Keep seeing posts that are like "start a platonic polycule but it's a union" and "what if we had a polycule but there's no romance or sex we just fight fascism"
This makes me a bit sad. On the one hand there's a touch of kind of old school communist asceticism you got before the catgirls took over, where people would very seriously tell you that there won't be any faggots in the revolution because wanting to fuck is some kind of bourgeoise degeneracy. There's this sense that investing in relationships that are oriented to pleasure is somehow counter political, frivolous, a waste of energy.
And obviously there's a level of "stop making me hear about polycule and start doing something I actually respect" about it, which, go fuck yourself. It's important to them that it's nonsexual and nonromantic because they find that part gross.
But it also makes me a bit nostalgic for when the far right was cranking out memes showing us as Tom of Finland style muscle boys, bulges a-bulging, lifting our ski masks to make out, and we sent them to each other like this could be us <333
What if you had a polycule that had tons of sex and romance and unionism and fights fascism? What if the sex and romance didn't exist in competition with your deep moral and political convictions but was entangled with them? What if the way you care for each other romantically and sexually teaches you how to take political risks together and what to do when they get costly? What if after the action there was someone there to hold you and tell you that you were so brave and they love you?




















