VoidTheCat

be very aware for a user named ChocoChan.

shes been harassing people for sympathy for 4 years. i have the docs, and the toyhouse link to prove it.

(she may have rejoined artfight...)

when i did confront her privately about this and her actions in toyhouse she blocked me.

im not in artfight.

although i do not know if shes been harassing people currently, this cant go unoticed.

here are some docs, this is also avalible on toyhouse, but guests who are not signed up for toyhouse cannot accsess it...

so yeah here are some google docs from some people who had a rough time with her... :(

(i had a rough time with her as well)

She's also very quick to dogpile people (particularly those younger/ND but I don't believe that part is intentional) and then act like the victim–when the person she dogpiles hasn't done anything wrong other than give her a "bad vibe" or similar, or have the same behaviour ChocoChan does, without realising the hypocrisy of it all. She also blames being "witch-hunted" on other sites–but when you go to these other sites, you just see the horrible behaviour she has and can't call her out on it as it's "bullying" and "all wrong" ... sure, Jan.

She wreaks of internalised misogyny (calling other users [in this case, a minor] "bitch" and "slut", in passing, though I don't have proof) and a desire to be "popular" on the site–I believe purely for the attention it'd give her, laughably. She very quickly latches onto an idea (e.g. giving people free fanart, creating a list of people who abuse events [negative comments on characters, etc], calling out art thieves) but abandons it as soon as it doesn't give her loads of attention and praise immediately and outwardly acting jealous/two-faced when others get attention or praise for doing similar. Additionally, she won't give others support when she has received support from them–if one user is being harassed, she will only help them or console them if it can be seen to benefit her.

People have to walk around eggshells on her because one temper tantrum and it will be spun on the other person, not her, and she'll need to be coddled because she acts more immature than the teenagers she has drama with. I can't even block her because my mutual interacts sometimes and she (ChocoChan) would throw a fit over being blocked when she continually preaches about protecting her peace and blocking others.

Counting down the days until she goes on "hiatus" again because someone didn't compliment her yumeship properly or similar. Apologies for the long ask, but she truly is CharacterHub's first, and probably only, drama bug–and even then she's not even CH's because she's migrated from so many different sites because she simply can't change her attitude.

oh yeah, there’s another person but idk if they’re on CH much anymore (they were a TH migratee)

i regret to say that i did one of those like, DTOA things for choco when i was still in the server. fucking wild hearing she’s still up to her bullshit

WHAT. that's so overdramatic help me

She definitely is back because she sent a message in a chatroom that reads “Toyhouse loves to witchhunt people it doesn’t like for very small reasons. So yeah, TH is no option for me, since people hate my guts there. And Unvale is no option, because I’m perma banned there. And RefSheet wasn’t optimal, and is shut down since this month. CH is the only place left I can go to.”

Thing is, as soon as you look into the toyhouse or unvale things it totally falls apart! It’s not the sites’ fault at all, because she just sucks that bad. The th stuff was mentioned already on this blog so just search her name and it’ll come up. She likes saying that she was permabanned from unvale because she was trying to get them to take down a serial thief/tracer. The truth is she was just being a little baby about getting compliments and lashing out and manipulating everyone all over again, so I reported her for it, because unvale actually cares about their users (seeing as they target a younger audience with PG-13 guidelines, that’s wonderful). I think RefSheet is just here because she wasn’t using it right and didn’t want to figure it out so it’s just a genuine skill issue she’s once again blaming on everyone but herself.

At least she belongs on ch with all the other chaff lol

i mean yeah refsheet is confusing, but also if everywhere you go smells like shit, check your shoe. iirc she's doing artfight again this year which good lord

i almost feel bad that I've gotten like 5 asks about choco... but she's digging her own grave, people have laid out her issues in stark detail and she refuses to accept the criticism. It is probably easier to stay the same and lash when it feels like the entire internet hates you, so i have a bit of sympathy, but that's not an excuse for her behavior towards others. She says its caused her trauma and i genuinely believe her on that front as someone whose been through similar experiences... at a certain point though, she is continuing to purposefully place herself in traumatizing situations by engaging in harassment and drama.

when i was a super young [like 14 yrs old] critter with autism and issues around being defensive, I got called out on my bullshit and i was NOT happy, but after a period of sulking and drama, I still fucking changed my shit. Choco is 25. Choco, please fix your shit. if you have a therapist, SHOW them what you've been doing, don't just tell them because you are biased. I'd imagine a lot of people would welcome you with open arms if you cleaned up your act. change is hard and scary but it's worth it.

oh my god sobbing,,, i feel so bad posting only asks about her bc this is characterhub drama blog not chocochan drama blog but i publish what the people send and the people are pissed about One User In Particular

get to know us BONUS ROUND → day nineteen: character you relate to the most

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Bob the Tomato.

Dad’s doodles I did while camping.

LIVE WALLPAPER: wallpaper engine. only thing on here that costs any money (its like 5 bucks on steam). im sure theres free alternatives but this one has a lot of presets and stuff so its less hassle and its what i use. might be a bad idea for lower end pcs tho

CUSTOM TASKBAR: retrobar on github (lots of different options)

CUSTOM CURSOR: theres a lot of places to find these, but rw-designer open cursor library is a good place to start

DISCORD: betterdiscord, im using the clearvision v7 theme with a custom background

EXTENSIONS (these are for firefox, might or might not exist on other browsers):

tabliss for the new tab theme

stylus for tumblr -> specifically the 'tumblr - custom dashboard pallette' theme for colors + bg, and this for the pre-twitterifcation layout

enhancer for youtube for custom youtube colors

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