The Asocial Spectrum (Aso-Spec/Asospec) describes people who are asocial and/or greysocial, though it may also sometimes include allosocial people who are socially-indifferent, socially-averse, socially-repulsed, and/or socially-ambivalent.

Aemotional (Aemo): A person that does not experience allotypical emotional attraction. Bold Stripe Aemotional describes a person who feels no emotional attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe aemotionals can have any attraction stance, including being emotionally-favorable. The Aemotional Spectrum (Aemo-Spec/Aemospec) describes people who are aemotional and/or greyemotional, though it may also sometimes include alloemotional people who are emotionally-indifferent, emotionally-averse, emotionally-repulsed, and/or emotionally-ambivalent.

Aplatonic (Apl): A person that does not experience allotypical platonic attraction. Bold Stripe Aplatonic describes a person who feels no platonic attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe aplatonics can have any attraction stance, including being friendship-favorable. The Aplatonic Spectrum (Apl-Spec/Aplspec) describes people who are aplatonic and/or greyplatonic, though it may also sometimes include alloplatonic people who are friendship-indifferent, friendship-averse, friendship-repulsed, and/or friendship-ambivalent.

Afamilial (Afam): A person that does not experience allotypical familial attraction. Bold Stripe Afamilial describes a person who feels no familial attraction whatsoever. A bold stripe afamilials can have any attraction stance, including being family-favorable. The Afamilial Spectrum (Afam-Spec/Afamspec) describes people who are afamilial and/or greyfamilial, though it may also sometimes include allofamilial people who are family-indifferent, family-averse, family-repulsed, and/or family-ambivalent.

Aromantic (Aro): A person that does not experience allotypical romantic attraction. Green Stripe Aromantic/Bold Stripe Aromantic describes a person who feels no romantic attraction whatsoever. Green stripe aromantics can have any attraction stance, including being romance-favorable. The Aromantic Spectrum (Aro-Spec/Arospec) describes people who are aromantic and/or greyromantic, though it may also sometimes include alloromantic people who are romance-indifferent, romance-averse, romance-repulsed, and/or romance-ambivalent.

Aqueerplatonic (Aqp): A person that does not experience allotypical queerplatonic attraction. Bold Stripe Aqueerplatonic describes a person who feels no queerplatonic attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe aqueerplatonics can have any attraction stance, including being queerplatonic-favorable. The Aqueerplatonic Spectrum (Aqp-Spec/Aqpspec) describes people who are aqueerplatonic and/or greyqueerplatonic, though it may also sometimes include alloqueerplatonic people who are queerplatonic-indifferent, queerplatonic-averse, queerplatonic-repulsed, and/or queerplatonic-ambivalent.

Analterous (Analt): A person that does not experience allotypical alterous attraction. Bold Stripe Analterous describes a person who feels no alterous attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe analterous people can have any attraction stance, including being alterous-favorable. The Analterous Spectrum (Analt-Spec/Analtspec) describes people who are analterous and/or greyalterous, though it may also sometimes include alloalterous people who are alterous-indifferent, alterous-averse, alterous-repulsed, and/or alterous-ambivalent.

Aphysical (Aphys): A person that does not experience allotypical physical attraction. Bold Stripe Aphysical describes a person who feels no physical attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe aphysicals can have any attraction stance, including being physical-favorable. The Aphysical Spectrum (Aphys-Spec/Aphyspec) describes people who are aphysical and/or greyphysical, though it may also sometimes include allophysical people who are physical-indifferent, physical-averse, physical-repulsed, and/or physical-ambivalent.

Anaesthetic (Anae)/Nonaesthetic (Nonae): A person that does not experience allotypical aesthetic attraction. Bold Stripe Anaesthetic describes a person who feels no aesthetic attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe anaesthetics can have any attraction stance, including being look-favorable. The Anaesthetic Spectrum/Nonaesthetic Spectrum (Anae-Spec/Anaespec/Nonae-Spec/Nonaespec) describes people who are anaesthetic and/or greyaesthetic, though it may also sometimes include alloaesthetic people who are look-indifferent, look-averse, look-repulsed, and/or look-ambivalent.

Asensual (Asen): A person that does not experience allotypical sensual attraction. Bold Stripe Asensual describes a person who feels no sensual attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe asensuals can have any attraction stance, including being touch-favorable. The Asensual Spectrum (Asen-Spec/Asenspec) describes people who are asensual and/or greysensual, though it may also sometimes include allosensual people who are touch-indifferent, touch-averse, touch-repulsed, and/or touch-ambivalent.

Asexual (Ace): A person that does not experience allotypical sexual attraction. Black Stripe Asexual/Bold Stripe Asexual describes a person who feels no sexual attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe asexuals can have any attraction stance (including being sex-favorable) as well as any libido. The Asexual Spectrum (Ace-Spec/Acespec) describes people who are asexual and/or greysexual, though it may also sometimes include allosexual people who are hypolibidoist, non-libidoist, sex-indifferent, sex-averse, sex-repulsed, and/or sex-ambivalent.

Aroace: A person that does not experience allotypical romantic and sexual attraction. Black Stripe Aroace describes a person who feels no romantic or sexual attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe aroaces can have any attraction stance, including being sex-favorable and romance-favorable.

Anattractional: A person who does not experience allotypical attraction. Black Stripe Anattractional describes a person who feels no attraction whatsoever. Bold stripe annattractionals can have any attraction stances.

The Anattractional Spectrum (A-spec/Aspec) is an umbrella term for the asocial, aemotional, aplatonic, afamilial, aromantic, aqueerplatonic, analterous, aphysical, anaesthetic, asensual, and asexual spectrums. It may also sometimes include non-partnering people.

Being aqueerplatonic and analterous is considered a social norm for alloromantics in most locations, however there is often societal pressure for arospec people to experience queerplatonic or alterous attraction as a “replacement” for their romantic attraction. An alloromantic being aqp/analt is generally considered a nonqueer experience, while an aromantic being aqp/analt is generally considered queer.

Grey-: A person who experiences attraction on low levels and/or only under specific circumstances.

Pseudo-: A person who has an experience that mimics a form of attraction which they do not experience. For example, an asexual person who experiences sensual attraction that is so strong that it mimics sexual attraction may use the label pseudosexual. 

-Flux: A person whose level of attraction fluctuates. For example, an anaeflux person who fluctuates between being bold stripe anaesthetic, greyaesthetic, and alloaesthetic.

-Spike: A person who is usually bold stripe or grey-, but experiences rare intense spikes of attraction, which dissipate soon after. For example, an asenspike person who is usually greysensual, but every few months experiences strong sensual attraction.

-Jump: A person who usually experiences allo- levels of attraction but experiences rare intense drops of attraction for a short period of time, before their usual levels of attraction return. For example, an apl-jump person who is usually alloplatonic, but every few years experiences a week or two of aplatonicism.

Aego-: An a-spec term for a person who enjoys/experiences an aspect of attraction, but feels repulsed or indifferent about engaging with others in real life. A person may be aego in all forms of attraction, or only in one form (ie; being alloromantic but aegosexual, allorose but aegosensual, etc).

Some aego- experiences may include…

- Craving/indulging in attraction-based acts in private, but feeling distaste or disinterest about including others (ie; An aegosexual person who masturbates, but feels repulsed about having sex.)

- Having fantasies, but only ever imagining other people, never themself (ie; An aegosensual person who imagines people cuddling, but feels disinterested at the idea of themself being involved.)

- Having fantasies, but every other person is faceless or unidentifiable (ie; An aegoromantic person who imagines a wedding with a blacked-out figure, but the idea of marrying someone in reality repulses them.)

- Having unachievable fantasies that cannot be recreated in reality (ie; An aegoalterous person who imagines having an astronaut x extraterrestrial relationship with their hush, but feels indifferent about having a real relationship with their hush.)

- Only ever experiencing attraction towards unachievable people (ie; celebrities, sub-celebrities, fictional characters, historical figures, etc). This is also known as being Procul-. 

Procul- subtypes include Cele-/Celeb- (primary attraction to celebrities/sub-celebrities), Ficto- (primary attraction to fictional characters), Anime-/Manga- (primary attraction to anime/manga characters), Carto- (primary attraction to cartoon/comic characters), Inrea- (primary attraction to live action characters), Booklo-/Novelo- (primary attraction to book characters), Gamo- (primary attraction to video game characters), and Imagi- (primary attraction to characters that have no visual reference, such as characters from podcasts, audiobooks, books without photographs, etc.)

Litho-: An a-spec term for a person who experiences attraction, but loses it once it’s been reciprocated. If it is reciprocated, it will either gradually fade away with time, or immediately dissipate.

Aliqua-: An a-spec term for a person who experiences attraction under specific circumstances. These circumstances can be anything, and vary from person-to-person (ie; a person who only feels attraction during autumn.) Aliqua- subtypes include recipro-, poten-, loqui-, noeti-, demi-, fray-, apex-, valis-, den-, daleko-, blisko-, and chronosa-.

Recipro- describes a person who can only reciprocate attraction, meaning that they only experience attraction towards people who confess that they are attracted to them first, or people who they notice are attracted to them first. Their newfound attraction could either flood them all at once, or it could slowly begin building once they discover the person is interested in them.

Poten- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone who they know has the potential to reciprocate. For example, a gay man who discovers that their coworker is achillean, and begins to develop attraction towards their coworker as a result. The coworker doesn’t have to confess first, and may not actually be interested in them; it is simply the potential of a relationship that allows the attraction to develop.

Loqui- describes a person who only feels attracted towards someone that they have individually interacted with before. This does not mean that they will be attracted to every person they interact with; it’s just that interacting with someone is what opens the potential for attraction. Some loqui- people are only able to experience attraction towards people they have one-on-one interactions with, while other loqui- people can develop attraction to people they’ve interacted with in group settings as well. They cannot develop attraction towards peers they’ve never spoken to, strangers they haven’t spoken to, celebrities/sub-celebrities that they’ve never met, fictional characters, historical figures, etc.

Noeti- describes a person who only feels attracted towards someone that they have a mental connection with. This mental connection could be religious beliefs, political beliefs, moral beliefs, special interests/hyperfixations, shared hobbies, or just general shared mindsets. Emotional closeness is not necessary for attraction to develop - only mental closeness is necessary.

Demi- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone that they have a deep personal connection with. It may take weeks, months, or even years for a demi- person to develop attraction towards somebody, depending on how often and in-depth they talk to this person. It differs from noeti-, because demi- people can develop attraction towards people with vastly different mindsets to oneself (so long as they have an emotional connection), while noeti- people cannot.

Fray- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone that they do not know well. As they get to know someone, their attraction fades away. It is considered the opposite of noeti- and demi-.

Apex- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone that they have a deep personal connection with - however, once the relationship deepens even further, the attraction fades away again. The attraction is brief and inevitable to fade every time they develop feelings for someone they grow close to. Apex- is considered a mix of demi- and fray-, where demi-attraction leads into fray-attraction.

Valis-/Igcedimus describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone that they do not know well. As they get to know someone, their attraction fades away - however, once the relationship deepens even further, the attraction begins to return. Valis- is considered a mix of fray- and demi-, where fray-attraction leads into demi-attraction.

Den-/Ochi- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone they are not interacting with. Once they interact with a person again, the attraction either pauses, begins to fade, or instantly dissipates. It may or may not resume/return again as they spend time apart.

Daleko- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone they are physically distant with. Daleko- people tend to prefer long-distance relationships and calls/texting over meeting in-person. If they meet in-person, their attraction either pauses, begins to fade, or instantly dissipates. It may or may not resume/return again as they go back to long-distance.

Blisko- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone they are in the physical presence of. Blisko- people may only experience attraction during face-to-face interactions, or they may also experience it during video calls or while looking at photos.

Chronosa- describes a person who only feels attraction towards someone after a long amount of time. Unlike demi-, it doesn’t take knowing someone well; just knowing them for a long time. Sometimes chronosa- people can tell that they will develop attraction towards someone before it happens, and can take steps to prepare for it.

Cupio-: An a-spec term for a person who does not experience a specific type of attraction, but desires a relationship/experience based upon that attraction (ie; a bold stripe aromantic person who desires a romance-based relationship.) Fray- or apex- people might identify as cupio- if they decide to continue a relationship with someone, even after their attraction fades. People with attraction-based/relation-based jobs may use this label as well (ie; sex workers who have sexual interactions with people they are not attracted to.)

The cupio- label may be applied to specific genders. For example, a person who is triaqueerplatonic, but cupioqueerplatonic towards binary genders.

Cupiohex describes someone that is mono straight/strayt, but engages in sapphic/achillean (possibly certain types of diamoric) relationships/experiences. Cupiogex describes someone that is mono uranian or mono lesbian, but engages in straight relationships/experiences.

Orchid-: An a-spec term for someone that feels attraction, but is incapable of acting upon it due to mental or physical disconnect. Orchid- people have never felt the desire to act upon their attraction.

Nopota-: An a-spec term for someone that feels attraction, but does not have the energy to act on it. This could be due to neurodivergence, trauma, disability/dysfunction, or it could have no specific reason. Unlike orchid- people, nopota- people do desire to act upon their attraction; they are simply incapable of it. 

Woland-: An a-spec term for someone whose attraction decreases based upon their disability. For example, someone who becomes fully asexual whenever their chronic pain spikes up. Not all disabled people are woland-.

-vague: An a-spec term for someone who has limited attraction due to their neurodivergence. For example, a person who is touch-repulsed due to being a germaphobe, and feels as though their touch-repulsion limits their ability to feel sensual or sexual attraction. Not all neurodivergent people are -vague.

Asovague is for social attraction, Aemovague is for emotional attraction, Aplvague is for platonic attraction, Afamvague is for familial attraction, Arovague is for romantic attraction, Aqpvague is for queerplatonic attraction, Analtvague is for alterous attraction, Aphysvague is for physical attraction, Anaevague is for aesthetic attraction, Asenvague is for sensual attraction, Acevague is for sexual attraction, Aroacevague/Arosevague is for sexual & romantic attraction, and Awavague is for waveric attraction. 

Eras-: An a-spec term for someone who feels as though they used to be allo-, but their attraction was erased. Caed- is the same as eras-, but specifically for someone who lost their attraction due to trauma. For both eras- and caed-, traces of their attraction may still remain.

Eligere-: An a-spec term for someone who can actively choose who they are attracted to, and ignite feelings of attraction at will. They may be able to ignite their attraction on the spot, or they may need time to focus on the person and build the attraction.

Anseqresexual: An ace-spec term for someone that only feels sexual attraction if no romantic attraction is involved. What counts as “romantic” depends on the individual. For example, Zym is anseqresexual, and has a romantic relationship with Alexni, and a sexual relationship with Galaxis. If Galaxis expresses romantic interest (such as offering to go on a date), Zym feels disinterested or repulsed by it - and vice versa if Alexni expresses sexual interest. 

Another example is that Zym has a romantic and sexual relationship with Suko, but keeps both aspects separated. If Suko mixes romantic gestures with sexual ones (ie; putting rose petals on the bed, using a romantic nickname, etc), Zym feels disinterested in engaging further. However, if Suko keeps both things separated - such as having a date in the morning, and engaging in sex during the night, with no overlap - Zym would be interested.

Ansequencesexual: An ace-spec term for someone that only feels sexual attraction to people if no romantic attraction is felt. If romantic attraction develops, the sexual attraction fades, as if the romantic attraction is taking its place. They may still have sexual relationships for the sake of libido, physical intimacy with their partner, physical pleasure, etc.

Ansequenceromantic: An aro-spec term for someone that only feels romantic attraction to people if no sexual attraction is felt. If sexual attraction develops, the romantic attraction fades, as if the sexual attraction is taking its place.

Ansequencerose: An aro-spec and ace-spec term for someone that is both ansequencesexual and ansequenceromantic. If they feel sexual attraction to someone first, and romantic attraction develops, the romantic attraction takes the place of the sexual attraction. If they feel romantic attraction to someone first, and sexual attraction develops, the sexual attraction takes the place of the romantic attraction.

Orgasace describes someone who is incapable of orgasming, due to losing their sexual attraction towards the person they are engaging sexually with at the last moment. 

Orgasflux describes someone who fluctuates between being capable of orgasming, and being orgasace. Orgasspike describes someone who is usually incapable of orgasming due to losing their sexual attraction last second, but on rare and sudden spikes of being capable of orgasm. 

Orgasexceptis describes someone who is only capable of orgasming with one or a few select people, unrelated to the sexual skill of the person/people (ie; a polyamorous person who can only orgasm with one of their partners, despite the other partners being sexually skilled and not doing anything wrong.)

Uni-: An a-spec identity, in which a person is only attracted to a singular person for a very long period of time, potentially their entire lifetime. For example, a uniromantic person who is only attracted to one person for a decade, and once the decade is over, they finally develop a crush on a second person. This does not necessarily mean that they obsessed over their crush for all those years - their attraction may have faded rather quickly - it is just that they did not experience a second crush for a very long time.

A uni- person does not have to be close to the person they experienced attraction towards. For example, they may have experienced attraction towards a stranger.

Soloamare is similar to uni-, but instead of being attracted to only one person, they are attracted to a select few people.

Auto-: A term describing a person that is attracted to oneself. Most people experience small amounts of self-attraction (ie; looking at oneself in the mirror and thinking “I look nice today”), however auto- people experience it at a high enough level that it is considered significant. 

Auto- people may be primarily or exclusively attracted to themself, or they may experience attraction to both themself and other people. If they experience attraction to other people, they may use additional labels (ie; a neutrois person that is attracted to themself and women may use the term bi-auto, biauto, auto-bi, autobi, etc.) Even if a person is exclusively self-attracted, these additional labels might be used by multigender autos who are only attracted to themself when they are a specific gender, or autos who are only attracted to themself with specific presentations (ie; a fin-auto person who is only attracted to themself when dressed femininely).

Auto attraction is not the same as selfishness or egoism. An auto person can be humble (or even have low self-esteem), while still finding themself attractive.

Self-Partnering: A term describing a person who dates oneself. They may or may not be auto- as well, or they may be dating oneself for other reasons, such as spiritual reasons, as a political statement, etc. Autoamory describes a person who dates oneself while also dating other people.

Autospec: An umbrella term for all auto- orientations, including self-partnering and autoamory.

Ecto-: A person who is exclusively attracted to (and dating, if they are interested in dating) people other than oneself; the opposite of auto-.

Objectum/Pygmalio-: Attraction towards objects. These objects can be physical (ie; consumable items, cloth items, decorative items, toys, technological items, furniture, plants, buildings, physical art, etc) or non-physical (ie; flavors, music, logos, programs, digital art, etc.) Objectum people may be attracted to specific types of objects (ie; only attracted to plants and wooden furniture), or attracted to any type of object. 

Many (but not all) objectum people are neurodivergent in some way (typically with a neurodevelopmental disability or synaesthesia, but other neurodivergence can apply as well), or believe in animism (the concept that objects have souls.) Some objectum people apply personalities and identities onto the objects they are attracted to, while others are attracted to objects without any personality/identity being applied.

Objectum people may be exclusively attracted to objects, or they might be attracted to people as well. If an objectum person is only attracted to objects that they give specific gendered identities to, they may use an additional label to describe that (ie; a woman who is only attracted to objects that they view as “women” may call themself lesbian-objectum/objectum-lesbian/lesbijectum/objectbian.)

Objectum people often refer to the objects of their attraction as Beloved Objects. Beloved objects can be private (objects that a person owns) or public (objects that are publicly available, such as a slide at a public park.)

Idisexual: A label describing someone that is not sexually attracted to sex traits, but is sexually attracted to other traits instead. This could be physical traits (ie; tattoos, skin tags, height, hair color, etc) or non-physical traits (gestures, hobbies, fashion, titles, names, etc.) They may or may not consider themself to be ace-spec.

Pronoun-/Prono-: A label describing someone who is only attracted to people who use specific pronouns (ie; a person who is attracted to people who use neopronouns.) For some people, this attraction is gender-specific and may be combined with another label (ie; a a prono-triasexual who is only attracted to non-binary people who use xe/xem, xe/xer, ze/zem, or zi/zer, or similar pronouns), while for other people this term this term is used to describe attraction to people regardless of gender (ie; a person who is attracted to people who use she/her pronouns, regardless of whether they are a woman, non-binary, a pronoun non-conforming man, etc.) 

Nomine- describes someone who is only attracted to people who use specific names (ie; someone who is only attracted to people who use the name Jess/Jesse, Jessie, or Jessica.)