Family Ties in Witch Hat Atelier
I originally wrote all this as a response to this post but I thought I'd move it here and make a post of my own.
I think that there is a lot of commentary about the traditional household model in Witch Hat Atelier. When you first meet the witch world through Coco, there is an initial "saccharine" feeling to the arrangements in the atelier since everything seems so idyllic, like a child's paradise. I think that feeling is there on purpose to contrast and challenge the illusion of perfection later on. However, I also think that from the very beginning, the story is very focused on nontraditional family structures that are loving and supportive, and defends them as the better alternative to traditional structures that turn out to be toxic and detrimental to the children.
For starters, basically every familial bond we do see is not traditional. There's a lot of orphans/adoptive parents (like Custas or Coco), absent parents for one reason or another (like Agott, or also Coco pre-magic, with a single parent), or extended family arrangements (like Tartah, who lives with his grandpa). I feel like this is important, because a prevalent theme throughout the story is chosen family, and the way even blood relations have to be chosen as family for them to count as such.
The atelier also definitely serves as a sort of substitute/foster/adoptive home to Coco and pretty much to the other girls, with Qifrey and Olruggio as their guardians, but as Coco grows wiser and learns more, we start seeing that not everything is easy as it seems at first. A sweet beginning is however necessary so we understand why the girls are so loyal to Qifrey and Olruggio, something that matters more and more with each new obstacle they face.
As the story progresses, we can see the happy atmosphere in Qifrey's atelier is an exception. Most of the characters have been victims of or witness to some form of abuse or neglect, even the ones currently living with Qifrey. Kids who live in the main underwater city, for example, have a far more detached experience as the arrangements resemble more a boarding school than a home. Euini is an early example of a child with an emotionally abusive master, too. In theory, witch apprentices have more freedom than children in traditional familial arrangements. They can choose their masters, and could choose to leave them too, if they don't mesh or feel attacked. But Euini is a reminder that these systems don't work in favor of the child if the child believes he deserves the mistreatment. There are other examples too, over and over again, of young witches who attempt to get help as they face all kinds of harm, only to be brushed off by the adults who have them under their care. There is a clear and constant sense of violence and emotional manipulation through fear and shame making up the very fabric of the witch society.
Qifrey himself acknowledges down the line that he made a conscious effort to stay away from that environment, and to make his atelier a kinder and more welcoming place. In fact, he actively chooses students who have proven difficult or unfit in other spaces. The seemingly idyllic set up is in fact a construct (which might be part of why it feels "fake" or over the top at first), designed to protect the girls from a harsher environment that already exists and whom all have experienced. The structured domesticity serves a purpose, to imbue the students with self confidence and to give them a network of trusted adults they can go to with their issues. Unlike the expectations of traditional families, in which this happens because supposedly we are biologically engineered to "love each other", the mentoring from Qifrey and Olruggio is entirely an active choice. The fact they are both men is also, very plainly, incredibly significant. They are not married in any legal sense of the word, and they are both the same gender. Yet they are shown as a kinder and stronger household than many of the other more traditional arrangements we are told to uphold in society.
In addition, though all this is shown as well-intentioned (and effective in many ways!), one of the themes running throughout the manga is this idea that we can't live in a kind lie to avoid an ugly truth. The seemingly saccharine beginning is, to me, challenged most clearly with the silverwood arc. One of the truths we discover is that Qifrey himself confesses that he started the atelier for selfish reasons, and that through magic shenanigans, his emotional attachments issues are personified in an ailment of the body. He literally dies if he feels "at home." Even though he has gone to great efforts to build a home for his students, there is a barrier he has purposefully maintained by never showing his full self to those he loves. The idea that the perfect home is all "fake" or "engineered" reaches its highest point here. Even though Qifrey *wants* to belong, he never can, and pretends this isn't so. Obviously this dramatic situation is enhanced by the fact he is doing it as a promise. Olruggio sacrificed his memory to keep Qifrey alive, and Qifrey's sacrifice is the knowledge that he lies and hurts the person he loves most in exchange. Even the most seemingly ideal or pure bond between characters is tainted with violence and power imbalances, as if having to coexist with magic were violent on itself.
In my opinion all this ties to how witch society artificially builds difference between witches, brimmed caps, and "outsiders." If magic weren't so hidden and elitist, maybe nobody would've hurt Qifrey by poisoning him with silverwood, etc etc. Almost every personal harm the characters experience has come to pass due to systemic problems. To me the most poignant example is Galga and his boyfriend, Atwert. When Galga is forced to a memory wipe in the line of duty, the institution of the Knights Moralis, which had made him a cop in the first place, immediately tries to throw him away in an island of undesirables. The one person who doesn't give up is Atwert, who saves him by turning him into his apprentice. The story so far has made clear that master/student relationships resemble parent/child ones, so this one called my attention. It turns out that this is direct commentary on Japanese laws. I learned recently that in Japan, some same-sex couples have needed to resort to legal adoption to create a legal link between them. This way, the whole "next of kin" issue gets sorted when traditional marriage arrangements and benefits are not available. In WHA, the bonds of magic are more important than those of love, and Atwert uses this to protect Galga from mistreatment by literally adopting him and returning his personhood to him. An extremely unconventional solution to a systemic problem.
All this to say, over and over throughout the manga, I see the initial set up of the traditional family is examined and challenged. The strongest bonds all come from choice, and social injustice is always the first and main cause to many of the biggest individual problems. I feel like the initial impression that the atelier home life is too good to be true is on purpose. At first, through the eyes of Coco, we see a world of wonders. But this is a coming of age tale, and one of the most important lessons we all learn is to spot those cracks where darkness and injustice reside. The atelier life isn't "fake" in the sense that the love isn't there, we just don't see all its depths yet. That gets remedied as the story progresses, and Coco learns to see her fellow witches and her masters as fallible people, too. To me the beauty resides in that Coco never loses her sense of wonder or the strength of her morality. She just readjusts expectations, sees everyone's sharp edges, and learns to navigate them. Personally I love it. It makes things more real.