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Had to draw them
I think people need to get used to the idea that most things happen by accident, including systems of oppression.
I've seen so many people talk about how certain types of discrimination exist specifically and deliberately to uphold capitalism or something, and most of the time they're just... things that happened. Bad habits we got into as a society, long before anyone alive today was born.
I really do think we need to stop saying "this behavior was designed to further systems of oppression," and start saying "this behavior does further systems of oppression, deliberately or not." It makes people more likely to listen to you, since you're not accusing them of being an evil oppressor who hurts people on purpose, and it makes you less likely to fall into conspiracy theories and us-vs-them thinking.
systems are very good at being self-perpetuating once they're in place
Characterizing all systemic oppression as "accidental" is just as incorrect and potentially dangerous as characterizing all of it as a conspiracy.
Like, the root of anti-black racism was not an accident. It was economically convenient for major powers in Europe to have a group of people they could exploit for slave labor and a continent that could be looted for valuables by nations that were trying to become global empires. That's not accidental, even if it wasn't a conspiracy. No one sat down at a table and plotted it out illuminati-style, but pretending that these systems popped up "accidentally", a "bad habit" that occurred through no one's fault, is really, entirely incorrect.
Political leaders have exploited pre-existing biases for deliberate ends since the dawn of recorded history, whether they are consciously aware of what they're doing or not. And those pre-existing biases also did not develop "accidentally", but due to culture clashes (a culture with a cannibalism taboo interacting with a culture without one, for example), zenophobia, greedy political leaders, propaganda, confirmation bias, and other aspects of human psychology and culture.
There is a difference between falling prey to conspiratorial thinking and believing that prejudice is a purely individual matter of personal behavior that is never shaped by cultural power structures. Part of the point of discussing "systems of oppression" as opposed to "individual prejudice" is to point out the way that an individual's prejudice is informed by, and exploited by, systems of power. No one ever started a religious war, committed genocide, or enforced caste systems "accidentally." There are always powers at play, even if the vast majority of them predate modern capitalism in one way or another.
You're absolutely right that many things were deliberate to begin with. This is not the clearest my writing has ever been, and I always worry a bit when it starts getting notes again, because it doesn't say quite what I wanted it to say.
What I was trying to say, fundamentally, is that many things that were deliberate once are not deliberate anymore. That's what I meant by 'bad habits' - things may have started because of deliberate choices (generally bad ones, but not always; see the top comment for a good example of this), but that context has been lost, and now, a lot of the time, we just do things because 'that's how things are done.'
I initially wrote this because I'm Jewish, and I was tired of seeing people talk about shadowy elites making decisions that hurt all of us in secret back rooms like they weren't parroting Nazi talking points. I was tired of seeing people practically quoting The Protocols of the Elders of Zion without seeming to realize that's what they were doing. Oppression is a many-layered beast, and some things are very much deliberate, but I think there are fewer of those than people are comfortable with. There is very rarely a single enemy, or even a small group of enemies, that you can pinpoint as the source of oppression - that's why we talk about systems of oppression in the first place.
Would getting rid of billionaires help the world economy begin to recover from the stagnancy and poverty it's been falling into over the years? Absolutely. Would it solve racism, since racism and classism are intimately tied - and, as you pointed out, since slavery, one of the forces that still echoes through and drives antiblack racism to this day, was itself initially driven by economic decisions? Absolutely not, and the idea that it would is one I've seen far too often. Racism is deeply entrenched in our society, legally and socially as well as economically. People are not going to forget their prejudice just because they're able to feed themselves and keep a roof over their heads. The laws that continue to oppress people of color and even force them into modern-day slavery are not going to rewrite themselves. Because at this point, that's 'just the way things are done.'
If we want to get anywhere with fighting systems of oppression, we have to let go of the idea that there is a bad guy we can get rid of to fix everything.
Thank you for responding so thoughtfully to my addition! I was afraid I came off as a bit combative, so thank you for clarifying your original point despite that. It's always so refreshing when you can have a genuine conversation with a stranger on the internet, you know?
I do think we broadly agree! It's completely true that systems of oppression can't be dissolved simply by finding the "right person" or "right group of people" to target. Even when there are genuinely dangerous, bigoted people who are driving oppressive systems (see billionaires, or the leaders of certain political administrations) removing them from power wouldn't solve anything overnight.
And on top of that, there is always a danger of misattributing the people who actually need to be removed from positions of power and punching down the social pecking order instead of punching up. Many people who get into conspiracy theories start out by recognizing that there is real systemic inequality in the world, only to have that genuine frustration with those-in-power be diverted onto completely innocent groups who have little to no systematic privilege to begin with, much less a secret council sinisterly controlling the world. (The most obvious example being antisemitic conspiracy theories, though you can also see similar beliefs among anti-trans bigots.) It’s always easier to punch down than up, and bullying those with less power than you have yourself is seductively satisfying.
There are no grand conspiracies orchestrated by a shadowy organization outside the public eye. In contrast, most of the most dangerous people in the world are extremely public--your Donald Trumps, your Jeff Bezoses. And much of the work of upholding systems of oppression doesn't even come from them, but from ordinary people who, without any initial malicious intent at all, imitate the systems they were born into. The people who refuse to vote or vote for candidates who promise them easy cathartic solutions to complex issues, who give into suspicion of their neighbors, who repeat bigoted stereotypes without considering their ramifications. I might not call it "accidental", per se, but I would say that a lot of bigotry is thoughtless.
Which might sound bleak on the surface, but the truth is that people, en masse, are often much easier to convince to leave their bigotries behind than you might expect. Education, empathy, diverse communities, the chance to live alongside people who are different from us--these are all valuable tools in dismantling oppressive systems. Perhaps the most valuable ones we have.
There are no glorious revolutions, only meaningful work.
And on top of that, there is always a danger of misattributing the people who actually need to be removed from positions of power and punching down the social pecking order instead of punching up. [...] It’s always easier to punch down than up, and bullying those with less power than you have yourself is seductively satisfying.
see also, punching laterally while under the impression one's punching up. because between people with only a little more power than one has oneself and people with a great deal more power than the previous group, who's a lot more likely to be in punching range? and who's a lot less likely to punch back with much more force than one used oneself?
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"If you're still having fun in your 30s you're functionally brain damaged" sure is a take.
Just because you want to be a soulless soot bag of a human doesn't mean you can just tell others they have to be that too Gregory!
Stars forbid someone does not want to be a dull husk of a human.
Stars forbid someone
does not want to be a dull
husk of a human.
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It's hard to say this without sounding like a right wing dickhead, but the thing about progressive spaces is that they may naturally attract people who are always on the lookout for excuses to start a fight. Like you can find yourself faced with someone whose political outrage is totally justified, and whose humanitarian ideals are right on the money, but simultaneously they are carrying a ton of psychological baggage about being wronged and getting revenge, and they will exploit literally any opportunity to live out this psychodrama with anyone in their line of vision. I have thought of several related anecdotes since I started typing this post, but I'll limit myself to the thing that inspired it, which is that I just visited this ultra-lefty cafe/bike shop/community gathering space where I've heard that the proprietor is constantly in a fight with everyone around her. When I paid for my stuff I noticed that there was no tip option, but I thought I had heard something about this, so I snuck away to look at the website and it made me really glad I didn't ask! I think there should have been a really enticing and exciting way for her to say "I've decided to be the change I want to see in the world, so I'm paying my baristas a full living wage, I'm making sure EVERYONE feels welcome and comfortable here, and I'm selling products I believe in!" -- but instead all the web copy sounded more like "You're either with me or against me, you're a fucking piece of shit asshole if you can't handle the inclusive atmosphere here, and by the way tipping is for fascist cavemen and if you ever try to tip someone you are refusing to relate to them authentically and you are enforcing a dangerous and evil power dynamic that should be purged from human society (so therefore I pay my staff well)." Like everything she stood for was totally agreeable, but why did she have to put it like it was directed at her worst enemy, rather than at the kinds of people she wants to attract? If the word on the street is to be believed, the reason for this posturing is that she spends quite a lot of energy making as many enemies as possible, and she probably likes it that way. I guess I'm just reminding myself, and perhaps others, that while one might think of "politics" as being broadly social and theoretical, no individual can fully separate the political from the intimately personal. Even somebody who seems to want to uplift and protect their fellow humans may be getting some perverse inner satisfaction out of that valiant crusade, and you may never realize it until you find yourself in a confusing fight with them.
I ran a LARP for a few years explicitly aimed at being queer friendly and accessible, and eventually cut it short mainly for this exact reason. You wouldn’t believe the amount of abuse my staff and I took for reasons that felt genuinely insane. I got called ableist for telling someone they couldn’t be invincible in my game of make believe, more than once. Defended myself, multiple Jewish players, and a conversion student from accusations of antisemitism based on alleged lore we’d never written / suggested / that simply and plainly did not exist in game. Had a staffer try to talk to someone about how a joke she made was uncomfortable only for this person to retaliate in epic proportions full white woman crocodile tears style, trying to get this staffer removed and eventually escalating into a full public hate campaign when she didn’t get her way. All that’s still just the tip of the iceberg.
Progressive spaces are naturally populated by traumatized people, and unfortunately trauma makes people more difficult. (I’m not excluded in that. No one is.) Running a progressive space is doubly difficult because a lot of left-facing trauma was inflicted by authority, so you’re setting yourself up to be the windmill that someone tilts their displaced rage at. I don’t really know what the solution is, but I do know that this is one of the huge reasons it’s so hard to find community: the people with a bone to pick can’t reach the ones who actually hurt them, but they’ll sure find you along the way, and the safer they feel around you the safer they’ll feel coming after you.
Once again I am begging everyone to read Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It by Chris Voss.
Voss spent 25 years as a hostage negotiator, meaning that his job was to talk to guys on the phone who had literal guns to innocent people's heads. He KNOWS how to compassionately de-escalate a conflict and have productive, constructive conversations with people who are highly activated and reactive.
Especially if you are neurodivergent, read this book. The communication tools are specific, concrete, easy to implement, and will dramatically reduce the psychic damage you're taking just from trying to navigate the conversation.
Adding the book Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. Rewired my brain and also changed how I communicate with myself, if that makes sense.
And there is an additional problem, which is that leftists are often uncomfortable being authorities themselves and acting like it. (Not saying this was true of any previous posters! It is simply a common Thing.) Leftists like being inclusive and being relaxed on rules. But the only way to make a truly safe space is to protect it, and that means having someone who is willing to say “no.” People feel safe when leadership has their back.
Sometimes you have to tell that woman that if she keeps picking fights she won’t have any allies to fight them. Sometimes you have to tell that guy that no, really, you have to shower sometimes, and the Stink Cloud is why people don’t want to hang out with you.
It’s okay to be the adult in the room. It is something to be done compassionately and authoritatively. I would probably drone on more in this post but my cat is headbutti g my phone out of my hands
People who are making posts telling us what is happening over on threads, twitter, and Instagram are like war correspondents sending us reports from the front.
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once you realize you don’t actually need to sleep, you can really (stops talking abruptly and stares straight ahead for 4 minutes)

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Had a dream there was a new six hour long HBomberGuy video that starts with him tryingnto debunk Daniel Molloys novel "Interview With The Vampire" as a fun short video. After thirty minutes in and pulling a "so obviously vampires arent real" thing he launches into a three hour tangent bringing up all the weird historical details that are completely accurate when you accounted for stuff like Louis saying the wrong cemetary or church name
Four hours in he breaks down and says "okay so, this would all point to actual pop rock artist Lestat De Lioncourt being a real vampire, and Kate pointed out he was playing in my town a couple weeks from when we were covering all this. So I called and asked him for an interview to see if I couldnt get a better feel for what was going on"
He then proceeded to take out colored contact lenses and remove the gloves hed been wearing the whole video to reveal he was a vampire and the title card just popped up saying "GUESS WHAT FUCKING HAPPENED" and I woke up before the next two hours of video could play
I think part of getting better is complete ego death. Like you’re not above setting a timer for 5 minutes and focusing on a task. You’re not above doing a very simple 3 minute workout to start. You’re not above reading for 10 minutes a day when you first get out of your reading slump, even if you used to read for hours. You’re not above starting slow and then building up to where you want to be/where you once were. What you are above is total inertia. Doing something really is better than doing nothing. Radically accept where you are, radically accept your limits, and go from there. Don’t let your ego get in the way.
If you’re pining you need to stop and pick a different tree. You know, spruce it up a little
I’m still proud of this post. It’s evergreen
I don’t know if this is an obvious take or a hot take, but I think people need to start re-framing feminism as the fight for body autonomy as opposed to whatever this second wave revival gender essentialist bullshit we have going on right now. Once you reframe it in this way, it’s easier to understand intersectionality and why cis women are not the only people who need feminism. The lack of body autonomy effects cis women, trans people, intersex people, disabled people, poc, homeless people, sex workers, etc. and your feminism needs to include and prioritise all of these groups of people (which will include men btw) because feminism is about autonomy, not about establishing a matriarchy. Body autonomy is the biggest threat to the patriarchy, both with reproductive rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and even the right to not be drafted into military services. Once body autonomy is established for everyone, the patriarchy no longer has a leg to stand on.
And body autonomy does include things that you don’t personally like either. I was prompted to write this post after a series of bad takes from progressives, but one of them was re-hashing the Sabrina Carpenter album cover drama with “I don’t think it’s conservative of me to think that the album cover is a bad look when we’ve seen images of women being abused in this way” because I do actually think you’ve failed to understand feminism by projecting your morals onto a woman who was consensually expressing her own autonomy just because she expressed it in a way that you didn’t like or that made you uncomfortable.
Body autonomy also means unhealthy choices. Body autonomy also means regret rates. Body autonomy also means freedom of sexuality. Body autonomy also means mutilation. If you believe body autonomy has limitations and exceptions, then your feminism is most likely surface level.
TERFs are some of the biggest opponents to body autonomy, and if you find yourself thinking “oh people can do whatever they want with their bodies as long as it doesn’t harm them or make others uncomfortable” then you are far more susceptible to TERF propaganda than you think.
ooooh the radfems are BIG mad about this one
some of you are so fucking talented and you’re using it to spread joy and happiness around for free
magnificent creatures, the lot of you

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