Tumbling through life.

The way OP abstracted it makes it sound weird, but this is the normal, expected behavior.

Think about it: if you have a friend with photosensitive epilepsy or migraines, you generally warn them about flashing lights. Same goes for your friend in recovery with alcohol. Same goes for your friend with sensory processing issues with loudness. (In some of these cases it would happen as part of the planning process, not when you're about to walk through the door.)

"Bunch of us are going to Sammy's this weekend, do you want to come? Just so you know, people will be drinking."

This is not weird.

"It's going to be loud in here, you might want to put in your ear plugs"

This is not weird.

If you don't want to pursue an autism or adhd diagnosis and you have access to a doctor or therapist you can get them to write you a note attesting to a symptom of your neurodivergence (rather than naming the condition itself) and stating the need for accommodation. 

It's something my therapist told me about when we were still working in offices. I have sensory processing issues and on multiple occasions the noise in my office was so bad I broke the skin on my hand clenching my fist. 

if a little trans boy comes out to his parents & is like 4 all youd do for his transition is cut his hair, buy a new wardrobe, & switch pronouns & possibly change names

no one is gonna put a little 4 year old on testosterone OR puberty blockers until theyre actually about to start puberty & then they give them a few years to really decide if they want to start hormones

Happy pride month to those who are proud

Happy pride month to those who are out

Happy pride month to those who are closeted

Happy pride month if you’re trying to figure yourself out

Happy pride month if you’ve known for years

Happy pride month to those who it’s their first

Happy pride month to those who have celebrated for years

Happy pride month to those who are afraid to celebrate

Happy pride month to those who will scream it from the rooftops

ADHD, & Autistic Folk:

It takes too long.

There is too much going on.

Do I look like I can remember every single fucking law and sign???

WHERE IS THE FUCKING SPEED LIMIT???????????

I have shitty directional sense so I am bound to get lost.

I will piss off other drivers with my bullshit and someone may have violent road rage.

If I do the wrong thing I could get a ticket and have to pay that - or crash, and then have to pay to fix/replace my car, still pay a ticket. And oh yeah, I could hurt myself or someone else, which means the hospital, or even a fucking funeral!

And I have to do all this TWICE at a minimum.